In our hometown, in the past, if a daughter became pregnant before she was married, it would be very shameful for the parents and family members. In this case, the parents would most likely kick their daughter out of the house, or even cut off relations with her. If the mother-in-law's family is agreed upon, the originally agreed betrothal gift will also be greatly reduced. Therefore, many families are very strict in disciplining their daughters when they grow up. They do not allow their daughters to go out alone, let alone spend the night at their husband's house, and they will also send someone (elder sister or younger sister) to monitor them.
In today's real society, many girls become pregnant before marriage. Because their parents are influenced by traditional ideas, more conservative and backward families will still think that they are very shameless, but the reaction is not as strong as before.
Recently, a family in my neighboring village had a 23-year-old son. After graduating from junior high school, he went to vocational school for one semester, but did not complete his studies. Later, he cooperated with a friend to open a second-hand car company, but the business was not ideal, and the income was unstable, sometimes high and sometimes low. His sister is also working in a nearby city, with a meager income. She has not provided financial support to the family for many years. The family is poor. I have no house or car, so I rent a house in the city. My mother works in a fishery store, and my father works in construction. He failed to invest in many construction sites, and the costs have not been recovered. The mother is responsible for all the family's living expenses and worldly affairs.
The girl and the boy study in the same middle school. They are junior high school classmates and they are also 23 years old. She is slender and 165 cm tall. Her long black hair is scattered on her back. From a distance, it looks like an open fan is attached to her back. She has big bright eyes, a straight and plump nose, and a cherry-shaped mouth with slightly raised corners. She looks like she has a good mouth. Her white teeth and slightly rosy lips look as good as lipstick. Her dark and rosy face makes her a rare beauty. Her family status is considered wealthy in this city. After graduating from college, she worked in a furniture factory in this city. Everyone in the family has luxury cars, many shops, and they live in a villa. Her father is also a shareholder of a group company.
The boy is 175 centimeters tall, with a white face like a freshly shelled egg, naughty eyes with dark and slightly upturned eyebrows, a high straight bridge of the nose, garlic-like nose wings, and two rows of teeth as white as snow. He shows the domineering look of a king in every gesture, especially when he gets off the luxury car. He has attracted many girls.
His girlfriend from a rich family is no exception. When they were in love, the boy didn't know that his girlfriend was a rich girl. He had avoided the girl many times for a long time. No matter how the boy disappeared, the girl could find him through her friends. Apart from the huge disparity in family conditions, they were really a match made in heaven. The girl's parents knew that they were in love, but they didn't stop them.
On the other hand, the marriage was inappropriate. The woman's parents found out that their daughter was pregnant and opposed the marriage with all their strength. They threatened to break off the relationship, but the daughter was determined and would not marry him unless she was pregnant. Since she was several months pregnant, the parents forced her to go to the hospital for an abortion. The daughter refused to sever the relationship and did not want to have an abortion, so the mother controlled her daughter's personal freedom and stayed together. The two sides remained in a stalemate in the hospital for a day and a night, but the parents gave up.
After returning home, the girl's parents asked for 66,000 yuan in hardware and betrothal gifts. The boy's parents managed to get it by borrowing from here and there, and all the gifts were given to the girl. Her parents didn't spend a penny. Because their daughter became pregnant out of wedlock, the parents felt very embarrassed. In the end, the girl was kicked out of the house by her parents, and she said that she would never recognize this relative.
This is a true story, not fiction. What do you think? Did the girl’s parents do the right thing? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area.
