文/花魔馆
On the way of a person's growth, there is an idiom called: "Eat a cut, gain a wisdom."
The world is complicated, and when you enter the society ignorantly, you will encounter many unfair treatments.
slowly developed some "careful tricks", and these little tricks are the city government.
Some people say: "Being a human being without a city is equivalent to losing a second pair of eyes. If there is no city in life, it is equivalent to losing a second sun."
If a woman does not have a city, her life will be dark.
People who are too kind are often treated as soft persimmons. When a woman has no power, she gives others the opportunity to bully her.
How to judge whether a woman has sex is actually very simple, just look at her reaction when something happens.
A wealthy woman is very calm when things happen.
There are two kinds of people in the world. One kind of person becomes furious after something happens and always feels that the other person owes him eight million. The other kind of person is extra calm after encountering something, thinking and waiting for the situation to turn out.
The former's way of dealing with things is very easy to suffer, because when her mood collapses, it is easy for others to lead her around.
The nature of a person is blind obedience. When a woman cannot control her emotions, other people's words and deeds may change the situation.
The latter's way of dealing with problems often makes them invincible. Since the problem has already occurred, it should not expand the problem itself, but should solve the problem in time.
There once was a relative. Her husband had a relationship outside the home. She would go to the company every day to cause trouble. Now the entire company knows about the scandal in their family.
This tactic of "hurting one thousand to the enemy and losing eight hundred to oneself" will not solve the problem. On the contrary, it will also make oneself deeply affected by public opinion.
On the other hand, another relative did not point it out in time when her husband was outside. She began to ask for money from her husband in disguise. He always relied on her because he felt owed, and slowly she secretly began to plan to leave. Finally, when the evidence was complete, her husband was purged and left the house.
Therefore, most women with Chengfu are very calm when things happen, because they understand that only a calm way of dealing with things can maximize their benefits.
A wealthy woman will not go to extremes.
The maturity of people may lie in two words: extreme.
When they were young, many women had the courage to "never look back until they hit the wall". But as they mature, they gradually understand the principle of letting go.
A wealthy woman will not put herself in danger. They can afford it and let it go, and they will no longer be obsessed with one thing.
Lu Yue wrote in his writing: " plum blossoms are as white as snow, but the snow is less fragrant than plum blossoms."
Everyone has their own characteristics and values, and a wealthy woman will not go to one extreme.
As the saying goes: "A person's road becomes narrower and narrower as he walks."
The people and things encountered on the road of life will become a thing of the past in the long river.
If a woman fights too much, many things in front of her will disappear along with the fight.
is just like Sheng Molan in "Know or Not". She always wants to fight and seems to be a little cautious. However, in the eyes of real people, this is simply a clown behavior.
She designed herself to marry Liang Han, but her husband was a philanderer. She could only spend the rest of her life in intrigues, and it could be said that she was playing to a pulp with a good deck of cards.
A wealthy woman knows the art of speech very well.
Whether a woman can speak is really important.
"Before the words are spoken, you are the master of the words; after the words are spoken, you become the slave of the words."
A wise woman will not blurt out what is in her heart, but carefully observe the situation and process the words.
The knowledge of language is something that everyone needs to practice in their lifetime. For women, being able to speak is equivalent to having half a happy life.
Most people in the world like to hear good things, even if they know that bad words are likely to be the truth.
A wealthy woman will not use the excuse of being forthright to criticize others at will. When encountering something, she will use euphemistic words to express her thoughts.
is just like Qing Gege in " My Fair Princess ". She is gentle and dignified and deeply loved by Lafayette. She looks very simple on the surface, but she actually has a lot of talent, but all her talent is spent on "being considerate".
She helped Xiao Yanzi and others solve a lot of troubles through the city government, and quietly changed the situation.
Being wealthy is not a bad thing. On the contrary, it will be very pleasant to associate with a woman who is wealthy.
Because they will observe the situation and understand what you want to hear.
Maybe they always keep a certain distance from you, making you feel alienated.
But this is also a manifestation of their desire to protect themselves. The relationship between people in today's society is very fragile.
It is also a sign that a woman wants to be invincible and restrain her enthusiasm.
Living in society, we will always encounter many difficult things, but as long as we can stay calm, do not go to extremes, and can speak well, most of the problems can be easily solved.
