Nowadays, the elderly single population is an objective existence. Whether it is single due to divorce or other reasons, whether it is necessary to remarry in old age has become an issue that this population must face. When
reaches the retirement age, women have their own pensions and a stable source of life. At the same time, their lives have entered the post-retirement stage.
So, should I find another life partner to spend the rest of my life together?
Actually, this is not an easy choice. Different people have different choices and different opinions.
Some women think that they need a person to accompany them in their later years and are more supportive of remarriage, but many women are unwilling to remarry.
So, if a woman has a pension, will she remarry after retirement? Ms.
Feng, 59 years old:
has retired for several years, and I divorced before retirement. The two people will spend almost a lifetime. If it were not for the children, I would really divorce early.
Our marriage can be said to be unsuitable from the beginning. He has a warm temper, especially introverted, and he doesn't like to talk. Many times, even if I am in a hurry, even if he quarrels with me, at least it is. An exchange.
But he just doesn't talk to me much, like a boring gourd, every time he disagrees with me, he chooses to ignore me without saying a word.
I really can't stand this kind of character. I have a rather anxious character, and I am very busy doing everything. Therefore, I am really not used to seeing such a slow person.
When the child was older, we chose to divorce, and now we are living together in peace.
For me, I will definitely not remarry, one marriage is enough. Now I am living my retirement life, very comfortable, no need to get angry.
Ms. Liu, 60 years old:
My wife is not in good health and left a few years ago.
I have been living alone since then, my pension is pretty good, and I am completely rich enough.
has reached this age and doesn't want to consider remarrying anymore.
and his wife used to have a good relationship, but now they are alone and often miss him.
But years have passed, and I have gradually become accustomed to living alone.
I have a group of good sisters. We are a dance team. After retiring, we will continue to dance and exercise. Usually our good sisters will also organize some travel activities.
I choose a place to travel and spend a vacation every time I find my life is quite comfortable and fulfilling.
Plus sometimes spend weekends with children and grandchildren, cook together and go out for a while, I don’t think I have to find a wife.
I don't need to be raised by others, and I don't need to raise others. I live according to my own wishes. I feel quite satisfied. Ms.
Fang, 57 years old:
I was divorced ten years ago and I have been living alone. Later, I was busy with my grandson, so I didn’t feel empty and lonely at all, but very fulfilling.
Now his grandson is also old, and he is about to go to school, and I am also free. To be honest, as I grow older, I feel that in old age, people still need a companion.
Although the last marriage was not happy, but I have become accustomed to the little things in the marriage, and I am used to having personal company by my side.
Children have their own lives, it is impossible to accompany me often.
I also know that the elderly will have more remarriage problems, more troubles, and many factors involved. Therefore, I don't want to remarry easily.
However, I think we can consider finding a partner, which not only eliminates many problems and conflicts, but also can take care of and accompany each other.
It can be seen from the thoughts of the three ladies that there seems to be a certain degree of rejection of old remarriage, which may also be caused by many problems encountered by old remarriage.
In addition, by this age, more women tend to have their own lifestyle habits, and are reluctant to adapt to a person again, but live a clean and free life by themselves.
But this is not the only choice. If you can meet someone who is sincere and has a matching personality, remarrying is actually a choice you can consider.
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