I originally thought that after divorce, I would not have anything to do with my ex-husband’s family. Although I hate him very much, not only did I hate him for not giving me anything, but also wanted to deprive me of my rights as a mother after the divorce. He wants the custody of the child, and it is absolutely necessary. If I argue with him, he will definitely try every means to deal with me.
At a time, I only have one purpose, for the good of the children, in order not to let the children get hurt in this ridiculous fight, I decided to let him do everything, even if the conditions he put forward are fundamentally unreasonable and unequal treaties, but For the child, I endured everything.
Our divorce has a prerequisite. At that time, he traveled frequently, and at first he could often go home to live, but after a long time he said that it was too exhausting to toss back and forth, so he simply rented a house in the city where he traveled frequently.
My relatives and friends have persuaded me that if two people live apart for a long time, something will happen, but I don’t think so, because I can’t go to him with my child. I have no relatives in that city, and he has no relatives or friends. I take my children to live with my parents, and at least have a caregiver. Besides, since my children are already in elementary school, I will not easily move places for them.
I thought he would come back someday, after all, his home is here, but what I never expected was that he could not stand loneliness, but he couldn't stand the agitation of others. In that lonely city, he quickly got to know some friends. He felt that those people were very knowledgeable, men are ambitious, and women have vision. Unlike the small city where I live, men only see ease in front of them. , And women only know that the parents are short and have nothing to pursue.
The well-informed woman he referred to was a colleague he met when he was doing a part-time job. She was a divorced woman with a two-year-old child. Soon they appreciated and sympathized with each other, and soon they came together. And I also learned all this in a short time.
I was going to tell him all this to his parents in my hometown, but he stopped him. He said that he would let me give him a period of time, and he would take care of it, and told me very seriously that he only had me and Children, other people are not that important at all.
When I listened to his words, it was not without doubt in my heart. I doubted his words, and even more doubted his character, and even couldn't figure out how he could be such a person.
Until I waited for the news that he wanted to invest in a business, I resolutely opposed it after listening to his imagination, and he was determined to do it a long time ago, and he just informed me that he What are you going to do instead of discussing with me. I know that someone behind him must have given him full support, otherwise he would not have the confidence. He has always listened to my advice. Only this time, he looked like a stubborn bull who never looked back.
Later I learned that the woman gave him a sum of money, saying that she would do her best to support him in her career. She said that she hoped that he would become the person he wanted to be, and he was also moved by what the woman said.
That day, it was rare for him to go home, but from his expressionless face, I understood everything. I knew that something big would happen. At night, curiosity urged me to check his mobile phone. Sure enough, the woman confessed in the chat that she liked him very much and wanted to be with him for the rest of her life, but it was a pity that he had become someone else's husband. I know that this woman is not simple, she just said her regrets, but in fact she is suggesting that if he wants, she wants to marry him.
I finally understand what my premonition is. He came back this time because he was not kind and he came to divorce me. In the next month, I informed his family and brothers and sisters of his thoughts. At first, their family resolutely opposed him, and they repeatedly stopped him, but later, I didn’t know what ecstasy he had poured into his family. The parents-in-law said that they were getting older, and they couldn't control many things at all. Their children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and they don't care about anything, let it be.
I wanted to get the support of my parents-in-law, but in the end they let them go. I can't think of any reason to continue. When he filed for divorce for the sixth time, I quickly agreed. However, when I agreed to the divorce, I clearly told him that since I wanted to divorce so much, then I would fulfill him, but if I wanted to remarry in the future, there would be no door. He was quite sure that there would be no such day.
He fought with me for custody, I remembered all these yearsI was the one who took the child. He may not realize the bitterness at all, let alone the feeling that a mother is about to lose her child. I know that he is 100% sure that I dare not compete with him, because I don't have a job and I am just a housewife. I am incapable of raising children alone.
just, I know, no matter what kind of conflict between me and him, I must not let the child be injured, I agreed to his request, but I told him that he is not stable there, wait for him Everything was stable. I bought the house and had someone who could take care of the child. I gave him the child. Before that, I took it for him. He hesitated and nodded in agreement.
No matter who the custody of the child belongs to, in short, as long as the child is in my hands for one day, I will take care of it. I cherish this fate with the child more than ever. At the same time, the responsibility of being a mother is born in my body. I know that the best thing I should do is not to go home and cry, but to quickly find a job that can earn money for myself and my children, otherwise Even if you can't fight for custody, what kind of a qualified mother?
is also weird to say, after such a deep injury, my potential was thoroughly stimulated. I can't go out to work with my children, so I write stories and novels at home, because I know that many people are out of the code, I don't want to be famous in one fell swoop, what I want is to be self-sufficient. Needless to say, the hardships in
, there are countless nights, when the child is asleep, I was crackling on the keyboard, this kind of sound is not boring at all in my opinion, it clearly symbolizes hope, this is before dawn In the dark, give me a little hope.
, but no one thought that, I have been knocking on this way for two years, and there have been drastic changes between me and him. I successfully signed a contract with a media company to write scripts for them, and I can get it The remuneration is that in addition to the same five social insurance and one housing fund as other regular employees, there is also a salary that is several times higher than theirs. I have both fame and fortune, and I am no longer afraid of losing my child. And he and the woman broke up half a year ago because of financial disputes. The woman
saw that all the money she invested in him was in vain, she immediately took back the vow that she wanted to grow old with him, she started asking him for money, and he didn’t have the money to pay it back, she took his credit card to cash out .
When I learned of all this, his credit card was already owed more than 100,000 yuan, but the former mother-in-law found me at this time and said: Please remarry my son.
I suddenly remembered a sentence: You are not here in the cold winter, who are you in the spring? Yes, maybe I should thank everyone for hurting me at the beginning, otherwise I won't have the results today, but this does not mean that I will forgive those who have hurt me. I will always remember those hurts. With this pain, I will go forward courageously and walk the road to success. So I smiled and refused.
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