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My name is Xin Xiaomei, born in 1980s, I live in a prosperous second-tier city in Zhejiang Province, and I grew up beloved by my parents. After graduating from university, I became a teacher and found a husband who knows me warmly and wholeheartedly. He is handsome and has a good job. Two years after my marriage, I gave birth to a daughter. My husband refused to stay outside for one day on business trips. He was always worried that I was too tired to take my daughter by myself, so I would come back no matter how far or late it was. In the summer of 2009, he was on a business trip to a neighboring city. When he returned, it rained heavily and the highway was closed. His colleagues stayed and waited until the rain stopped the next day, but he still insisted on driving home in the rain to accompany me. Unexpectedly, it was this decision that kept us apart forever-he had a car accident on the way back and left my daughter and me forever. Although his company paid us nearly 3 million in compensation for work-related injuries, his daughter is only 6 months old, and the rest of her life will be without the company of her father. I will no longer have a lover to protect me from wind and rain. What use is more money? ?
After my husband left, I and my daughter have been living with my parents. I dare not go back to my original home, because everything there is painful for me. It took me two full years to relax. My mother felt it was time for me to start a new life, and started asking relatives and friends to introduce me to my boyfriend. After going around for more than half a year, there is no one close to the eye. Until one time, a relative introduced me to a man named Zheng Qi. Relatives said that he is a technical executive of a state-owned enterprise, with a high salary and good looks. I rushed to the agreed coffee shop that day, and at a glance I saw a tall man in a black shirt and black trousers sitting by the window. The afternoon spring light spilled on his face through the glass, his handsome face It seems to be gilded. He frowned slightly, staring thoughtfully at the phone on the table, his face looked a bit solemn. I don't know why, just by looking at it, I decided that the person who came to my blind date must be him. Yes, I fell in love with him at first sight. Zheng Qi is very polite, speaks not hurriedly, and is very cultivated. We talked for more than an hour, all about his work and my experience. As soon as he was about to talk about his life, he received a call and left in a hurry.
I still don't want to finish, but he stopped abruptly. This makes me a little bit nervous, doesn't he like me? When I got home, the introducer's relatives were waiting for me at my house. I was pleasantly surprised. I thought it was the man who agreed and waited for me to reply.My relatives told me with a look of embarrassment: "That, Xiaomei, I'm really sorry. I just learned that Zheng Qi has a wife..." I seemed to be sapped, "Then... What kind of dear?" The relatives were dumbfounded for a long time when I asked them this way. I looked at my mother for help, and then noticed that the mother who was sitting aside had long been sullen. The relative said cautiously: "I'm sorry, blame me, I should verify the situation earlier. Zheng Qi's wife has cancer and is in the terminal stage. He said that he will not have to live for a few months. I want to watch him before he die. , A good successor to her child, so..." "What a joke! I have never seen anything like this! Needless to say, we disagree!" Mother interrupted the relatives, and everyone broke up.
At night, I tossed and turned, feeling very uncomfortable. The appearance of Zheng Qi sitting in a coffee shop is lingering in my mind. He is the only person who has moved my heart since his late husband. I love his experience and feel that he is a very responsible man. Even if he is unwilling in his heart, he must spare no effort to fulfill his wife's dying wish. I think it's just a few months, and I can't wait. And I know how it feels to lose a partner, and that kind of heart-wrenching feeling is really painful. These months are when he needs support and help, and I am willing to accompany him. Without telling my family, I quietly sent Zheng Qi a message, expressing my willingness to fulfill his wife's wish with him.
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A few days later, Zheng Qi took me to the hospital and officially introduced me to his wife: Li Changying.
Li Changying is an orphan. As her aunt and grandma grew up, she worked diligently. After graduating from the health school, she was left in the central hospital where she was intern because of her serious work. Before she fell ill, she was already the head nurse of the internal medicine department of the hospital. She and Zheng Qi from Hubei are in free love and marriage, and their relationship has always been very good. In the Intensive Care Unit of the Oncology Department of the Central Hospital, Li Changying, who had just finished the operation for a few days, had a pale face. She described it as haggard, as if it was a laborious effort to open her eyes. She did not know whether it was the pain of cancer or the pain after the operation. Frequently frowned. She smiled at me laboriously and said, "Thank you." Then she looked at Zheng Qi, and tears slowly filled her eyes. Zheng Qi immediately leaned down and placed one palm under Li Changying’s dripping hand, gently holding it back, and rubbing the tears on her face with the other hand, softly whispering: "Don’t cry, I’m here." Awkward,Turn around quietly to avoid the door. I feel like I've overturned the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, with mixed flavors. For a while, I feel like a thief is about to steal the happiness of others, and for a while, I feel like a saint doing a great dedication.
