"There are a few plums in the corner, and Ling Han drives alone." ——Wang Anshi
The most enviable thing in the world is to hold your hand and grow old with your son, wishing to have the love that is inseparable from one person’s heart, and the most sorrowful thing is that you should be hand in hand to grow old, but in life The good times go abruptly, leaving only one person to die alone.
Since ancient times, heroes have been saddened by beauty. With such a person, marriage begins with one person and ends with one person. In addition to his academic excellence, he is also loyal in love, and his legendary life should not be forgotten by future generations.
Millennium National Quintessence Dai Junren, a generation of Confucian scholars
, said: Chinese history scholars, after Mr. Yang Ming, were swayed. Speaking of Ma Yifu, you may feel unfamiliar, but in the period of the Republic of China, he had certain literary achievements. He is an outstanding modern Chinese thinker and a great master.
Ma Yifu is a native of Shaoxing, Zhejiang. He is one of the early representatives of "New Confucianism", and even has the title of "A Generation of Confucianism".
He was born in the family of officials and officials. His father Ma Yanpei was in a county in Sichuan, and his mother He Dingzhu was a well-known lady, and his family were all educated intellectuals. Therefore, he was nurtured and well educated since he was a child. His character is aloof and independent, and he is also very confident. During the Republic of China, he called himself a "master" . When
was in school, his father also invited a famous local Confucian scholar to teach at home. Ma Yifu is talented and intelligent, and coupled with the hard work of the day after tomorrow, he has achieved good results in many examinations, ranking first. One, envy others.
is already the number one in the county at the age of 16. He studied hard since he was a child, which paved a lot for his future growth. As an adult, Ma Yifu is even more successful, and has made many academic achievements.
got his wife Tang Yi
in the 24th year of Guangxu in the Qing Dynasty, Ma Yifu took the county exam and successfully won the top spot, and his fame was very high. In the late Qing Dynasty, the famous representative of Qing sect Tang Shouqian , he used to be an official in the government, and he was also very prestigious in the local area.
Surprisingly, he and Ma Yifu's father Ma Yanpei are good friends. By coincidence, Tang Shouqian saw Ma Yifu's article and learned about Ma Yifu's life. He was shocked. He could achieve something at a young age. He was really a genius. So Tang Shouqian wanted to marry his daughter to Ma Yifu.
During that period, the two concepts of free love and arranged marriage had a fierce collision. Many young intellectuals who have returned from studying abroad advocate free love.
Although Ma Yifu is very clever and has the fresh blood of advanced intellectuals, he is not opposed to arranged marriages at home, but accepts it with pleasure. He believes that two people get along slowly, so that they can gradually break in and understand each other. Both Tang Shouqian and Ma Yifu's father recognized this marriage, and the two hit it off. When was seventeen years old, Ma Yifu and Tang Yi became husband and wife.
, even if it is deep in love, but why is it shallow?
Tang Yi has a good reputation for being gentle and virtuous, and she and Ma Yifu are very talented. Ma Yifu and his wife Tang Yi get along very well. Tang Yi actually didn't know a word when she was in her family. After marrying Ma Yifu, she was deeply influenced by her husband, and she also worked hard to study literature together with her husband.
Tang Yi is also gifted and intelligent, and she is not a traditional old-fashioned woman. She has learned all the Chinese characters in a short time. Ma Yifu felt very pleased, so he liked his wife more and more, and gradually the two of them developed a deep relationship.
Although their marriage was arranged, it is not a bad thing for Ma Yifu, it is a beautiful thing. Tang Yi is knowledgeable, respectful and virtuous to his family. Ma Yifu liked his wife very much, and fell in love at first sight. After they got married, they lived a happy life and lived a life that ordinary people envied.
Their feelings are getting deeper and deeper. Ma Yifu often studies outside, and his wife takes care of housework at home and respects his parents. Although there are not many days to get together, it does not affect the feelings between their husband and wife. Unfortunately, I thought that Ma Yifu and Tang Yi could live a good life from now on, and be able to "wish to have one's heart, and the white head will not be separated."Life, this happy day lasted only three years. Tang Yi disappeared due to illness.
abides by his vows and does his best, and the real husband is also
" I know this world is as short as dew. However, yet". The sudden death of 's wife Tang Yi dealt a great blow to Ma Yifu, and he was deeply saddened.
In the years to come, Ma Yifu only delved into knowledge, and had no interest in marriage, and he said nothing. He felt that when his wife was alive, he did not treat him well and did not express his love. therefore vowed to himself that he would never marry a wife for the rest of his life.
Ma Yifu, who is only twenty years old, is at the age of Fenghua Zhengmao, but he has a long beard and a particularly mature mood, like an old man who has gone through many vicissitudes of life. This made the family particularly worried, and Tang Yi's father felt deeply guilty.
They all advised him to live a good life and start over. As a father, Tang Shouqian passed away to his beloved daughter, but in order to allow his son-in-law to pass on from generation to generation and not be depressed, he said to Ma Yifu: "If you want, you can take my third daughter away." As the father-in-law, is willing to marry his daughter again, which shows that Ma Yifu has such a deep position in his heart and such a weight.
But the horse was unmoved and refused the kindness of his father-in-law. Weak water is 3000, he only takes one scoop to drink. He strengthened his heart and said that he would no longer continue. The father-in-law was also deeply moved after hearing this. Without emotional fetters, he can concentrate on the academic field. He devoted himself to it, worked harder than before, made many outstanding achievements, and became famous.
He is fascinated by scholarship and delves into academic research. A year later, he learned a lot of advanced Western thought abroad and introduced Das Kapital to China. From then on, only talk about work, not about Fengyue. He has always been obsessed with academics, just like he has obsessed with his dead wife, walking non-stop. In terms of academics, we call him a master. In terms of love, we also deserve to be praised for his consistent attitude towards love.
Conclusion
Three wives and four concubines are very common in ancient times, but it is a very shameful thing for a man to lose his manners for a woman. In that era, it was very rare for a man to love only one woman. But Ma Yifu did it. He would never marry forever, and only loved Tang Yi a woman from beginning to end. He is unfortunate, at least in love, as if God closed the window of love for him. Ma Yifu died when he was 85 years old. He was alone and alone spent 66 years, he is a master worthy of every one of us.
