Everyone has his own life memory, and has his own life story. As we grow up, we have experienced different people and things, and also met different lives and encounters, but often only a few come to you Said the most precious person in life.
However, there are always regrets in life. This is because many times we are in it without knowing what we should do. When
is in the choice of fate, he doesn't know what the choice should be, and when he has it, he doesn't know its preciousness.
Therefore, there will always be pain and regret in life, but sometimes it cannot be changed. After retiring,
divorced his wife and met three years later, only to realize that I had lost the most precious part of my life.
01.
Sister Zheng is 56 years old this year. She has been divorced for three years and leads a peaceful life alone.
helped her daughter to bring her grandson for three years. Her grandson is now in kindergarten. She lives not far from her daughter, so she usually helps to pick up and pick up her grandson when she is fine. .
Speaking of previous divorce experiences, she felt that she no longer wanted to recall. After marrying her husband that year, the original days were calm and peaceful.
However, the husband always seems to be a dissatisfied person. He likes to make friends outside. In his spare time, he is always socializing and gatherings, and he rarely stays at home at ease. Especially in the middle-aged stage, almost no masters.
This also cast a shadow over their marriage, and disputes continue.
Husband said at every turn that he had enough, so he just divorced earlier.
Until her husband retired three years ago, Sister Zheng didn't want to be patient anymore and filed for divorce.
didn't expect her husband to shrink back a bit, and appealed to all kinds of peace, saying not to make a divorce, but Zheng Sister still insisted on divorcing.
Men always have an idea of trying to escape from marriage, but when you put it into practice, this escape will turn into reluctance.
02.
After the divorce, Zheng's eldest sister is catching up with her daughter to give birth to a grandson. Therefore, she has been busy for three years. During this period, she will live in her daughter's house on weekdays, and will return to her own small home on weekends to give her daughter-in-law. Some space.
's three-year life is quite busy and fulfilling, which almost dilutes her discomfort after divorce. On the contrary,
is the husband. After retirement, he lost his work life and became very lonely. Coupled with divorce, he was left alone. Not only was he quite uncomfortable in life, but also emotionally lonely. The daughter of
is unwilling to interact with him because of his divorce from his wife. The old friends, friends, and friends are getting older, and they don't know much about each other. In this way, the divorce with his wife after retirement did not make him feel free, but he felt very sad and frustrated.
When a woman loses her marriage after the age of fifty, sometimes it is not necessarily a bad thing. A woman who has a self will become more and more beautiful.
03.
As the saying goes, young couples and old friends, this sentence can be said to be the most simple truth. After half a lifetime of marriage,
has devoted more or less the hard work and dedication of two people, and there are countless memories and stories.
Xiang Rui Yimo's marriage is the greatest wealth in life, especially white-haired partners who have joined hands in their later years are always enviable.
Life may lose a lot of time without knowing it, and the daily life experience may also be ordinary.
However, if you ignore the meaning of this ordinary life to yourself, and ignore the care of people around you, you may often miss the happiness you have in your hands.
From the case of Zheng's wife and children, we can see that one must understand what is most important to one's life. Don't lose the love of a good woman or the original one because of one's willfulness. Beautiful.
Conclusion: The biggest regret of
's life is that many wrong things cannot be restored, and many experiences cannot be repeated. If
can be repeated, I don’t know how many tragedies in the world can be avoided, and I don’t know how many sorrows and joys can be rewritten.
Therefore, for any person, take good care of your daily life, take good care of your family and friends, andHolding your own tangible happiness is the most important thing. The happiest thing about
is that we still have time to make up, and have time to recover.
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