Love tests sincerity and courage; marriage tests quality and heart. It's really not easy to find a lover who is like-minded and will stay with you throughout your life.
Everyone’s story will begin with romance and surprise, but it may not end with eternity and staying together. Time has tested people's hearts, and many people are finally facing a breakup.
's initial love is sweet and beautiful. But when we were talking about marriage, we were suddenly faced with unexpected problems. At this time, we can fully understand the lover's heart.
does not have a perfect match for love. Only when each disagreement takes a step back, is considerate and respects each other, it is possible for both parties to reach an agreement and embrace a happy life after marriage as soon as possible.
It's okay to have something to ask, and we should be honest and honest. But if the marriage is built on the basis of a large amount of material needs, it may eventually lead to regrets.
"Give you another chance. I will send you the 30 Wanchai gift within three days. My brother is in a hurry to spend money." "No need"
01. Because he didn't get admitted to a favorite university, Su Kai (pseudonym) joined the work early. He has a calm personality and practical work, so his income has grown steadily. At the age of 25, he met Xiaoya (a pseudonym) who was still studying.
Facing this beautiful, cute, playful and lively girl, Su Kai quickly became tempted. During the period of contact, he subsidized the other party's living expenses of 2,000 a month and obeyed her in everything. Xiaoya promised to be his girlfriend after graduation.
A year later, Xiaoya graduated, Su Kai helped her rent a house and gave her more subsidies, but Xiaoya repeatedly shied away from the relationship issue. Su Kai later learned that she had many suitors, so it was difficult to make a decision.
Su Kai is not a stalker, he has the idea of shrinking. However, Xiaoya took the initiative to stay. In the next getting along, Su Kai can be described as meticulous, in his opinion, this relationship is really hard-won.
02. During the three years of getting along, Su Kai has been very generous. Although he has a high income, he has not saved much money. At the age of 29, he planned to start a small company by himself, but this idea was strongly opposed by Xiaoya.
"We are getting married soon, you spend all the money, what about the bride price?" Su Kai promised: "Give less of the bride price first. It will be fine to write you IOUs. Now I want to seize the opportunity. Within two years, I will definitely I will make up the money for you." After repeated persuasion by
, the two set the bride price at 200,000. However, before receiving the certificate, Xiaoya learned that Su Kai did not buy a house. She once again expressed disappointment: "Let my friends know that I am married and do not have a house, so I won't be a joke?" After
, Xiaoya directly blacked Sukaila. In order to save his love, Su Kai even borrowed money to change the gift to 300,000. However, no matter how sincere he expressed his sincerity, the other party remained unmoved, and the two finally faced a breakup.
03. Su Kai seemed to have a dream, putting in a lot of time and energy, but in the end he was really unwilling to end up like this. After that, he could only put his mind on work, after all, this pinned all his hopes. In just one year, Su Kai has achieved some success. He not only paid the down payment for the house, but also bought the car. On his birthday, he actually received a call from Xiaoya. The other party said in a complaining tone:
, "Didn’t you say you want to take care of me all the time? I’ve been waiting for you for a year. Now I’ll give you another chance to put 30 in three days. When the Wan Cai gift came, I promised to get back with you, and it happened that my brother was also anxious to spend money.”
Su Kai knows that Xiaoya has been on blind date this year, and now she found herself naturally not because of true love. He then replied: "No need, don't give me this opportunity, I feel I am not worthy of you."
Yanyan has something to say:
long-term sincerity cannot be exchanged for a response, and continuous efforts cannot be exchanged for sincerity. Su Kai did not get the other party's heartfelt attention. Such dramatic results also let him thoroughly see the nature of the other party.
Xiaoya is a naive girl. In love, she pays particular attention to the conditions of the other half. Vanity is too heavy and too materialistic. Perhaps she completely misunderstood "love" at the beginning, and it is naturally difficult to get true love in the end.
Time will eventually test people's hearts, and everyone's routines and careful thoughts will be exposed. If you are blinded by money and always fight for your own interests, it will be difficult to retain fate, and ultimately loveWill leave.
Girls can pursue a better life, but they cannot use marriage as a transaction. When you meet a lover who is willing to give and has unlimited potential, give him more time. Short-sightedness and quick success are tantamount to self-destroying happiness.
More frankness, more trust in love; more understanding, more warmth in love; more tolerance, more happiness in love. Your mentality and state determine the grade of love.
Screening lovers, pay attention to the other party's heart
There is no denying that the generation of goodwill has a certain relationship with the appearance. We are not opposed to the practice of paying attention to appearances, but we should understand each other's heart in getting along.
ultimately determines the quality of the relationship and the success or failure of the marriage is the way of business and the hearts of both parties. Choose a lover with good character and responsibility, and happiness will be with you forever.