Zheng Qi’s family is far away. Both parents are sick and can’t come to help at all. Li Changying’s grandmother has long passed away, and his aunt is nearly seventy years old, and no one in her family can help. Zheng Qi alone has to take care of Li Changying who is in the hospital, he has to work normally, and he has to take care of his 9-year-old son Zheng Yingnian's three meals a day and study, which has long been overwhelmed. This overloaded rotation has long affected his work, causing the leaders to complain about him. A few days later, when I learned that Zheng Qi was criticized by the leaders again, I volunteered to take care of his son's three meals a day. Since he often went to the hospital to accompany him at night, I stayed at his house and accompany his son at night. My parents disagree with my choice very much, but I have decided it willfully, and they have no choice but to support it. The second elder silently took on all the daily care of my daughter. I bet on my own wishful thinking. I will pay for this relationship first and wait for Zheng Qi to catch up with me slowly.
After a month, Li Changying's condition is relatively stable. The hospital takes care of their financial situation and allows her to go home for treatment. It's embarrassing right now, in the same room, what should I do? Li Changying whispered to me, "Sister, look, I can leave at any time in this situation. I can't take care of them and my father. This family will depend on you in the end. You are here, don’t move around. Now, just treat it as if I am one of your distant sisters..." Tears are about to come down again. Zheng Qi stroked Li Changying's shoulder, comforting silently, and looked at me hesitantly. I look at this home, a patient who can't get out of bed, a child who goes to school, a man I love who is overwhelmed, if I leave at this juncture... alas! I don't want to affect the relationship with Zheng Qi in the future. Thinking about it is to help take care of the patients and children, just a few months. I stayed. Fortunately, Zheng Qi's family has three houses, so you can give me a separate one. I help them with housework and stay with their children like a friend. Zheng Qi and I kept a polite distance in a tacit understanding.
Half a year later, Li Changying became critically ill twice, but was rescued. When she was critically ill for the third time, Zheng Qi and I were standing outside the rescue room. The nurse came to Zheng Qi with a list and asked him to pay the fee first.Zheng Qi took the order, stood there and watched for a while, walked to a window far away from me and started calling. He kept dialing and hanging up. After several calls, he stopped sullenly, walked to the chair closest to him, sat down slowly, buried his face in his hands, and did not move for a long time. I walked over and asked him: "What's wrong with you?" He didn't look up, his face still in his hands, and shook his head feebly. I felt wrong and stretched out his hand, his hand was pulled away by me, and I couldn't help being surprised when I saw the tears in my hand. "What's wrong with you?" I knelt down and asked him. Zheng Qi lowered his head and shed silent tears, his shoulders trembled slightly, and the tears hit the ground. The nurse came to call for payment again, and some self-financed medicines after first aid should be used immediately. After the nurse walked away, Zheng Qi still did not move, but suddenly whimpered. His face flushed, one hand clenched the payment slip tightly, one hand clenched into a fist, and desperately gagged his mouth, trying to block his whimper. I guessed it. I was afraid of hurting his self-esteem. I tentatively said, "Or, I will pay the hospitalization fee first?" Zheng Qi suddenly raised his head and looked at me in astonishment. I took a single point of payment out of his hand, Zheng Qi looked at me blankly, and as soon as he turned around, he grasped my wrist and said in a low voice: "Thank you, I... can't help but save She." After that day, the relationship between Zheng Qi and I seemed to have broken the ice. When we carried Li Changying on our back, we began to look like a real couple.
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In a blink of an eye, three years have passed. Li Changying rescued more than a dozen times, each time he came back in a thrilling manner. Every time the doctor said that it was only a few days and the family members were ready, but after those few days, she came back again, as tenacious as one. The wild fire burns endlessly, the spring breeze blows and regenerates weeds. My deposits quietly flowed away nearly one million. Although Zheng Qi’s salary is high, he can only afford Li Changying’s expensive self-financed imported medicines every month. The daily expenses of the family have become my burden, and the first aid costs are also paid from me. Zheng Qi has long since saved her. Family disciples are all around. The only comfort to me is that Zheng Qi treats me very well in private. With Li Changying on his back, we are like a pair of lovers who share weal and woe. Huge expenditure, worldly vision, I am not pressureless, no complaints, but love makes me blind. Every time, Zheng Qi begged me painfully and said: "She has been suffering from this disease for a few days now, and finally persisted until now. We have the ability but do not save her. I can't make it through.Maybe this is the last time. Please understand me, OK? "Looking at his helpless look, I softly compromised and comforted myself every time. Maybe this is really the last time.
