Foreword:
's current marriage is accompanied by a lot of divorce rates, not only those born in the 90s, but also those born in the 80s. It can be seen that everyone's "requirements" for their partners are getting higher and higher, and they even have a certain contrast. The so-called "women like flowers" in
, women in marriage will also exude different charms as they age. 20 years old is like a passionate rose, 30 years old is like a noble peony, 40 years old is like an elegant orchid, this is a kind of poetic calmness, enough to attract the attention of others.
So, what kind of man do 60-year-old women like? There were three women who showed up and said it was true, and they realized what life should be like.
01,
Health is the best wealth in life, a man’s health is the most important
Aunt Zhao is 63 years old this year, and his wife has also left due to illness. In those few years, it is hard to say a word. People who have not experienced this kind of experience will never know how scared they are every day, nor will they smell that special smell and unspeakable memories. After
, Aunt Zhao understands some truths, nothing is more important than health, that is the best wealth in life. Since then, she went to bed early and got up early every day, and started doing Tai Chi, walking and other sports when she was fine. Even the money that I cared about the most before has been looked down upon, and I am dedicated to health.
children are also very happy to see their mother's sudden optimism. She was reluctant to ask her to eat and drink before, but now she has become more generous. In fact, they support Aunt Zhao’s behavior. Z5z should have such an attitude when he retires, and they often travel together to feel the poetry of the motherland and the distance.
Despite the support of her children and often accompanied her, Aunt Zhao still feels a little lonely. Especially at night, there is not even a person to talk, and I often turn to and fro.
So Aunt Zhao has the idea of looking for a man, after all, the rest of her life is not long, so don't wrong yourself. She was a little disturbed and told her children, fearing that they would joke or disagree. Unexpectedly, optimistic children are very supportive. It is really hard for the mother to take care of the father when she is young. He has never complained, and is much thinner.
Now that mothers want to pursue happiness again, their children only need to be responsible for watching people. In the end, Aunt Zhao found Lao Li who was practicing Tai Chi together, and the two walked together because of their strong health hobbies. And she always believes that a man's health is the most important thing to be able to bear and accompany. The support of the children of
02 and
is the best way to determine happiness.
Compared with Aunt Zhao, Aunt Li, who is 61 years old this year, can be said to be not so lucky. The same is the woman whose wife left due to illness, but she did not get the support of her children.
Aunt Li’s wife has been away for many years, and her children are considered filial, and she often goes home to see her. Even with , it’s impossible to be with you all the time. Sometimes no one knows what happens.
Once, Aunt Li accidentally fell in a bath and hurriedly called. But no one knew that at night, when she was desperate, the old Zhao next door was sent to the hospital after hearing the voice. When the children arrived at the hospital, it was already the next morning. After all, there is a long way to the hometown in the city, and the old people refuse to live together. After
, Aunt Li had the idea of finding a wife. Otherwise, if something really happens, no one can rely on it. Fortunately for Lao Zhao this time, what about next time? When she thinks about it, she feels scared. At the same time, is also concerned about the old Zhao who was busy with her during the hospitalization. He also lost his wife very early. In this way, the two slowly walked together and had the idea of spending the rest of their lives together.
When two old people said this idea to each other's children, it caused their children to object. Firstly, thinks that the reputation is not good. If you remarry at such an old age, you will be discussed by friends and relatives; secondly, you think that the other party must have something to do.
But wherever the two old people care so much, they resolutely live together. Z5z turned into a dispute between the children of both sides in two days. Although the two are still happy, Aunt Li also truly understands that only a man with the consent of his children can be truly happy, rather than tossing the elderly all the time.
03,
first clarify the economic issues and avoid a lot of trouble
Aunt Wang is 65 years old this year. She and her second husband only re-married a few years ago. It can be said that she is very happy. Just because she made a small behavior when she decided to reorganize.
Aunt Wang belongs to the middle-aged divorced kind, so that her son will not be wronged, she decides not to marry again, and is afraid that the later partner will treat the child badly. After all, no one can say for sure, it's a bit difficult for someone who is not one's own person to be single-minded.
For years, Aunt Wang raised her son by herself, and married and had children. She is also gentle and considerate to her daughter-in-law, and the family gets along well. It stands to reason that Aunt Wang is also a winner in life in the eyes of others, but she gradually feels very lonely.
used to not marry because of her son. However, when the burden was put down, she really felt that this was not the life she wanted. After all, a person is helpless and has to carry everything by himself. One can imagine how helpless it is. Now that his son is also married, it is not too much to have a partner.
Aunt Wang told her son about this, but his son was embarrassed. He is not unwilling to , but in recent years there have been a lot of things about the elderly, which are related to personal property and cause unnecessary economic disputes. When the son expressed these concerns, he did not expect that the enlightened Aunt Wang would make a good statement about the economic problems before reorganizing the family.
Next, she also found a spouse smoothly, and made clear the property of both parties in advance, just mind. Under the witness of the children of both sides, the two elderly people draw the line between money. Aunt Wang
is also because of this little behavior, children also rest assured to support them, the past few years have also become more and more happy. She feels that it is reliable to find a man who clarifies financial issues first, so as to avoid a lot of troubles and ensure the quality of marriage in advance.
Conclusion:
60-year-old woman, what kind of man do you like?
Health, child support, and financial issues have been agreed in advance by men who are 60-year-old women. At this young age, they should be considered as partners, so that they can be better accompanied.
In fact, when reaches their age, happiness is the only criterion. After all, the rest of his life is not long, and there is no need to consider too many economic, material and other external factors. The companionship at this time is the original appearance of the marriage. It has nothing to do with money. I just want to live every day.
Unfortunately, the current economic pressure is too great to maintain the original intention. Especially for men, there is always a lot of pressure and health problems are not optimistic. Perhaps, women who are wives should be more considerate of each other so that marriage can have more time to spend with each other.
also used the coupon "Wind Up" to buy peppers: "I have turned my youth into her, and my fingertips have popped up in midsummer. The heart is moved, and let me go. In the name of love, are you still willing?"
Life is short, sometimes it passes quickly. However, if you can't grasp the feeling of happiness, you will be full of regrets. is just because when you really get old, you don't think of how much wealth you have, but what you missed.
It can be seen that life sometimes does not care about gains, but often loses. Z6z may be so obsessed with what is lost because of the phrase "don't get it, always wait and see." For , only "cherish" is the best way to prevent "loss."
Therefore, even if is a 60-year-old woman, it is not too late when she has the desire to pursue happiness. The rest of your life is not long, you don't have to live in the eyes of others all the time, you always have to fight for yourself bravely. So, every day is the best time.
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