No girl can walk out of her boyfriend's cell phone with a smile, this sentence is an unchanging law through the ages.
Because of the man you want to love and say that you want to love you for life, you may spend time with other women in places you can't see. Only you are kept in the dark, naively thinking that this man will give you the happiness you want;
If he is really loyal to love, but if you flip his phone, you are buying a crisis for your trust. After getting along, you will find that there is an invisible barrier between you, any quarrel Will make this crisis looming, and then become out of control.
Therefore, in a sense, when a woman suspects that a man has changed his heart, it is not a wise choice to flip through the other’s phone, because the other person has really changed his heart, and you are the only one who is heartbroken; and the other person has not changed his heart. Then there will be a crisis of trust between you.
looking at the other party’s mobile phone does not effectively solve the problem. When you suspect that a man has changed his mind, you may be able to find the answer from these three practical questions.
What is the reason for the mistrust between you?
01), Jiang Jiao in "Left Ear" likes Zhang Yang very much. The other party's family is poor, so she can afford all his school expenses; the other party doesn't like her to be too clingy, then she forces herself to keep a distance from her; She wanted a new mobile phone, without saying anything, she bought him the latest mobile phone with her pocket money.
She is obviously very proud, but inexplicably humbled in front of the one she loves. Until one day, she, who has always been very obedient and sensible, checked the other party's cell phone for the first time without the other party's permission. The screen of the
mobile phone displayed a text message from an unfamiliar number: "Are you there? I miss you so much." Jiang Jiao could feel that Zhang Yang was always absent-minded when getting along with her in the past few days. She didn't know why Wherever he came out, he looked at his cell phone so badly today that he understood the cause of the problem.
02), it turns out that the other party has long been ambiguous with other girls without knowing it, but he has been kept in the dark without knowing it.
When you love someone, you will find that all the actions of the other person will affect your mind, even you don't know when you become so sharp.
If you love someone, you will not prove that they love you, but when you don't love someone, any clues will be found out, because the difference between before and after changes is not too obvious, but it is enough to make yourself feel.
Therefore, the reason for the crisis of trust between you is that the person who once loved you very much, one day suddenly does not love you as much as before.
will trigger a series of "butterfly effect" after looking at the mobile phone (
01), the movie "Perfect Stranger" perfectly interprets the "sequelae" left by the mobile phone viewing between partners.
A group of people got together and had nothing to do, and started a trust game of "check each other's phone". Perhaps the original intention of this game is good. I want to use this trust game to narrow the distance between lovers. Individuals have a private space that they don’t want others to set foot in, in which little secrets are stored.
And these little secrets may be useful or unhelpful. In short, none of the women who participated in the game came out of their boyfriend’s phone with a smile. The relationship between each couple began to become tense. Everyone was cautious and afraid of touching Met each other's reverse scales.
02). After that, some couples and couples quarreled more often in their lives, and the content of the quarrels was mostly related to the secrets in the mobile phones they saw.
Therefore, many relationships that should be able to continue to be affectionate have become shaky because of an unnecessary trust game.
flipping through the phone may be just a simple act, but it involves a wide range of things.
For example, trust, such as the original close relationship, for example, will increase new conflict points. A series of "butterfly effects" will occur when
distrusts once, which may cause each other to no longer be able to treat each other as sincerely as before. Such a crisis of trust will only make the relationship between each other more and more serious. tension.
is a better way than looking at the phone is actuallyCommunicating with time and place
Women are mainly perceptual thinking, so sometimes they will inevitably be subjective when looking at problems. If you do something unreasonable at this time, you will only hurt your feelings and make yourself sad.
When you feel that the other party doesn't love you as much as before, you don't have to be like an enemy, you can sit down and communicate with the other party calmly and tell him what you think.
If your feeling is right, then you need to re-examine the relationship between you; if your feeling is wrong, then apologize to the other person and tell him that you don’t believe him, but because you love him too much. Fear of losing him.
has many ways to deal with feelings. It is not necessary to use the most extreme way to solve it. Not only will it not solve the problem, it will make the problem worse.