In the fall of 2015, my daughter Niuniu is going to elementary school. My mother hopes that Niuniu can get the best. Yucai Primary School, but Yucai Primary School has school selection fees and training fees. It may cost an extra 300,000 yuan to attend this primary school. If I were not with Zheng Qi, I think I would not hesitate to pay the money, but there are still I’m a little bit reluctant to be a big son of Zheng Qi. My mother saw me hesitate, and she was very angry: "You haven’t been with Niuniu all these years, and I’m not going to talk about how you spend your time there. Why don’t you even pay for education for Niuniu? Are you reluctant? This is the money Niuniu's father left for her. Who do you want to use if you don't use it for her? "You and Zheng Qi have been mingling unfairly for so many years, do you think there is hope? Ah? What do people think of you? Babysitter? ATM? Don't put your relatives wrong! Who is the closest? Your daughter!" After a pause, my mother looked at me who was silent, and suddenly made up her mind, and said: "If she is still at the end of this month... you should stop mixing up other family affairs. Come back to take care of Niuniu, I and you Dad doesn't allow you to be so confused anymore!" It's not that my parents have complained in these years, but this is the first time that my mother said such a heavy word. I was uncomfortable and embarrassed, and returned to Zheng Qi's house full of upset.
As soon as I entered the door, I saw their family of three beaming, happily clinking glasses with drinks to celebrate. Seeing their happy appearance, I suddenly felt that I was super superfluous. I hid back to my room. Zheng Qi followed in, but the joy on her face was still uncontrollable. "Today Changying went back to the hospital for an examination. Their dean said that recently there is a new surgical treatment that is very promising. The survival rate after surgery is high. She has recently recovered. It's not bad, you can arrange surgery for her at any time." I looked at the joy on his face, and my mother's words were still in my ears. Yeah, what am I? I asked him calmly, "How much does the operation cost?" "Um... half a million." He said cautiously. "Where did you get the five hundred thousand?" I asked. Zheng Qi was stunned. He then realized that my face was a bit wrong. "You, can you..." "No!" I said, "If I hadn't been spending a lot of money in the past few years, I wouldn't even be reluctant to spend money for my daughter to go to school. You just say 500,000 yuan, this bottomless pit Keep filling in, don’t others have to live? The total amount of money I have paid in the past few years has totaled millions.Have you ever asked me what I think? "Zheng Qi didn't expect me to suddenly lose my temper. I was silent for a while, and he still said categorically: "Chang Ying's operation must be done. The dean said that the chance of survival is very high. I can't ignore her. , Can you understand me again? "Understand him? Isn't it enough for me to understand four years? Has he ever thought about me in my position? His wife can continue his life, what should I do? Do I have any place in his future plans? Mom said Yes, I can't go down in a daze. My heart is twisted, but I still smiled hard, "Congratulations. "Zheng Qi looked at me, his face gradually changed. He should have figured out what all this means to me. His mouth opened and opened, but he didn't say anything. Two days later, I held Zheng The 1 million IOU that Qi wrote to me moved out.
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After breaking up with Zheng Qi, I was busy with work and my daughter every day, and slowly walked out of frustration.
One day, my daughter had tonsil inflammation, and I took her. I went to the city hospital for an injection. After the injection, I saw a half-year-old boy fell on the side of the road near the gate of the hospital. The packed food was scattered on the ground. The boy seemed to have injured his knee and rolled up his trousers for examination. I cast two more eyes, just as the teenager looked up, we both were stunned. Isn't that Zheng Qi's son Zheng Yingnian? Zheng Yingnian politely called me: "Auntie. ""How are you here?" "I asked in surprise." Mom and Dad are both hospitalized here. I just came out to buy food for Dad. He replied. "Your father is also hospitalized?" "I was shocked. I asked Zheng Yingnian for Zheng Qi's ward number, and asked him to go and ask a nurse to help deal with his knees. Then I sent my daughter home, bought food again, and visited Zheng Qi.
