We met in 2004, and we were together with my husband at the end of 2008. We were college classmates and fell in love freely. We got married on New Year’s Day in 2014. We have a baby boy in the first grade this year.
My husband and I had sex on Saturday and Sunday. The fever started in the afternoon. I kept telling my child on Saturday night that my father was infected with the virus and needed to eat well to maintain energy. Let’s make him something delicious.
I bought spinach and made spinach egg soup + hot steamed buns on Sunday morning. My husband ate it. At noon, he thought about making some cabbage and pork vermicelli, which he usually likes to eat. However, my husband had a bad appetite and didn’t eat it at all. Then I saw that he wasn't eating, so I brought him some fruits, salt water, sugar water, canned food, etc. to replenish his water and energy, and put an antipyretic patch on him to make him feel more comfortable.
I started to feel cold around 4pm on Sunday. I had a fever after dinner and felt breathless and my heartbeat accelerated when I moved or talked. We were isolated in a small room together, and my mother-in-law slept with the child. It is true that we are all relatively uncomfortable, and we all feel pain all over. My husband thoughtfully recorded his feelings and posted them in his family group.
My mother-in-law was pretty good this time. She took care of us both eating and drinking, and also took care of our children’s online classes for three days (the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not good before).
Tuesday is my third day of Yang. My husband’s fever has gone away. I have a low fever. My mother-in-law put a kettle and a bucket of mineral water next to my husband so that we can drink water easily. The husband can reach out and get it without having to get up.
He poured water for me 3 times on Monday and 2 times on Tuesday. The third time I said he was not happy to pour some water for me, so I said forget it and I’ll get up by myself.
I got up and went around him to boil water, and poured the water myself again. I was so tired that I was covered in sweating and breathed for a long time. From this point on, I didn’t say a word to my husband, and he treated me like this again.
Fortunately, my appetite has been good and I recovered quickly. My mother-in-law also had a fever on Wednesday night, and I no longer had a fever on Thursday. Although I still felt a lot of discomfort, the child needed to be taken care of, so I got up to take care of the child. Mr.
’s fever subsided earlier than mine. Starting from Tuesday, he said he felt better when he woke up in the morning. He took a shower on Wednesday night.
I really hate him for being like this. When I gave birth to a baby, I also suffered from shoulder pain and sensitivity to the cold. This time, I joked at first that I felt even weaker than when I came out of the delivery room. As a result, he has been looking at his mobile phone in his room for 6 whole days today.
Even if my mother-in-law is positive, she will not take the initiative to pour some water and get some fruits. I cook, pour water, get fruits and medicine for my mother-in-law. I told him before that I hope my mother-in-law is two days late and he has to work hard to eat, so that he can take care of him when he gets better. As a result, it didn't move even after it healed. I kept checking my phone and wouldn't even give me a glass of water.
I have really been annoyed when I saw him these past two days, and my heart felt really cold, so I stopped serving him food on Thursday and Friday, whether he wanted to eat or not.
It’s not that I’m being hypocritical and hold grudges over such trivial things. I have accumulated too many similar things over the years. My husband likes to pick on trivial matters, is moody, is kind cold war , and doesn’t respect my parents. All of these past experiences have left me with no hope for him. To put it bluntly, if you don't have children, you should divorce early.
I have also thought about getting divorced when our children no longer need us when they go to college. It’s a useless marriage, I chose the wrong person, and I have to spend most of my life with it, hey... # Headlines Creation Challenge## extraordinary 2022##Emotional Story#
