Netizens first dated more than 20,000 hot pots
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saw a hot search video on the Internet, and they were really scared by the dating between "rich people". Ms. Yang of
Ningbo, 26 years old, is a graphic model. She often posts some of her daily life on Weibo. Then a man Mr. Lin took the initiative to chat with her, and the two also added WeChat and became netizens. Ms. Yang thinks that Mr. Lin should be quite rich, because she often shows off his wealth when she reads Mr. Lin's WeChat, unlike having no money.
met for the first time in a high-end hot pot restaurant. Ms. Yang ordered more than 6,000 dishes and a bottle of twelve thousand red wine. According to Ms. Yang, it is normal to spend thousands of dollars on dinner, and she has been to this hot pot restaurant several times. But what she didn't expect was that during the meal, Mr. Lin ran away. Ms. Yang later found out that Mr. Lin was not a rich person at all. She felt that she had been deceived, and she claimed that she was molested by Mr. Lin during the meal, but fortunately nothing happened.
Mr. Lin also felt that he had been deceived. He resolutely denied indecent assault. He also screamed for himself. He said, "I never agreed with her to order such expensive dishes. A meal cost more than 20,000 yuan, and a bottle of red wine cost 12 thousand yuan. "Mr. Lin felt that he was also deceived.
Regarding indecency, the investigation by the police is unfounded. Since the 12,000 red wine was not drunk during the meal, it was possible to retreat. Later, after coordination, the two took the AA method and each took on more than 3,000 dishes.
had to say that the meal they ate was really expensive, and neither of them suffered a loss, it was equal to a tie. This Ms. Yang also didn't call herself wronged. Where can anyone eat more than 20,000 for the first time, even a rich person would not bring such a way of eating. Of course, Mr. Lin doesn't feel wronged for himself. He shows off his wealth to attract beautiful women, but he didn't expect to spend so much money.
Two people, one for money and one for color, their purpose is not so simple.
has the mentality of wanting to take advantage of each other, but it is a pity that both sides are half-hearted and disguised. We often say that you need to talk about money when you are in love. After all, nowadays society needs to be more realistic, but the money you talk about is also within a certain range. Ms. Yang’s financial situation is good, and she feels that it’s okay to spend a few thousand yuan on food. She may really not want to pay for men’s money, but she has overlooked a truth: even rich people may not be so generous, and another 20,000 yuan. It's not a small amount of money, so why should someone invite them when they meet for the first time?
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I wonder if you have ever heard such "wrong theory": Some girls think that they are female and look beautiful, so they should be treated preferentially. Especially during blind dates, men should pay for them. They often take advantage of them under the guise of investigation.
I have no good feelings for this type of girl.
They have very high demands on men, and they demand that everything be paid for, but why? Even a gentleman can't buy "unreasonable" orders. For netizens to meet on a date, in fact, the AA system for two people is quite reasonable. Don't make calculations when you meet for the first time. It is not necessary. As a person,
should have a certain structure, especially economically, and don't think about taking advantage of others.
If you say that their request is unreasonable, they will move out of the "unbalanced ratio of men and women", and even say that these things should be done by men, forgive me for not agreeing. I personally think that girls should be self-reliant and don't take advantage of others. If you take advantage, you will be despised by others.
The matter of meeting netizens on a date is a two-way consideration of two people. You are investigating others, so why don't others investigating you. When you meet for the first time, you still have to respect each other. Don't make calculations easily. If you do calculations, you will often fall into the tongue and hit yourself in the foot.
We will find that some people say that they are deceived, but in fact, they are not calculating others. Even if such a person is deceived, it is not a pity. I don't have a good impression of people like Ms. Yang and Mr. Lin. Both of them are disguised, living a so-called "fake and delicate" life dishonestly in order to seek the benefits they want. Z2z
Ms. Yang's purpose is very simple, of course, to find a "rich second generation" who can spend money for herself; and Mr. Lin's purpose is also very simple, of course, to find a rich and attractive girlfriend. The world is not so stupid, and cheap is not so easy to account for. zAs 2z
writes here, I think of a story told by a reader earlier.
Qinglin is an older leftover man who has no girlfriend yet at the age of 32, and his parents are also very anxious. Later, I was introduced to a 28-year-old girl who was very pretty, and Qinglin was also very interested in her. The two chatted on WeChat first, and only met when they felt suitable. When meeting for the first time, Qinglin was not stingy and chose a restaurant where his family spent 500 on average. On the day of
meeting, the girl came with her best friend, and Qinglin was rather disgusted. When ordering food, the two girls also picked expensive ones. Originally, 1,500 for three people was enough, but they ordered more than 3,000. Looking at the situation, Qinglin felt that the girl had come to cheat him, and his face was a bit ugly on the spot. Later, Qinglin made an excuse to go to the bathroom, and left a thousand yuan for himself. He didn't think it was interesting, but he didn't want to be dumb. Instead, he felt that the three of them should be AA.
for this meal. In fact, a girl should understand that when the first blind date is met, the man makes a big deal just to save face. There is no reason to have to pay for girls. Girls themselves can’t hold onto this tightly, “it doesn’t matter if you think he is a boy, and if you are a girl, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have to pay the bill.”
If during a blind date, a girl always treats the man as a bully, thinking that the other party is "bully", then this mentality will hurt herself sooner or later, and the final bitterness can only be tasted by herself.
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Netizens are dating, the first time they meet for dinner, how much are you willing to spend?
Frankly speaking, if it is for meals, I think within 200-500 is a reasonable consumption level; if it is just drinking coffee, within 200 yuan is a reasonable level. When two people meet for the first time, no one should take advantage of others. The AA system is also fair. Don’t deliberately eat the king’s meal, let alone order expensive dishes to let others pay for you. You can know your eating behavior is potentially too Exposed your character.
Everyone is an adult and is familiar with the routines on the blind date. There is no need to treat each other as a fool. The
man accommodating you, only shows that he is a gentleman, if you blindly bully people, fools will not suffer. Girls who have always wanted to take advantage should think about it. Whose money is not easy to earn. Why should people let you eat and drink for nothing and pay for your self-righteousness?
Both must have a correct attitude. Only by treating others with sincerity can they meet the right person. The uncle at the end of
said that children can be together based on their mood, while adults need to look at the pros and cons. Who you are, you will meet and fall in love with.
Ms. Yang said that she was deceived by Mr. Lin, and Mr. Lin said that she was deceived by Ms. Yang. In fact, both of them are similar people. They are not so innocent and it is difficult to meet someone who truly loves them.
Today’s topic: Do you think that the AA system is reasonable when netizens meet for the first time on a date or have a blind date? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotion original author, wrote this world warm feelings matter.