When the door of the ward was opened, Zheng Qi was still lying on the bed for IV drips. He nodded to me when he saw me coming in. He wanted to laugh, but his eyes were red. He turned his head in embarrassment, bending his arms to cover his eyes for a few months. No, Zheng Qi lost a lot of weight and is at least 10 years old. The beard on the green and yellow face is Zara, and it can be seen that it hasn't been shaved for a few days. The hair that was originally neatly organized is now untidy A lot of gray hair came out. I looked sad and asked, "Why are you hospitalized? "I just caught a cold, it's okay." "He pretended to smile lightly. "Sister Chang Ying's operation went well, right?" Are all good? "This time Zheng Qi didn't speak for a long time. I was a little embarrassed.He didn't want to say that it is not convenient for me to ask again. After sitting for a while, I hurriedly said goodbye.
One day two weeks later, I received a call from Li Changying and Zheng Qi. Li Changying said: "Sister, my operation is not considered successful, and it is estimated that there will be no more than a month left." It seems that I have heard too many stories about the wolf coming. Although I am surprised, I don't believe that Li Changying will not last a month. She said that after many years of getting along, I feel that I am a kind and good person, and believe that I will treat her son kindly in the future, so I still hope I can go back. She also said: "If you mind my identity, I am willing to divorce Zheng Qi right away." I comforted her to recuperate and did not comment on her proposal. Zheng Qi called, his voice was depressed and desperate: "I have mortgaged the house, I will pay for the money, or..." I didn't know how to comfort him, so I just sat there quietly and listened to him. "Xiaomei, come back, let's get married. I know I have wronged you for so many years, and I feel very sorry for you. I won't let you follow me like this without a name. Chang Ying has discussed with me, She is willing to divorce us."
I did not agree, although I do still love Zheng Qi. When Zheng Qi saw that I ignored him, he sent me messages every day like a young hairy guy who had just begun to fall in love. Maybe we have been facing the big problem of Li Changying's terminal illness from the beginning. The life is hard and trivial. At this moment, all our words are only between the two. Zheng Qi became more enthusiastic day by day, and my heart became softer day by day. One day, Zheng Qi came to visit my parents without telling me. He solemnly promised to my parents that he would marry me immediately and asked the two elders to let me marry him. In fact, putting aside Li Changying’s affairs, Zheng Qi is indeed in very good conditions. He looks good, has a good job, a high salary, and is gentle and polite. In fact, his parents are also very fond of him. This time he came to plead so sincerely, and my parents were moved. . With the consent of my parents, Zheng Qi and I made peace.
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However, Zheng Qi and I did not register successfully.
On the eve of the divorce, Li Changying suddenly became ill and was sent to first aid. When she came back from the rescue round, Zheng Qi couldn't open her mouth again, looking at her sick face and tears in her eyes. He discussed with me, otherwise, we will hold the banquet first, register one step later, and wait for Li Changying to leave. We will register again. The divorce is really too stimulating to Li Changying. When it comes to illness, he still hopes that Li Changying will live in the last days. Have to be as comfortable as possible.What else can I do? Now that I have decided to reconcile, I can't ignore his feelings. If I insist on repeatedly, it's like trying to force Li Changying to become ill. So we set up a dozen tables of wine to tell relatives, friends, and company colleagues, even if we were married. When we moved into Zheng's house again, Zheng Qi and I were in the same room. Although has not registered, I feel that I am the head of the family. Although the ailing Li Changying is between us, I firmly believe that it is me who is the one who grows old with Zheng Qi for a long time.
With this mentality, I saw Li Changying miraculously undergoing many rescues and minor operations, and survived two springs and autumns. The price is-my savings account is nearly a million less. Every time he went to pay for the hospital, Zheng Qi promised me guiltily that everything would be fine when Li Changying was sent away. He cried many times in front of me. Once, I couldn't bear to tear up the 1 million IOU he had handwritten to me before. I told him: "You will never find someone who loves you like me anymore." I became like a gambler. I wanted to give up but was unwilling, so I insisted on going forward. I really can't accept that all the previous great efforts have been abandoned.
Now I want to come, because I am afraid of losing, I have forced myself on the battlefield with no retreat. In the late winter of 2018, one cold night, at three or four in the morning, Li Changying suddenly became ill. Before 120 arrived, Li Changying had been unconscious. When he arrived at the hospital, the doctor told Zheng Qi after the examination that the first aid might be a cutscene, so he should prepare for the funeral. Seeing that Li Changying entered the emergency room, Zheng Qi hurriedly greeted the nurse. He wanted to return to the company to take over the work he was doing. A scientific research project he was working on could not be delayed. The nurses are all Li Changying's colleagues, they are all helpful and understanding, and they guarantee that he will be notified as soon as possible. As he was anxiously handing over work in the workshop, the workshop broadcast suddenly sounded. "Gong Gong, please call the city hospital back." Zheng Qi's mobile phone ran out, and the hospital called the company. Maybe the hospital had never made a call to the company. Zheng Qi mistakenly thought the call was serious and guessed that Li Changying had already left. It was this kind of misunderstanding that made Zheng Qi very emotional. On the way back to the office, he fell to the ground and suffered a myocardial infarction.120 left before anyone came. Zheng Qi would definitely not have thought that this call was actually a nurse trying to inform him that Li Changying was rescued again, and she wanted Zheng Qi to go home to help her get her mobile phone. Just like that, Zheng Qi went one step ahead of Li Changying.
