Introduction:
is not as young and energetic as when he was young, and his ability to earn money has declined in his later years. The only source of income for the elderly is their pensions, and they do not spend a lot on living when they are old. The most terrifying thing is that they need to spend money when they are sick.
can’t be solved with one thousand two thousand. They all talk about raising children to protect against old age, but many elderly people have a little savings and pension in their old age. Some children like to worry about the pension and savings of the elderly. The old man a hundred years later, the money he has is not for his children.
is thinking about taking all the pension cards and savings in the hands of the elderly, and withdrawing some money to the elderly every month. The rest will be kept for the elderly. The elderly will have their own views on this matter. , Let’s listen to what the three old people say.
Uncle Mao:
I am 65 years old this year. My wife and I have more than 10,000 pensions and savings. I have two children. I don’t think people should place all their hopes on their sons in their later years. Don't count on them for everything. It is safest to hold your pension in your own hands, even if your children can help when they need it.
If you don’t need it, save it by yourself in case you get sick. This is because the elderly will be in poor health in their later years. They will often have minor illnesses and pains, and will also take injections and medicines. It will cost a lot of money to come and go. Two years ago, my wife fell ill.
My son took my pension to go through the hospitalization procedures for my wife, and he hasn’t taken it back since then. I didn’t really care about it at the time. I think he is my son anyway, so he holds our retirement card. Of course, but in September of this year, my wife was hospitalized again and required a lot of medical expenses.
My son actually said that all the money in the card was spent on him. My son saw other people speculating in stocks and playing very well and earning money. At that time, he was itching and took out all the money in the card and invested in it. The meat buns hit the dogs as soon as they were thrown in, and there was nothing left. I was surprised when my son told me about this because my wife was still sick.
I didn’t dare to tell her because I was afraid that she couldn’t stand the urgent need for money, so I took out the other savings to treat my wife’s illness, and then I took the pension card from my son and I gave it to me at the time His face is particularly unsightly and very unhappy. You even told me that you two elderly people don't need to spend money when they are so old. We two elderly people have two pension cards.
We two old people can't spend that much, you two can just hold one, and leave one with me. I don’t have to ask you for money when I need it. When he said this, I totally disagree with him. I insisted on asking for the salary card back, even though I knew that our money would still be left to them in the future.
But his approach makes me feel very unfair. Even if I give it to me, I have to give it to one person at the same time. Now what is the matter with him taking it in advance? I can’t do that. If I give him a salary card first , That is very unfair to my daughter.
Aunt Zhong:
I am a retired man in his seventies and have retired for many years. I feel that now I can't count on my son to support me in old age. My son is already my greatest blessing if he doesn't come to chew the old. My wife and I are both civil servants. After retirement, we have a good pension. Together, we have 10,000 for each month.
is particularly sensitive, how much money it spends every day. He would write it down in the notebook, and the calculations were clear, he knew one point more and one point less, and then my wife became ill. My son told me. The interest on the money you deposit in the bank is too low. Give us your card and I will help you manage your finances. There are good interest rates every month. Guaranteed annual dividends.
thousands of dollars. But I did not agree. Because one of my relatives just listened to my son and gave him the money to take care of, and in the end all the money was lost. I don’t know why he used it, but he doesn’t want my money to be ruined by him. I disagree with my son. Just say.
You only have my son. Anyway, your money will be mine sooner or later. I can earn more money. I still haven't listened to my son and gave him the money. I saw a lot of this onlineSome old people give their sons pensions in advance. Life was bleak in my old age, and I still believe that money is safer in my own pocket.
Aunt Lin:
I am 60 years old this year, and my wife has passed away for many years. I have two children. Now I follow my son’s family to provide for the elderly. Now I have a pension every month, but I can’t be the master, my pension. Stuck in the hands of his son and daughter-in-law.
They give me 700 yuan in pocket money every month. Sometimes I want to buy some toys and clothes for my grandchildren and they don’t have any money. It’s very embarrassing to say that I am also a pensioner, but I don’t have any money. It's like this.
when my wife passed away. My son said that he sold the small house in his hometown and replaced it with a larger one in the city. He took my salary card away at that time.
until now, he has not returned it to me. Every time I ask him to take him, he says that it’s not convenient or safe for you to hold such a large sum of money. In case you get dementia one day, even put your own money I don't know where, isn't it a loss then? If you give it to us, we also know how to help you make some financial investment.
gets interest and dividends every year, isn’t that good? No matter what I say, my son refutes me. I asked my son many times and wanted to get my salary card back, but he refused it. I couldn't help it. I know I have money, but I live every day asking for money from others.
The sisters around me told me to apply for another card so that all the pensions can be paid to that card, but I think that if I do this, it will be equivalent to tearing up my face with my son. Now I don’t have a house in my hometown. If I have a showdown with him, he will definitely kick me out, so I am afraid that I have no place to live, so I can only endure this kind of life. I live a life under the fence every day, and I feel so wronged.
Concluding remarks:
elderly people in their later years, if they can take care of themselves, the editor recommends that you still take your pension in your hands and don’t give it to your children easily, because they will be very happy when you give it to them, and you will be very grateful at that time You, but after a long time, they do not get more benefits from you, they will despise you.
If you don’t want to lead a life under your own fence in your later years, you must take good care of your pension card and have some money while you can take care of yourself in your later years. In this way, you will live with dignity and confidence in your later years. Don't look at other people's faces.
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