particularly disagrees with the flash marriage. Two people give to each other the happiness of the rest of their lives without fully understanding each other. This is undoubtedly a risky gamble. Getting married in a hurry, there will be many unexpected troubles. So the author summed up, in marriage, if the wife has these three characteristics, the man is the most tired!
1. Don't trust your husband
Tracking a man’s itinerary, peeking at her husband’s cell phone, and being suspicious of her husband all day long will make her husband particularly tired. Don’t keep chattering just because your husband comes home twenty minutes late. Seriously, this man is just marrying you, but he is not your prisoner. A woman should never treat herself as a father-in-law and be lenient.
Nowadays, the work pressure in society is generally very high. Overtime is a common occurrence. There are so many private cars and traffic jams are also common. Even if I want to go out to eat and play with friends occasionally, I just want to relieve my inner pressure. The husband is already exhausted from work, and he must go home to face his wife’s doubts. He must be unhappy in his heart.
Sometimes faced with the distrust of his wife, the husband will choose to lie to avoid his wife’s interrogation. This way of getting along is obviously not conducive to the development of marriage and relationship. Originally, the wife wanted a family atmosphere that talked about everything, but it was very easy to turn into a vicious circle of chasing and hiding. Such a marriage was too exhausting.
2. The grumpy
is furious because of some small things, and a woman who is reluctant is definitely not cute in the eyes of men. Women who quarrel at every turn, crying for divorce for three days, even if they are beautiful and attractive, they will make men retreat.
When falling in love, because of the freshness, a man may choose to endure, but getting married is to live with one’s shortcomings. Life is not about fighting wars and sweeping mines. You don't need to be thrilled every day. If a woman has a bad temper, she must change it.
Because the child lives in a family like a gunpowder barrel, it will also affect the physical and mental health. A woman’s most powerful weapon is gentleness. When her husband feels upset and encounters difficulties, she might as well make him a cup of tea she likes, hug him gently, and tell him not to be afraid. The home will always be his warm harbor. The author believes that no matter how hard a man does this, his heart will become tender.
3. Men who don’t know how to appreciate their husbands
are childish animals who want face, they are like beasts, they like to hide in caves and heal their wounds secretly after being injured. They always want others to see themselves when they recover. The strong side. When your husband gets a promotion and raises his salary; when your husband prepares a gift for you; when your husband fixes the broken water pipe at home, you are really good, and I don't know what to do without you.
A simple sentence can give a man a great sense of satisfaction. Most men are animals with very simple thinking. If you don’t express your liking for something, they may stop doing it in the future. Only by letting them feel your appreciation and admiration for him can they feel the deep love of their wives. meaning.
The author tells women a trick to praise a man: you should praise a man for what he does, don’t praise him for what he is like, for example: my dear, the food you cooked today is really delicious, especially in line with my taste. I'm so lucky to marry you.
Don’t say: Dear you are awesome. If you say that, praise a person for a specific thing, they will do it next time. If you praise him as a person, he will only think that he is pretty good, meaningless. Everyone likes to be praised. Husbands know that their wives appreciate themselves, and of course they will behave better and better!
