After the age of forty, most men have a stable social status, so many men at this time, their minds will drift outside the home.
The wife who gave her time and experience will gradually decline in his heart, and her attitude towards his wife will change from enthusiasm to indifferent, and she feels that his wife is annoying.
He had forgotten all his promises to his wife, no matter what his wife did for him and his family, he didn't care anymore.
's boredom with marriage and his wife made him want to escape from this meaningless marriage, if at this time a considerate girl appeared next to him.
Then men will change their hearts directly, but what men don't know is that a simple choice will destroy the family that they have run for most of their lives.
Although such a choice can bring you long-lost freshness, is it really worth it to ruin your family for freshness?
I guess that those men who abandon their wives and children and choose to divorce will have a bad ending! Therefore, after a man is forty years old, he abandons his wife and chooses to divorce.
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A friend next to me, when he was young, was responsible for the appearance in our circle, and his mature and stable temperament in middle age made him more outstanding.
He has also become the other half of many girls' fantasies, but he has always kept a distance from the opposite sex of the company and never made his wife jealous because of this. Every time
goes out to a party before 11 o'clock, he will definitely go home on time to accompany his wife. We always laugh at his strict control of his wife, but in my heart we envy his attitude towards marriage.
But our group of friends never expected that such a well-mannered man would change his mind one day, and the object of his change would be a successful female boss.
After he was with his female boss, he chose to divorce his wife without hesitation. He didn't even want children. He got married soon after the divorce.
However, after he remarried, his life was not as good as he wanted. His originally promising job chose to resign under the pressure of his current wife.
After he resigned, he could only stay at home every day. Whenever two people went out to go shopping, he dared to look at others more, and his wife would be furious at him and even do something. After
lived the life of a rich man, he regretted it more and more. This kind of life is not what he wants, but what can be done even if he regrets it! When
02.
was in college, a classmate and a girl in our class had been together since freshman year, and the two went from college to marriage.
When we went to their wedding, we all felt that the two of us could be happy to grow old, but then after their marriage reached middle age, many changes happened.
, the man who was single-minded to her, actually moved his heart to a female employee of the company. Such a heartbeat made him very guilty of his wife.
At first he had been patient, but the moment the female employee confessed to him, the only guilt in his heart that supported him also disappeared.
After the two were together, he increasingly looked down on his wife, and his daily nagging made him feel irritated and bored.
finally filed a divorce directly with his wife. At first, his wife disagreed. Later, he and his wife said that they liked other people's wives before agreeing to divorce.
Not long after he divorced his wife, he married the female employee of the company. After the two got married, the woman quit her job.
She doesn't do anything at home every day. She only knows to buy clothes and bags. After get off work, he not only cleans the house but also buys vegetables and cooks. The life of
made him feel desperate. Later, he called his wife to forgive and remarry him, but his wife refused him without hesitation.
03.
My colleague and his wife were married by their parents. From the beginning, he had no affection for his wife. The two had children only after three years of marriage.
Not long ago, he was frowning every day. We learned that he was divorcing his wife recently after inquiring, but his wife didn't agree.
even made trouble with his parents. His parents were hospitalized because of the increased blood pressure. Later, he and his wife said that they had met a woman they really liked.
His wife compromised and divorced him. After his wife took away the child, heA new marriage soon began, and his parents would not let him into the house after knowing that they would sever relationship with him.
His children now see him as if they don't know him, and they don't even want to call his father. A happy life makes him feel very happy.
But such happiness made him feel a little unworthy, because the source of all this happiness was the result of his betrayal.
Elk has something to say:
once saw this sentence: a middle-aged man who chooses to divorce is choosing a devastating suicide. Once he makes such a choice, not only will his career collapse, but even his own children will treat himself There are prejudices.
Middle-aged men's stable work and stable character will become the capital to attract girls, but these cannot be reasons for your indulgence.
After all, in the eyes of others, a man who chooses to abandon his wife and children has no good character, and your moral character will be doubted by others.
Therefore, after a man is forty years old, don't give up the family that you have run for many years because of your temporary passion and freshness. You have to keep your own principles.
insists that he has the bottom line. The feelings encountered at this time are not necessarily genuine, and the vigor may only be short-lived.
Sometimes it is plain and watery, so that you can have a happy and warm life. A virtuous wife and a lovely child are what you should do everything to protect.
Therefore, if you are a man after the age of forty, don't be fascinated by the colorful world. After all, one step is wrong, one step is wrong.
you do not wish elk (lost)
author in the emotional world: Elk
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