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People have a very busy life. When they were young, they worked hard for the family and children, and finally retired, only to find that they were getting old. During the first half of his busy life, I am now retired, and I am free for a while, but I am not used to .
After retirement, middle-aged and elderly people have a variety of lifestyles. Some choose to travel; some choose to develop their hobbies; some choose to make more friends; others choose to continue working.
If you retire, what kind of retirement life do you want to live in?
Choose to continue working after retirement
Aunt He is 55 years old this year and has been retired for 5 years. She has a monthly retirement salary of more than 4,000 yuan. Her husband has not retired and is still at work. Her son works outside , Rarely go home.
She has been busy all her life, but she suddenly retired, and she was not used to the idle life. When she is free, she always thinks wildly, and often quarrels with her husband, several times, because of the quarrel, Aunt He has the urge to divorce her husband, and when she is angry, she wants to divorce her husband immediately.
What does Aunt He like? She doesn't like painting, musical instruments, flowers, etc. She occasionally dances square dance. In order to keep herself from being so bored, Aunt He also actively participated in group activities, she signed up to practice Tai Chi and square dance. In the first few months, she felt fulfilled and happy, but after a few months, she felt that the interaction between people was a lot of rivers and lakes. It seemed that the relationship was very good, but it was actually intrigue. Moreover, the comparison between middle-aged and elderly people is very strong, and she is often stunned and can't choose.
Later,By chance, Aunt He saw that there were part-time jobs in the community, and Aunt He wanted to try. This job is to help pick up and drop off the children. It is an afternoon nursery near the school. The salary is not high, but it is easy. Aunt He agreed.
Aunt He picks up the children from Monday to Friday and arranges for the children to eat and sleep. She talks and laughs with the children and has a colorful life. Aunt He looks at these children and thinks about the picture of bringing grandchildren in the future. Now she is in touch with the children and learning how to get along with them, which also helps herself a lot.
Aunt He works here and has met many people of the same age. Most of them are retired like themselves and have nothing to do at home, so they choose to work part-time. Aunt He met Aunt Wu here, and Aunt Wu did several part-time jobs. Through Aunt Wu's introduction, Aunt He got another part-time job on the weekend. The weekend’s job is to help those parents who go to work and don’t have time to take care of their children to look after their children, take care of their children’s food and drink, and help them with homework.
Aunt He found that the part-time salary is much higher than her pension, and she feels very happy, staying with the children every day, happy like a child, okay Chatting with peers makes life particularly meaningful. Now she seldom quarrels with her husband, and she doesn't have to fight with the square dance sisters. Making money is her happiness.
Unknowingly, Aunt He has been working part-time for several years, met many good sisters, listened to a lot of their stories, worked with them who were positive and optimistic, and felt younger and younger. Aunt He said: After my son gets married and has children, my daughter-in-law needs me to help take care of his grandson. I will take care of it. If I don’t need it, I will give them more money and continue to work part-time until I can’t do anything. Is my happiness.
This is a wonderful life after Aunt He retires. She has no hobbies. She likes to earn money and enjoys happiness while earning money. This is a very good choice.Strong1strong Retired middle-aged and elderly friends, retirement is not equal to old age. After retirement, you do not stay at home every day. As long as your body allows it, it is also a good choice to do a suitable part-time job.
Wonderful life after retirement
After retirement, there are many middle-aged and old friends who will choose to travel, hold a group for the elderly, participate in activities for the elderly, help their children with children, etc. Lifestyle, what suits you is the best.
Retirement does not mean that there is nothing to do, and retirement is not the same as staying at home. Life after retirement is just as exciting.
01. Do what you want to do but didn’t do
When I was young, I gave up a lot of dreams because of work and family, and finally got through to retirement. I took advantage of my health to do what I wanted to do Thing. For example: Come on a walk-and-go trip, savor the delicious food of the world, and take a look at the great rivers and mountains without regret.
Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. Don't interfere too much in the lives of their children. Young people have the way of life of the young, and the elderly have the circle of the elderly. This generation of parents can no longer follow the path of the older generation, and they should freely arrange their retirement life after retirement.
02. Cultivate a hobby
When people reach old age, the most feared thing is loneliness. When people are old and their children are not around, a person always feels lonely. At this time, I suggest you develop a hobby of your own, which can be painting, practicing Tai Chi, dancing square dance, etc.
If you don’t like these,You can find a relaxed job like Aunt He, whose hobby is to make money. Earn more money while you are in good health. Only when you are old can you be guaranteed. You can make money while enjoying life. You can also make friends with like-minded people and listen to their stories.
The so-called old age is useful and enjoyable, and it is all for yourself. Retirement life must be rich and colorful.
03.Enjoy loneliness
People only understand in old age that it is not your wife or children who can really accompany you to the end, but yourself. People don’t understand until their later years that what can support your life is your attitude towards life.
So people must learn to enjoy loneliness, learn to get along with themselves, do what they want to do alone, and live the life they want to live. In my spare time, reading books and drinking tea, life is not lonely.
Written at the end:
After Aunt He retired, she had nothing to do and tried to participate in group activities, but she really didn't like it. Later, she chose to continue to earn money. Earning money made her very happy. She enjoys this happiness. This is Aunt He's retirement life.
After retiring, middle-aged and elderly friends should try different lifestyles and find the ones that suit them and live the old life they want to live.
Finally, I wish all middle-aged and elderly friends good health and a colorful life in their old age.
Today's topic:
After retirement, will you choose to continue working like Aunt He?
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