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I held the funeral for Zheng Qi as a survivor. Sending my love away for the second time, this blow really broke me.
After Zheng Qi's funeral, I was still immersed in grief and couldn't help myself. The union of Zheng Qi's unit notified me and Li Changying to go to their company together. In the conference room, the chairman of the labor union said very politely: “Zheng Gong was an accident at work. We decided to pay 300,000 yuan to his family’s work-related injury pension. I invite you two to come today just to inquire about this pension. Who is the gold going to? Or how is it going to be distributed?" Before I could speak, Li Changying said coldly: "According to the law, it will be given to whoever is legally said." I was confused and stared in disbelief. Li Changying. This means that her Li Changying is Zheng Qi's legal wife, and the 300,000 should be given to her, not mine. The workers of the union were also stupid, and everyone looked at her dumbfounded. I held the cup in my hand and took a lot of effort to restrain myself from throwing it at her, staring at her, shaking and saying word by word: "In the past 7 years, to save you, I paid almost 2 million. In order to take care of you and your son, I have no time to take care of my daughter and parents, and also to take care of your emotions. Zheng Qicai and I failed to register for marriage... Without me, how would you survive? Where did you get the money for surgery to go to the hospital? What am I sorry about you, you are going to cross the river and demolish the bridge, and you will get revenge?!"
Li Changying turned his head away from me and told the staff to take her home quickly. She was tired. I stood up and wanted to stop her to make it clear, but before I came to her, she screamed, as if she was about to faint. The staff was terrified and quickly separated between the two of us. Several people held me, and several people quickly pushed Li Changying's wheelchair to escort her out of the conference room. When my mood calmed down, the staff apologized to me, hoping that I would understand that the union can only act according to regulations. I don’t blame the union, I just feel that my heart bursts at any time. The time and energy I have put in for so many years and the huge sums of money are like feeding a dog. Finally, I was bitten by the dog! what should I do? Who should be responsible for the nearly 2 million medical expenses that I paid for Li Changying? Zheng Qi is dead,The court will not recognize our de facto marriage, and I will never inherit a penny from him! What's more, he has no inheritance. The house he lives in has already been mortgaged to pay for the surgery! Couldn't I get back a penny of that 2 million?
I am dissatisfied. I entrusted a lawyer to take Li Changying to court and demand Li Changying to return 300,000 yuan in pension. Because Zheng Qi borrowed 2 million from me to raise Li Changying's surgical medical expenses, I should have priority in compensation. I provided the transfer voucher, the payment voucher from the hospital, and the bank statement to the court, but I did not expect that I had provided so many detailed documents. The court still considered that the evidence was insufficient to prove that Zheng Qi borrowed money from me. It is not a gift between our lovers, unless I show a clear IOU or provide a clear personal testimony. Li Changying even denied in court, saying that all the expenses were paid by Zheng Qi. She did not know the source of the money, let alone whether Zheng Qi borrowed money from me. Zheng Qi once wrote me an IOU of 1 million, but I was confused and destroyed it! At the end of 2019, the judge's hammer fell, and the court finally rejected my request. As soon as the result was announced, my eyes turned black. I hate it, I really hate it! I hate my own stupidity! I want to cry loudly, but there are no tears. I wanted to howl angrily, but I didn't have the strength. I numbly wanted to walk away, but I tripped over the chair under my feet and almost fell. The lawyer beside me gave me a hand with a look of unbearable expression.
At the end, Zheng Qi’s son rushed out of the hearing. The 16-year-old boy knelt in front of me, crying and crying. He said, “Sorry, auntie, I can’t persuade mom. Don’t blame me, wait until I grow up. I will treat you well and honor you." I looked at him, but I was not touched by the child I raised up so hard for 7 years. He reminded me of my daughter, the money and company that should be given to her daughter. I paid the child and his family in front of me. Today, all this is like a sharp knife stuck in my heart, laughing at my stupidity and There is no principled kindness.
Now, things have passed so long, and to this day, I haven't gotten back. Everyone commented on me, is it really just my fault?
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