Life does not stop at the moment of marriage. Life after marriage is the beginning of a marriage. Regardless of the loving couple, there will be times when there are disagreements in life. At this time, the communication and handling methods between the couple will affect whether the family can be harmonious and whether it can go on for a long time. In fact, in many unfortunate marriage cases, we will find that they all have a lot in common, and these problems generally appear in the husband. If you find that your husband has the following 3 behaviors, sorry, your marriage may be difficult to be happy!
1. Don’t take wives’ words and family matters to heart.
believe that many women have had this experience, that is, every time a husband is asked to do something, he always wins, but he forgets every time, even You may not be able to count on him to do it for you after a month. At this time, the wife would always yell in anger, but the husband often said, isn’t it just such a trivial matter? I can't get it tomorrow.
turned out to be the next day, he would still forget. In fact, this is a typical expression of not caring about family matters and not worrying about what the wife said. It was supposed to be a home where two people took care of it together, but in the end it became a matter for the wife alone. After a long time, no one can bear it. When a woman is at a loss and hopes a man will help, but he doesn't care about it, the marriage actually comes to an end.
2, do not communicate when quarreling, but also choose cold war
no matter what kind of intimacy, if you can’t learn to communicate, it will eventually become a weapon for hurting people, especially between husband and wife. It is said that women choose the Cold War when they are angry, but in real life, there are not a few men who do not communicate with them and like the Cold War. Often when the wife is hoarse, desperate, and urgently needs two people to communicate and solve, the man acts like an okay person, pretending not to speak, and ignoring you. In fact, this seems to be a woman's unreasonable making trouble, but in fact, a man's superior attitude is the source of women's anger. If there is a contradiction, just communicate and reconcile between two people. If they have different views, then each step back in seeking common ground while reserving differences. Why not keep silent and be a wooden person? Especially the Cold War incident was simply too hurtful, and it was easy to force a lively outgoing and reasonable wife into an unreasonable and lamenting vixen. If you meet such a man who doesn't know how to communicate and who likes the Cold War, you must be mentally prepared for an unhappy marriage.
3, stubborn, does not consider other people’s feelings
There is a type of man in life who doesn’t know what he’s suitable for, and doesn’t know what he wants. Seeing others’ success in starting a business, he has to start a business, stubborn not listening to his family Opinion, in the end, the investment failed and owed a debt to the whole family. Such a man is also an important reason for destroying the happiness of the family. He acts blindly without knowing that he is suitable or unsuitable, stubborn and does not listen to persuasion.
It is difficult for a family to be happy, but it is easy to destroy a happy family. If your husband belongs to the above three kinds of people, it is recommended that you must learn to stop the loss in time, not to waste your youth and lose yourself.
