has heard such love words: "There is always such a person in this world. It is your thoughts and your warmth. Even if she is not far or near, as long as you think of her, you will always feel stable, secure, and feel I have a bottom in my heart. Even the air around me has become determined." "I still like you very much, like an old opera in the old city, softly speaking, like the afternoon sun in winter, pointing directly at people's hearts, like spring When
falls in love with someone, there is the sorrow of "thinking about the king every day but not seeing the king", the expectation of "holding the hand and growing old with the son", and "if love is true. For a long time, how can it be the tenderness of the day and night. Women are longing for love, even if they say they don't want to fall in love, but when they meet someone they like, they can't help but want to be together. In my mind, I set a frame for my ideal opposite sex, but when I see the person I like, all standards are cloudless. When
loves someone too much, a woman is willing to give for a man without asking for anything in return. But some things are enough to stop, and if you go too far, it will be a disaster. When you fall in love with someone, it's not good to do stupid things for the other person. If you want a long relationship, you must learn to fall in love and learn to get along well with each other. If
likes someone again, don't do these "stupid things", otherwise the relationship will not last long:
1. Don't give in to each other unconditionally.
Xiaomi is a beautiful girl with a simple person. She didn't like Leilei very much at first, but after being pursued for a long time, she was moved together. From the time when he didn't like it so much until he liked it more and more, Xiaomi felt that her boyfriend was good everywhere, and being with him was the happiest thing in the world. At the beginning, my boyfriend felt very touched that he could find such a beautiful girlfriend. After a long time, he became a little impatient, scolded Xiaomi at every turn, and ignored her feelings when he was unhappy. Xiaomi was also very unhappy, but for the sake of love, she endured it again and again. Later, when she became tired, her boyfriend hated her even more. When
falls in love with someone, a woman is often willing to give, revolve around the man, and treat him unconditionally. If it is moderate, the other party may be very moved, but if "excessive force" will put the other party under pressure. Everyone is an independent individual and has his own pride. When you are in love, you need to accommodate each other, but you cannot accommodate unconditionally. If the other party says what it is, just do what you ask you to do. Then you will become a puppet, and there is no respect and status in the relationship together.
Women don't think that as long as they are good enough for a man, they can touch him and their feelings will be strong. On the contrary, if you unconditionally accommodate the other party, it will make the other party feel better and feel that you are bullied, but the relationship will not last long.
2. Control the other party very strictly.
When Afeng and his girlfriend Yueyue broke up, everyone was taken aback. It was not because Yueyue was a school girl, and she had a beautiful appearance. It would be a pity to give up such a good girlfriend. However, Afeng said that he was under control too strict, and he was not allowed to talk to other girls, not to look at other people too much, check the phone several times a day, and even normal work contacts were not allowed, otherwise his girlfriend would lose his temper. Although facing a beautiful woman all day, he felt very restrained, and the two broke up after a big quarrel.
When you fall in love with someone, don't use the name of love to control the other person. It's not that you can't leave if you control the other person. You can't keep a person who wants to leave, and you can't drive away a person who wants to stay. Feelings are like sand in your hands. The tighter you hold them, the faster they will be lost.
A woman always wants to check whether her boyfriend is dedicated and loves herself alone in her relationship. Therefore, she will especially restrict the other's actions and check her mobile phone frequently. In fact, this is counterproductive, and your boyfriend will think that you are too much and can't stand it. It is better to give free space to women, so that they can be together better.
3. Quit the job for the other party. When
resigned, Shanshan was happily. There was nothing happier to support herself and have a warm home. But when she wanted to buy something, her boyfriend couldn't stand her heart from the pain of giving money to her boyfriend to hesitate and refuse to give it. Shanshan feels that she doesn't have to wash and cook, take care of her home, and give her boyfriend endless gentleness and the other party will not leave herself. Now I feel that the look in her boyfriend's eyes grows disgusting and sad.
Women need to know that first of all they are a financially independent person, so they won’t followAttached to anyone, love is just the icing on the cake, it is not a gift in the snow, and a man with you is not a "poverty alleviation". If you don’t have a job, don’t stay at home unless you have good family conditions and your parents have enough money to support you. Relying on others to raise, and reaching out to ask for money from others is destined to have no corresponding dignity and status.
When getting along with the opposite sex, women should not be so stupid, quit their jobs for the other party, be financially independent, and make money to buy flowers for themselves, so that they will not be wronged in the relationship, and men will also look at you high.
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