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Text: Shili
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"You need to pay attention to the rules in doing things, and you need to pay attention to the laws. You understand the rules to avoid half the effort."
What his students said, Teacher Zhang is 65 years old this year and has long retired at home, but he is not idle at ordinary times. He occasionally does some things he likes, such as writing things. His students have always been I admire him very much, so I occasionally visit him.
Some time ago, a student encountered some problems in life, so he asked him for help, because everyone knows that Teacher Zhang is a very intelligent person, he can always point out the direction to others in the dark, let everyone See hope.
He told the students that people actually need to obey some laws in this life, and this is very important. In real life, many people happen to not understand this. This is the main reason why some people’s lives have not been particularly satisfactory. The reason lies.
Teacher Zhang said that people should abide by the following laws throughout their lives, so as to reduce the number of detours.
1. The better the relationship, the less you can’t work together
Many people think that since two people have a good relationship, it’s best to be colleagues or do business together, because they are inseparable and trust each other. In this way, we will feel very happy doing things together. In fact, this is a particularly ignorant thing.
Everyone has seen "Chinese Partners". This is a very interesting movie. It not only brings positive energy to everyone, but the most important thing is that in this show, everyone understands one thing, that It is that friends cannot do business together in partnership.
Maybe you have a good relationship at the beginning, but when you work together, you will encounter various problems.After all, in this way, your interests are connected together, and each has selfishness, so naturally there is no way to be as good as before.
The reason why two people have a good relationship is mostly because there is friendship, and friendship itself is pure and cannot be involved in any relationship of interest. This is the main reason why people with good relationships cannot work together.
Smart people understand this, so no matter what happens, they will never work with others casually, but some people don’t understand at all, and they regret it after they make a mistake. This is An extremely regrettable thing.
2. Don’t lend money to others casually
Regarding borrowing money, many people feel that it is helping others, especially those who have a good relationship with them, as long as they need it and they have the money to borrow, In fact, it is nothing to borrow, but have you ever thought that this matter is really not as simple as you think.
To give a very simple example, some time ago, Lao Wang was helpless because of borrowing money. A year ago, he lent the money to a friend of his, about 10,000 yuan.
Although not too much, he really needs money recently, and his friends have not meant to pay the money up to now, so he sent WeChat to mention the things that year, his friend said that he Always remember, only because of tight hands, so I did not return.
It didn’t matter at the beginning. The more Pharaoh mentioned it, his friends became a little impatient, but now he simply blocked Pharaoh. This incident made Pharaoh very angry and borrowed money back then. No credentials were left, after all, they were friends.
But now my friend is obviously unwilling to return, but his money is also obtained through his hard-earned money.
He is not a high-income group, his monthly income is only four thousand yuan, ten thousand yuan is equivalent to his three-month income, which is really annoying to him, but it It has already happened, and this can only be regarded as a long lesson at spending money.
It is easy to borrow money and it is difficult to ask for money. This seems to have become a social status quo. Based on this, everyone must consider various issues when lending money to others.
No matter what, everyone can't borrow money from others indiscriminately. You must first understand the character of the other person, otherwise you must not act rashly, so as not to let yourself be passive.
3. Learn to save money
You must learn to save money, because this is a very important thing. In real life, some people never know how to save money. Can live a lifetime.
But there is no such easy thing in this world. If you look carefully, you will find that everyone will encounter some crises, and will encounter some time when you need to spend money. But if you can’t get the money at this time, you will How to face the next life?
If you usually learn to save money, then in a few years you will find that you have a fortune. Even if your ability to save money is relatively poor, or the ability to make money is relatively poor, the money saved is limited, but absolutely not Put yourself into a trough, because you can at least get it when you need money.
At this time, you will not feel despair, you will not feel that you are suddenly thrown into the abyss.
4. Do not disclose your weaknesses
Do not expose your weaknesses to others, this is likely to become your fatal point in the future.
If you take a closer look, you will find that life is sometimes very interesting. The person who knows you best will become the person who threatens you most. Although you are very reluctant to face this matter, this is the truth.
In order to avoid this series of unnecessary things from happening, everyone must hide their weaknesses, no matter what happens at all times, in fact, this is also a way of self-protection.
5. Don’t talk about your sad things casually
Many people like to talk,They feel that they have to say something about their sadness so that they can make themselves better. In fact, this approach is very meaningless.
There is no real empathy in this world. Don’t bother to confide your sadness to others. Others won’t care.
If you meet people who are jealous of you or don’t want you to be good, your behavior happens to make people feel particularly happy. Based on this, you must not take risks, because this is fundamental meaningless.
6. Don't look down on anyone
Never look down on anyone, but in real life it seems that many people can't do this, they always vote for others at some point Contemptuous eyes, in fact, this is a kind of ignorance.
Thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi, life has been unpredictable. The person you despise today may stand in a position you can't look up to tomorrow.
This is a very common state of life. If you respect everyone, in the future that person will also respect you when he develops suddenly.
7. Don’t be afraid to trouble others
Many people are particularly afraid to trouble others in their lives. They feel that this matter is relatively unfavorable, and even some people feel embarrassed. In fact, you don’t need to in this way.
Do you think about this thing particularly interesting? If it is not because of mutual trouble, can friends become friends? People always have to deal with each other, how can they come together without dealing?
Based on this, everyone should not be afraid to trouble others. Sometimes it is okay to ask others for help. If others are willing to help, then you should also give the corresponding return. In this way, you will have one more friend over time.
8. Don’t cause trouble,Don’t be afraid of things
. Don’t cause trouble. No matter what age you are now, be a mature and stable person. Don’t confuse others at every turn, and don’t bring too much trouble to your own life. It is definitely not a good thing for you.
Of course, if you don’t be timid when encountering things, or even behave like a tortoise, this is naturally very wrong. You should be someone who doesn’t cause trouble, but is not afraid of death. This is what What a real man does.
In the path of life, everyone must remember the above rules, which are very important for everyone's life journey. As long as you keep them in mind, you will get different results in the future.
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