Follow Feng Xiaoyi and meet your best self
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The moon is full, and the water overflows. There is no perfect thing in this world, and there is no perfect person.
The fascinating statue of Venus in the Louvre is precisely because of her incompleteness.
The moving part of life is that it can't let people do whatever they want. It is destined to find the true self in some regrets.
Therefore, you can't force yourself to be a man, you must know how to do whatever it takes and let it go.
is like when you fall in love with someone and hope that the person is perfect, flawless, and in line with all your imagination.
But even if you do meet it, if you are together, you will become TA's imperfection, so it is not another regret!
Only when we accept those unsatisfactory, can we become open and open-minded.
is just like what the fat guy said in the comic movie "The Great Guardian":
When the East China Sea falls to the west, it is a day of sorrow and joy; if things do not take the corner, people will be comfortable and heart will be comfortable.
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Many people have asked the same question: What is the best state of life?
In fact, it means accepting the imperfect self and being able to look at the world with a peaceful heart.
A person’s happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. More is a burden, another kind of deficiency, less than a lack, another kind of excess.
Abandoning is not necessarily a loss, it may be a broader possession.
So you have to have a degree,Don't be too greedy for a cup of love, a three-pointer is just right.
It’s the same to love someone. Don’t just bump into someone you like, no matter what, there is no way out.
The harder you love, the weaker you are.
Love also needs space. Two people must have the freedom and distance to be alone. The tighter you push, the greater the pressure on each other.
When the other party can't satisfy your love's burning point, he will run away, and you will be injured in the end.
The best love is to pay 7 points of innocence, keep 3 points of sobriety, not too close, nor too far away, the mystery of seeing flowers in the mist is often the most attractive.
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The whole life of a person is actually a process of competing with oneself. When he was young, he was ignorant and fearless.
But in the end you will find that what really makes you happy and happy is the naive and innocent one.
So people must be able to reconcile themselves.
It is a very high state to live comfortably without paying too much attention to the eyes of others, and less comparing with others.
There is a life of gains and losses, and there is a rush. The loneliness of Emperor Caesar is because he can no longer find an opponent.
Looking back, we may all have made some mistakes, letting our hearts and minds feel uncomfortable, but because of the chaos, we have slowly learned to grow, and finally we can look at it all without surprise.
Buddha said that letting go is what you get.
This is not just about learning to let go of the past,It is even more important for us to let go of our obsessions. No one can do without regrets. We all have to accept the recklessness, arrogance, and arrogance that we once had.
Then find the meaning of existence, go to a life of 9 minutes, always leave a little lack, let yourself have room for thinking.
As we always say, the breeze is not dry and the sun is sunny. This is the most comfortable state for people.
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Life is like this, a journey of mountains and rivers, some people pass by in your world, some people choose to stay.
If you missed it, we sincerely bless you. It is fate to meet.
For those who stayed, we are sincere and sincere, we exchange our hearts with each other, warm each other, and grow old together.
When your heart is at peace, your eyes on things will become gentler, and your world will be clean if you lose a lot of care.
Always remember that our existence is not to pursue perfection, but to accept the regret of life.
Drinking is 3 points slightly drunk, lover is 7 points naive, and life is 9 points happiest.
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