As the saying goes, love doesn’t know where it started, and love is deep; love doesn’t know where it ends, and it’s hard to look back.
This may be the case in relationships. Those things that come due to fate will one day be separated due to fate. From love to fate, we will never meet each other.
There are traces of all this, but when two people are together and these situations occur, the fate between them has basically come to an end.
If the relationship is gone, the fate is gone, and the love is gone, we will pretend that we can still make do with life.
1. Too lazy to communicate or argue.
What is more terrifying than arguing is the endless cold war.
It’s you who don’t speak and I don’t speak, it’s me who speaks, but you pretend not to hear, it’s me who wants to communicate, but you refuse, no one wants to break the current cold war, it’s the coldness and alienation from the body to the heart, it’s the love that goes with it, and they don’t care about each other.
As time goes by, this relationship is no longer on the same front as each other. It drifts away because of suspicion, because it is not understood, and because it is not cared about.
can still quarrel, tear up, and argue. Some people are willing to admit defeat. Some people reflect and apologize because they still have love. Because they are unwilling to give in, they want to explain, speak out, change, and adjust.
Once the relationship is over, I will feel tired even if I speak, and I will no longer care about the affection between each other. I will just live my life for the sake of my children. Although we are together, our hearts are no longer there.
We are strangers when we meet, we are still strangers when we meet, and we are already strangers when we are together. No one will criticize or slander anyone anymore. We are so determined that we no longer have any expectations or thoughts.
2. Sleeping in separate rooms without interfering with each other.
Two people who can still be together are noisy but inseparable from each other. And once there is a estrangement in the heart, there is distance, and it reaches the point of separating into separate rooms, it is the beginning of the breakdown of the relationship.
No one can tolerate the other, and they don't want to have strange dreams in bed. This is no longer a matter of cold war and anger, but if it is not involved, no one wants to see the other again.
Whether a person loves you or not, the body is the most honest. Even if you don't love you, you can still touch you. If you don't even want to touch you, there is really no love, only disgust and surging hatred.
We hug and kiss each other from the moment they meet, love so deeply that they can no longer live together as a couple, and dislike them so much that they no longer touch each other. When these signs continue for a certain period of time, then the fate has really come to an end.
3. If life is difficult and cannot be separated, it is better to remember a sentence
When the relationship between two people has faded, they can still grit their teeth and live together. Although it has nothing to do with love, they both have goodwill and sincerity. Without love, there is less affection, but there is still human touch.
When you are in such a bad relationship that you cannot live without, it is better to remember this sentence: Don’t overestimate love, lower your expectations for love, reflect on yourself more, and live for yourself.
Emotions are a very small part of life. No matter what the outside world looks like, you are the leader of your own life.
It is better to take care of yourself and stop trying to change others. Instead, look at yourself, learn to love yourself, and enrich yourself.
Learn to accept, learn to tolerate, and learn not to care. If
can solve it, try to solve it. If it can't be solved, time will not tell you, but it can always give you the answer.
Your children will grow up, and you should grow up with them. When your children grow up, you should also live your own life.
When a relationship reaches the point where it exists in name only, no matter what choice you make, don’t forget the most important thing, which is to make the rest of your life better.
