When talking to the elders, they always come up with a lot of colloquialisms. Young people always feel that these sayings make people's ears calluses, and there is nothing new. But with the increase of age and experience, you will find that many colloquial sayings are very reasonable.
Among the many colloquial sayings, the sayings about marriage are the most. For example, "coming couples with less and old companions" means that when you are young, you don't know how well each other is, and you only know how important it is to be with each other when you are old. And "the wife of the chaotic" means that no matter how promising a man is, he cannot forget his wife. These common sayings about marriage are all about the importance of the other half and the importance of a harmonious family. But compared with these common sayings, there is a more interesting saying among the folks, which is called: female junior, hold gold bricks.
The meaning of the phrase "female junior, hold gold bricks", everyone should understand. It means that marrying a wife who is 3 years older than yourself is like hugging 3 gold bricks. In short, it is good to marry a wife who is 3 years older than yourself.
As for why is it good? In fact, everyone will understand after thinking about it. The ancients were married relatively early, and often married in their teens. At this time, the husband’s personality was exactly like a child, and marrying a wife who was more mature than his own, not only could take care of him, but also take care of the whole. Family. There has always been a saying among the folks that "getting a family first, then starting a career", in fact, they want to express how important a harmonious family is to a person's career.
Since "female junior, hold the gold bricks", then what is the meaning of female college 4, 5, and 6? In this issue, I will talk to you about this. I will benefit early if I know it, and I will learn a lot after reading it. Many people think that Female University 6 is just holding two gold bricks, which is obviously not the case. Let's take a look one by one:
Female freshman, holding golden rooster, female sophomore, golden full tank,
female junior, holding golden bricks, female senior, Fushouzhi,
Female senior five, Sai mother, female senior six, not happy enough;
female senior seven, smiling; female senior eight, quasi-fat;
female senior nine, everything; female major ten, everything .
This is a kind of folk language, and it is also a generally accepted one. Although the statements vary slightly from place to place, they actually mean the same thing. As you can see from this common saying, from the age of 1 to 10, they have their own opinions, and each of them is very interesting.
The first three refer to wealth, including holding golden chickens, holding golden pots, and holding golden bricks, so the emphasis is on the wife’s contribution to family wealth. In the female senior year, the issue of fortune was already mentioned. This is because for the ancients, the happiness of family members was more important than money. When she was five years old, she was more considerate than her mother to take care of her family.
The last two are quite interesting. They have all the same values. It can be seen that the ancients’ acceptance of the age difference has reached as much as 10 years old, which is estimated to be unexpected by many people. .
The existence of these sayings is not to make boys have to marry a wife who is much older than themselves, but to emphasize the importance of finding a good wife. It is said that "behind a successful man, there must be a great woman", this sentence really makes sense. The success of many men in history is inseparable from the support of their wives.
Ming Taizu Zhu Yuanzhang was originally a poor boy. The reason why he was able to ascend the position of God all the way has a lot to do with his wife Ma. Although Ma is not a very beautiful person, she has three major qualities: She believes in her husband. When they got married, Zhu Yuanzhang looked no different from ordinary military generals, but Ma always believed that her husband could make a difference. She was willing to accompany her husband to endure hardships, precisely because when Zhu Yuanzhang was down, she always accompany her, so when her husband ascended to the throne of God, she was consistent with her; she had talents that many women did not possess at that time, and Ma became a queen. The harem was managed properly and became a model for the harem, so that Zhu Yuanzhang had no worries about the future.
So, is the wife older or younger than herself, in factNot the most important. It is important for two people to work together, saying that "brothers are of the same heart, and it is profitable to cut money." Husband and wife together not only has the power to cut money, but also makes every member of the family feel warm.
