In the past, everyone would think that losing weight is a woman's business and has nothing to do with men. Often only men dislike women getting fat, and I have never heard that women dislike men getting fat. Perhaps, the current situation has changed, especially the increasing number of people who are obese. According to statistics, more than half of the people in China are overweight and obese, including men.
Do women really care if their husbands get fat? Men lose weight, these three married women tell the truth.
Ms. Wu
When my husband and I met, he was 1.85 meters tall and weighed only 108 pounds; while I was 1.65 meters tall and weighed 110 pounds. And the reason why I fell in love with him at the beginning was because when I was in school, the boys were very thin, and the thin ones were really handsome. However, when I was in a relationship, I was really stressed, and I often lost weight behind my back.
Men seem to gain weight after marriage, and my husband is no exception. He has gained weight twice, once when he gained 160 pounds, and then he said, he finally gained weight; once when he gained 185 pounds, he stood On the scale , I said something that I will never forget, I can't get fat any more. I have never disliked my husband getting fat, but he actually lost weight. Now he has lost 150 pounds. The self-discipline of a man really makes me, a woman, admire.
Ms. Qiao
Before when I gave birth, my husband was disgusted with and postpartum fat , and urged me to lose weight all day long. In fact, I was more anxious than him, how could any woman want to gain weight? But I deliberately ignored her, but it was only superficial. Later, I chose to lose weight and successfully lost weight. However, my husband later gained weight.
My husband is the head of the department and often has social events. He spends most of his time eating and drinking outside. He usually does almost no exercise, so that he is 1.78 meters tall and weighs 180 pounds, especially his belly is outrageous. It's almost the size of my full-term pregnancy. To be honest, not only did I mind my husband getting fat, but I was disgusted when I saw what he looked like now.
Ms. Zhao
Women are actually the same as men. Their men will dislike our women getting fat, so our women will naturally dislike their men getting fat. My husband has become fatter and fatter in recent years. He weighs almost 200 pounds. Even his daughter can't stand it anymore. Every time he sees her father, he calls him a big fat man. I often urged him to lose weight, but he never took it seriously.
can actually understand that the middle-aged men around me are getting fat too much, all of them have big bellies, like we women are pregnant, and it feels uncomfortable for them to watch. In fact, men want to save face and suffer, including my father. When it comes to losing weight, I worry about you. I think I understand it. I am willing to suffer, and it is useless for others to say too much.
As Ms. Zhao said above, in marriage, men and women are actually equal. When men point fingers at our women's bodies, they should actually reflect on whether they are fat too! Marriage requires both parties to pay, no matter which one gets fat, they should actively lose weight, this is the correct attitude.
And when I gained weight, I was very anxious, but my husband did not have any dislike, even if he weighed 140 pounds, he was still very calm. When I decided to lose weight, he also accompanied me to lose weight. Fortunately, it is not difficult to lose weight. I just changed my diet, and the result was soon less than 105 pounds, and my husband lost more than 30 pounds.
Women do mind if their husbands get fat, but men are often too embarrassed to lose face and lose weight. At this time, as a woman, you need to help him lose weight together, because losing weight can benefit his health and family.
