Everyone likes to play games, and we always want to win.
If you want to always win, then choosing to play a game that you are better at is the key to your ultimate success. The same is true for
in cultivating habits.
If we choose the right habits, our success will be easy.
Once you choose the wrong habits, your life will become an endless struggle.
Only in the specific areas in which we are good at, only in the aspects we are good at, we are more likely to perform well and achieve success.
We will also be able to more easily succeed where others fail.
Therefore it is extremely important to find the habits and areas that suit you.
But how to identify the habits and areas that suit you? The most commonly used method for
is still trial and error.
Because everyone is unique, it is difficult to generalize things in the world that can be directly applied to you.
Only through continuous exploration can we choose the one that suits us best.
But time is limited and we can never explore forever.
So after each exploration, we need to make trade-offs and shift our attention to the best solution we have found.
On the one hand, it starts to take advantage of the current best solution. On the other hand, it still needs to explore again occasionally.
If you have found the best solution so far, then start taking action and taking action. How
maintains a balance between exploration and trade-offs ultimately determines whether you win or lose.
If you're winning, use and reuse.
If you are losing, you need to explore and explore again.
The most effective approach is to capture the best strategy so far while retaining the ability to explore further.
is just like and Google . Google requires employees to spend 80% of their time on formal work every week, while the other 20% can be used to work on projects of their own choice, thus spawning many classic works.
Therefore, you can also follow this approach and spend 80% of your time executing the best strategic plan so far, and the remaining 20% of the time continue to explore.
Once you find a more correct solution, you can use it to optimize your current course of action.
As you continue to explore your current action plan, you can also gradually determine the habits and areas that are most suitable for you by asking yourself a series of questions.
What is it that is fun for me but not for others?
To know whether you are suitable for a job does not depend on whether you like it, but on whether you can cope with the pain it brings more easily than most people.
If it is miserable for most people, but you can enjoy it, you will hurt others far more than yourself.
Then this is what you were born to do.
is suitable for you and will definitely put you into a flow state.
Because only when what you do makes you more or less satisfied, otherwise you cannot experience flow.
is suitable for you and will definitely allow you to get higher returns than others.
When you make a judgment, please temporarily forget the education you have been exposed to, and do not care about the so-called truth told to you by mainstream society, or what others expect of you.
You just need to ask yourself, what am I doing when I am the most natural, energetic, and authentic version of myself? As long as it makes you feel authentic and trustworthy, then you are heading in the right direction.
