Not all cheating men are in love, because they like their mistress a little bit,
can abandon their wives and children for their mistresses, even losing their career and reputation.
The vast majority of cheating men are very sensible, and they will fall in love with a mistress if they have nothing to lose.
Once the existence of the mistress becomes a threat to them, they will take the initiative to give up the mistress.
Under what circumstances will a cheating man take the initiative to give up the third party?
Lan Fang had been in contact with a mistress before. She came for help and said that the cheating man had abandoned her.
The mistress said that the cheating man had liked her for seven years and pursued her when she was in college.
She has a boyfriend who she grew up with as a childhood sweetheart, and she has always directly refused to cheat on him.
But the man who cheated on her was very persistent. She got married right after graduating from college, and her relationship with her husband was also good.
The cheating man didn’t give up. He liked her in the circle of friends and usually sent some messages of greetings.
They were classmates. She got married. When she gave birth to a child, the cheating man even gave her a red envelope.
Later, when the cheating man got married and had children, she returned the favor. She felt that two people could still be friends if they couldn't be a couple.
In fact, she also knows in her heart that the cheating man is still interested in her.
The cheating man often hints that the relationship with his wife is not good and that the wife is not as good as this mistress.
The two people developed an extramarital affair when the mistress and her husband had marital problems.
Mistress gave birth to two children one after another. She couldn't take care of them by herself, so she asked her mother to take care of them.
Her husband felt uncomfortable having his mother-in-law come to live with him, so he asked if he could let her come.
She was very unhappy. She felt that her husband was treating her differently. She quarreled with her husband, but her husband said that he didn't mean it.
If the mistress found it inconvenient, she would just spend money to find a nanny, and the mistress was not willing to do so. After
, it was the mistress’s mother who came, because the mistress’s mother likes to take care of things and doesn’t get along well with her husband.
Her husband then suggested hiring a nanny, but the mistress didn't agree.
When the mistress's mother found out, she said that she should give her the money to hire a nanny and use her as a nanny in the future.
In the end, the money was given, but the mother-in-law is the mother-in-law, and the mistress's husband usually has to coax her.
The conflicts between husband and wife just accumulate little by little, and the relationship between the husband and wife becomes worse and worse.
In this case, the cheating man came over to comfort the mistress.
will naturally also say some words to displease the mistress's husband, such as the mistress's husband does not love the mistress enough.
The mistress’s husband does not regard the mistress’s mother as his real mother, the mistress’s husband does not understand the mistress, etc.
The mistress herself would have thought the same thing originally, but the man who had cheated on her had told her too much that the mistress would have believed it.
not only continued to have conflicts with her husband, but also met with the cheating man under constant invitations.
The cheating man was very nice to his mistress. After meeting him several times, the two of them had sex.
later secretly had affairs three times. The mistress felt that the cheating man was better than her husband.
So I came up with the idea of getting a divorce and being with a cheating man.
In the beginning, the cheating man said that if it doesn’t work now, we’ll talk about it later. Later, he started saying that he should take care of the children.
When the mistress talks too much, the cheating man becomes a little annoyed and starts to avoid the mistress.
When a mistress seeks out a cheating man to talk to, the cheating man doesn’t respond much.
A cheating man goes to a hotel to find a mistress. If the mistress doesn’t go, the cheating man will not continue talking to the mistress.
If the mistress goes there, the cheating man behaves well, but after leaving the hotel, he immediately ignores the mistress.
Later, the mistress proposed to divorce her husband, and then went to find the wife of the cheating man.
The cheating man actually blocked the mistress directly. The mistress didn’t understand what it meant to cheat on a man.
The mistress told Lan Fang that she felt that the cheating man must have feelings for her.
Otherwise, he would not have pursued her since college, pursuing her for nearly seven years and always asking her for her welfare.
Before having sex with her, the cheating man also said that he could no longer live with his wife and wanted to be with his mistress.
But after the two met several times, the cheating man suddenly stopped talking about it.
The mistress took the initiative to bring it up, and the cheating man went to a meeting to avoid it. In the end, he directly blocked the mistress.
Because of the cheating man, her quarrel with her husband became more and more fierce, and her husband also had the idea of divorcing.
Her current situation is that she doesn’t know whether to keep her head down and coax her husband, or to find the cheating man and have a good talk.
After listening to what the mistress said, Lan Fang told the mistress that a cheating man would never divorce her and marry her.
First of all, cheating men are not in love with their mistresses, they are just in constant turmoil because they don’t get what they want.
Because the mistress has rejected the cheating man several times, the cheating man has never given up. The mistress is what the cheating man has never gotten.
Even if the mistress is married and has a child, the cheating man still wants to flirt with the mistress occasionally.
He is just looking for an opportunity to make up for his previous regrets, and does not really love the mistress.
As for what the cheating man said, he had a bad relationship with his wife and wanted to be with his mistress, but he was just trying to trick his mistress into cheating.
Secondly, this mistress also has a problem with her self-perception. She is no longer the same person she was in college.
Blue Fang does not have any malice, nor does he mean to belittle married women with children, he is just stating the reality.
For men, there is a difference between a mistress in college and a mistress who is already married and has two children.
Xiaosan is no longer young, and his interest in Xiaosan has declined, especially after meeting him a few times.
In the end, the cheating man’s attitude was very obvious, he and the mistress were just having fun.
If the mistress wants to have an extramarital affair, the cheating man is willing to keep having sex with the mistress.
If the mistress wants to divorce the cheating man, she will even go to find the cheating man’s wife.
threatens the interests of cheating men, and cheating men are not willing to play with mistresses.
Lan Fang shared this case to tell his original wife, under what circumstances would a cheating man take the initiative to break up with his mistress?
On the one hand, the cheating man has no real feelings for the mistress, and he has already obtained the mistress, so his interest has dropped sharply.
On the other hand, the mistress is greedy and wants too much, which threatens the interests of the cheating man.
So the first wives want to solve the extramarital affair and let the cheating man take the initiative to break off the relationship with the mistress, so they also create this situation.
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