Author: hit a ten-point
you did not wait for a reply like a man forever so long ......
Hello everybody, here is the main ten o'clock, ten o'clock we meet.
I think everyone has had this experience more or less. There is a friend of
who called me at 2 o'clock in the morning and asked me to go out for a drink.
waited for me to get to where he lived and saw him sitting on the sofa alone, drinking glass after glass.
I grabbed the wine glass in his hand and asked if there was something wrong.
He glanced at me, unlocked the phone and threw it to me.
I looked at the chat history between him and his girlfriend. From the greet at 9 o'clock in the morning until 12 o'clock, there were about dozens of messages. After 1 o'clock, his girlfriend replied: sleepy, going to sleep.
sometimes think about it is just some unanswered information, but it is enough to make him crazy.
He told me that sometimes the longest time with his girlfriend is not in contact for several days. It's not that
doesn't want to contact, but I can't find someone
. If it's good, I will understate the two words and I am busy.
sometimes responds like this, sleepy, going to bed. Friends of
are still drinking from one glass to the other
. I asked him what you think
. He told me:
my message to her is a second time, and her message to me is a reincarnation.
I feel that this sentence makes sense, and it verifies his current situation truly.
He told me that maybe this relationship should come to an end.
I wanted to persuade him a word or two, but I couldn’t find the right words to persuade him.
If I encountered this in his position, maybe my thoughts are the same as him.
Their relationship has come to this situation, I don't feel any regrets or regrets.
This is a normal development, if not, I still feel abnormal.
Looking back and thinking about it, did two people really come to this point just because of this unanswered message?
I don't think so.
In the past time, every time he was neglected, every time he was ignored has become the reason why he could not continue.
just knew that he was finally crushed today, and finally made a decision to cut off all relations with his girlfriend.
People often say that the IQ of a woman in love is second only to Einstein.
She should know what to do and what not to do.
actually just doesn't care, just doesn't care.
I remember once working overtime for a meeting with colleagues in the department
I was talking on it, and I saw a female colleague looking at her mobile phone below.
I was a little angry and asked what she was doing. Didn’t you know that she was in a meeting?
She was a little embarrassed to say that she was sending a message to her boyfriend, telling him that he was working overtime and that he would go home later.
After listening to her, I was a little embarrassed.
hurriedly said to everyone, give you ten minutes to report the situation to your home, and jokingly said that if the family doesn't believe it, you can let me answer the phone, let me explain.
saw my colleague look at me gratefully and went to call happily.
At this moment, I feel that I have done a great thing, as if it saved the feelings of several couples. There is a saying in
: A person’s WeChat response to you is his attitude towards you.
After all, the person who doesn't reply to you, maybe he just doesn't like you that much.
If you meet such a person, give up.
I said a word with a counselor before that two people can find countless reasons to be together if they want to be together. If
doesn't want to be together, there is only one reason, I don't like it.
However, this dislike can extend to countless reasons.
I want everyone to know, don’t let inaction become the normal state of indifference.
has a colleague who is a very talkative person. When
encounters happy things, it must be the first time to share with friends. When encountering sad things, it must be the first time to find friends to complain. When the other party needs company, she must not say anything.
is always responsive when you need help.
results once, She arrived in Shanghai alone, and then fell in love and couldn't find a job. In the hardest time, no one cared.
She opened the chat history with a close friend and found that she had been singing a one-man show all the time.
Many times she sent a message to the other side and there was no news.
Sometimes she sent a lot of happily, and after a long time, the other side would reply with "um".
Many times, the word "um" has no temperature.
has many times wanted to chat with friends about previous stories and recount their current situation. The opposite of
just came back with a few words, feeling very busy, and then posted a few circles of friends.
Someone asked me if I have ever experienced what it is like to be alone, and what kind of state it is.
I thought about it and wanted to tell him:
was boring to take a nap on weekends. In the afternoon, there was no sound in the dark room. When I felt around and finally found the phone under the pillow, the screen turned on. But I found that there was no message on the clean screen except for the time. This lonely state of
is exactly where I am now.
This kind of loneliness is also what I am experiencing.
Once I wanted to have a friend send me a message late at night or in the afternoon, and miss me a lot.
For some feelings, this kind of maintenance cannot just rely on unilateral initiative.
insists on wishful thinking, forget it.
Sometimes you don't take the initiative, which is really hurtful,
sometimes only you take the initiative, which is also very hurtful.
disturbed others and violated oneself.
How many people are holding mobile phones in their hands, watching the screen of the mobile phone after typing, deleting and typing, typing and deleting, the inner entanglement has been staged this one-man show.
has gone through a long period of suffering, and finally restrained the desire to express it. When it was finally sent out accidentally, it seemed that the air was full of embarrassment.
Some people always say that there is no regret medicine in the world, but the withdrawal function of WeChat seems to be a tried and tested regret medicine.
In the unsent message, there are often only 4 words, I miss you.
But the ambiguity of these four words only exists in couples.
Sometimes, when friends or lovers are not full, these four words are really difficult.
writes to readers who read here
thank you all old and new friends who are here for ten o’clock to read this article. If you approve of this article, please don’t be stingy with the praise and read it again, and wait for your points.
