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as the saying goes: home and everything are prosperous.
In reality, there are many families that are not harmonious at all. The root cause of such disharmony is that husbands are not good enough to their wives.
They always shout to their wives, so that their wives cannot feel happiness in their married life.
But in fact, this kind of man who treats his wife badly will get this kind of retribution.
01 In reality, there are many people who are not good to their wives at all.
I don’t know if there are such men around you. They still have the idea of male superiority and inferiority. They always feel that their wives should do housework at home to take care of themselves.
So every day they are the same as the uncle, no matter what, waiting for their wife to take care of.
Sometimes the wife is taking care of the child and the house is messed up, and they will not move. Sometimes the wife is busy and the child is crying, and they pretend not to hear it, and even scold the child's cry to affect him.
So their daily life is to get up early to go to work, go home at night, and then blame their wives from time to time, and blame their wives from time to time.
And a woman with such a man, they have no choice but to collapse.
They did not feel any happiness in this marriage, and this marriage also consumed their enthusiasm and hope for life.
Loved her husband from the beginning, and gradually turned to dislike her husband, and even slowly wanted to leave this marriage.
Maybe at first, a man doesn’t think it will be bad for his wife, but it will get retribution over time.
Zhang Jun is a man who is not good to his wife at all. To his wife, he is not only widowed, but also a hindrance to himself.
Since her wife had a child, she quit her job at home because there was no one to take care of her. She took care of the children and the home every day, while Zhang Jun was increasingly exaggerated.
He felt that his wife would not be able to live without him. He felt that his wife had no income and he had to count on himself, so he shouted to his wife.
Every day when he goes home, he will be very angry when he sees that his wife’s food is not ready, and he will scold his wife. When he sees a mess at home, he will be very angry.
His wife is busy every day, but he thinks it is so tiring for his wife to take a child at home, so she is not good to his wife at all.
While the wife looked at such a husband, from the beginning of the explanation, to slowly disappointed, the words became less and less in the end, just for the children to maintain the marriage.
In fact, in reality, there are many such men who always think that their wives are their own when they marry themselves, so they can do whatever they want.
But in fact, once you treat your wife this way, you will get retribution one day.
02 If you are bad to your wife, you will get this kind of retribution.
In fact, many people always think that it’s okay to treat their wives badly, but in fact, men who treat their wives badly will get retribution.
means that he will be alone in his old age, and no one will care about him.
In fact, how a man treats his wife has a great impact on his later life. Some men always think that they will have children in the future.
But in fact, because of his bad treatment of his wife, his children will dislike him from childhood, and because he is not good to his wife, the children never like to be with them since childhood.
If you are not good to your wife, maybe your wife can't do anything, but these bit of bad things will eventually chill your wife's heart bit by bit, so that his wife no longer has any hope and love for him.
Their wives will become more and more closed, and they will become less and less willing to communicate with them, and they will also become less and less willing to talk to him. They can't feel the goodness of their husbands, and slowly they begin to ignore their husbands, even I will become less and less concerned about my husband.
For example, if the husband is not feeling well, they will only say symbolically: Go and see! Drink the medicine and it's gone.
They will not carefully urge them to accompany their husbands to the hospital, nor will they prepare medicines for them to drink.
When they were young, they would let their wives accumulate disappointment. When they were old, their wives would not care about them and would not worry about their food, clothing, housing and transportation.
zAfter all, at that time, the wife would feel that the child is also older, and most of his life is over, and the role of the husband is not big, and the time for retribution is here.
Aunt Zhang and her husband now lead this life. When
was young, Aunt Zhang was irritated by her husband because of her children, and even her husband always treated Aunt Zhang as a nanny. In this way, Aunt Zhang was heartbroken. The husband of
doesn't have any big problems either. He just doesn't care about or cares about Aunt Zhang, and is always gesticulating.
Because of this, Aunt Zhang's heart was very cold. Later, the child was raised and went to work outside, while the husband retired. At this time, the husband's health gradually became poor and often fell ill.
Aunt Zhang either makes appointments with friends to travel, or goes shopping by herself. She only cooks for her husband and washes the clothes. She doesn't care about the rest.
When her husband is unwell, she will say, go to the hospital for a look! Then I didn’t care much. My husband always complained that Aunt Zhang was treating him badly, but Aunt Zhang said, when you were young, weren’t you the same to me? The words
made her husband not know what to say.
In fact, once a man treats his wife badly, he will one day receive retribution. Sometimes he can't bear such retribution.
03 If you are good to your wife, you will be happy in life.
And those who are good to your wife will be happy in life, their career will be smooth, and their families will be harmonious.
They never think that their wives should take care of themselves, but they think that this is a family where two people must work together, so no matter how busy or tired they are, they always care about their wife.
Zhang Jicheng is such a person.
After he got married with his wife, he was very kind to his wife. He said that his wife is a person who accompanies him for the rest of his life. He must be kind to his wife, so no matter how busy or tired he is, he will help his wife when he comes home and often give his wife gifts .
even often takes his wife to travel.
is also because of this. His wife loves him more and more. Although he is old now, the relationship between the two is still very good.
Actually, a marriage is like this. When a man treats his wife better and better, the marriage will become happier and happier in his old age.
But if a man treats his wife badly, his wife will gradually become chilled, and eventually he will not love him more and more. When he is old, he will not want to take care of his husband.
So, maybe today, many people think it’s okay to treat their wives badly, but when they are old and alone, they will understand how ridiculously wrong they were. The important thing about
is that when the day comes, we can’t say anything, after all, we did it wrong at first.
So from now on, treat your wife well! What is good now is to accumulate blessings for oneself and for the life of old age.
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is a sunny breeze, with a single book, you can understand the various aspects of life. I only wish to hold a book to explain life, and write a pen to warm people's hearts.
