In our lives and work, there are many people like this: on the surface they are intimate with you, or get along well on the surface, but in private, they are very unfriendly. Typical: lest you live better than her, lest your children Better than her family, better than her family's work, such a person, even appearing among your so-called friends, relatives and relatives, found out, you can keep your distance, if you keep going, stay away, because we really Can't afford to hurt. People like
are not well-intentioned, so when you encounter difficulties and can't make up your mind, don't ask for help from this kind of person, because they are not giving you an idea, they are people who want you to get into the pit sooner.
I have a former colleague who later became a good friend. The two families have been together for many years. The girl is a speechless person. No matter who says it, it’s not a secret here. My daughter gave up Xi'an state-owned enterprise and went home to continue her job search. Then she took the exam for her current job. She did not expect the man to lie on the bed and say, "Look, it won't take long to go this time." This is what his wife told me, and I was thinking: a family of two people like this might also be a weird thing. The two of them lie in bed and talk about others, want to see other people's jokes, but they are betrayed by themselves. There are also several funny things. I am a problem that can be solved with money. I will never go to find someone for fear of owing favors. Some people's fart things are regarded as great favors, instead of spending two hundred to solve them. And it doesn't owe love, so why spend four hundred and still feel owed. There is another relative of
. Her children have been tossed enough by her over the years. They are eighty-one years old and still keep instigating between my brothers and sisters, telling me that this and that are not, and then running to other people to scold me. The daughter-in-law was scolded even worse by her: this bitch is so bad, it's no wonder that she can't give birth to children, and I always persuade her. In fact, the sister-in-law treats her very well. She smiled the day before. Ground, boasting my daughter-in-law, I didn't expect to swear such words back in front of me.
often speaks ill of me in front of my daughter and husband. Everything is made up. Anyway, you are demoted as the master and provoke our family relationship. However, their family relationship has also been provoked.
The son of a cousin of mine is very talented. He has a high annual salary. He got married and bought two houses in Shanghai. She often went abroad. She was jealous of others and said to me: What do you drag? Saying that my nephew's daughter who is over a year old is too ugly, I thought to myself that you have a psychological problem. I didn't think the child was ugly. Anyway, I interrupted what she said.
I remember when my daughter was just admitted to college, she told me something: A golden phoenix flew out of the chicken coop. I was very angry: Is it because your son is good and your grandchildren are not relying on your own strength, others should be lower than you? She will look down on those who are lower than her, and devalue those who are higher than her.
The relationship between me and her sons and daughters was all disturbed by her nonsense. I saw a lot about my daughter’s career choice. The design was everywhere, and digging holes made me jump, which made me almost miss the child, if it weren’t for someone else. I will not choose to support the children so easily. Otherwise, a central enterprise will be more stable than it is now. There are many things that can’t be said clearly and conclusively.
To sum up: You live better than others, and when you are better than others, someone is in a dark corner, secretly looking at you, you are living well, others gnash your teeth, you have a bad life, pretend to care about you, and then Kick you in the back to get you into the pit faster.
has a lot of things that I can’t say, I will not contact her since October this year. Decades of grievances, let them disappear with the loss of contact! I don't want to torture myself for the rest of my life.
people actually grow up all their lives. When there is no big wind or wave, all relationships seem to be harmonious. When you experience the impermanence of the world, you can see through many people and things, but I believe: Only by yourself, persist and survive With every difficulty, you will become more and more determined, and your heart will become stronger and stronger! Let those who have always wanted to see you "dead" despair in this life.
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