As a woman, have you ever thought about how you want to live your life?
You may say, how else can I live my life besides taking care of children, taking care of family, or going to work.
What you said is correct, but from your tone, I see a negative you, not a positive you.
Many women are faced with taking care of children, taking care of the family, going to work, etc. However, women still live different lives. You can never live according to your inner thoughts when you are alone. In the final analysis, you must first think clearly about what kind of life you want, and then act in that direction, and finally life will become what you want.
There is a woman who got divorced at the age of 31, has three children, and needs to work two jobs at the same time. The money she earns is either to pay rent or for daily living expenses, so she has always been without money. Clothes, bags, etc. that other women can easily buy are all luxuries in her eyes. Because she has no money, she goes to second-hand stores to buy them when she really needs them. This is also when she has to buy them.
However, when this woman is seventy years old, do you know how she evaluates herself over the past few years?
She said: "Every ten years of my life has been better than the last ten years."
Why did she say this? She just really did it and she was proud of it.
She said, In my twenties, apart from having three wonderful children, my life could be said to be a mess; in my thirties, I also had a pretty bad life; in my forties, I was still busy trying to survive; in my fifties, I came to New York to start over, trying to get my career on the right track and make new friends; it was not until I was in my sixties that I gradually settled down because of work and my children and grandchildren. Now, I'm busier than ever. I never expected life to be as good as it is, but I'm delighted with the change.
From her description of her life over the years, it can be clearly seen that she has always been particularly difficult and worked very hard, but it does not matter, because she ultimately believes that her life is getting better and better, and she enjoys this change.
Seeing this, you may have questions in your mind: How does a divorced woman with three children do this?
Anyone who knows her knows that, in fact, it is not because of her good luck. On the contrary, compared to many women, her luck is simply too bad. However, just because she did one thing, she surpassed most women and became not only an excellent nutritionist, but also a very famous model.
Next, let us enter the world of Meyer Musk and see how she finally became a winner in life despite many difficulties.
Let’s start with Meyer Musk’s marriage. Meyer Musk got married when she was 21 years old. Her husband was her boyfriend. However, he was not kind to her after the marriage. Not only was he violent, he simply controlled her life and constantly humiliated her.
Meyer Musk said that he was experiencing a hellish life in those days. She was frightened and worried all day long.
But nine years later, she finally ended that bad marriage. Of course, none of this was easy. After all, her husband was not easy to mess with at all. He threatened to retaliate against her if she divorced, which would not only hurt her, but also hurt their three children. Moreover, the laws of the country where she lived at the time did not constitute a basis for divorce regarding men's abuse of women. What's even more frightening is that she was influenced by the surrounding environment at the time and accepted the idea that it was natural for men to commit domestic violence against women.
Of course, another point is that although her husband was very rich, he tried every means not to divide the property to her during the divorce. But for her at that time, as long as she could get a divorce, it was enough.
Meyer Musk finally lived the life he liked after encountering such a painful life experience.
A woman can choose to save herself, choose to rely on herself, and move forward regardless of difficulties, which is really admirable.
Meyer Musk wrote in her book "My Life": "There is no turning back. No matter how hard it is, grit your teeth and persevere. You must know that everything will eventually pass and all the efforts will be worth it."
Meyer Musk also expected her husband to change and that their relationship would get better, but the facts told her that all this was in vain. So she chose to escape from that relationship, and her life became brighter from then on.
In fact, when it comes to marriage and everything you encounter in life, it mainly depends on whether you can accept it. If you can't accept it, then you must bravely choose the path you most want to take.
After the divorce, the first dilemma that Meyer Musk faced was to support herself and her children. In addition to taking care of her children, she devoted all her energy to work. She worked part-time as a model and was also taking the certificate for nutritionist qualifications.
In order to get a better job, to study, and to get out of trouble, she went to three countries and moved many times. Of course moving is hard, but she has to start a new life again and again, and of course she enjoys it because she said she likes to explore new cities, new countries, and learn new cultures.
Meyer Musk is like this. She is happy to accept new things. For her, starting over is no big deal. The main thing is that you have to know why you are doing it.
Maye Musk is practicing her own ideas step by step. If there is no way forward, she will change directions. For her, it is impossible to stop because of a certain dilemma. She believes that there is always a way to solve it, and all difficulties will become a thing of the past.
Of course, she is lonely on this road. Her children are still young and her parents are not around. She needs to face almost all problems alone. She has never given up on the idea of falling in love because of the past. She has also been in contact with some people, but at that time, she was no longer in a state of ignorance when she faced marriage for the first time. She knew what kind of person she wanted to be with, so when those people were not the same, she did not wrong herself and chose to make do with it, but continued to live alone.
Therefore, why Meyer Musk eventually became a winner in life and an inspirational idol for countless women is because she lived out herself and was her own queen. It is enough for a woman to insist on doing this well in her life.
There are many unfortunate people in this world, and Meyer Musk was once such a person, but she changed her unfortunate state through will and hard work, and bravely worked towards the life she wanted, and finally she got what she wanted.
This is to remind us: Don't continue to sink in misfortune, start to change, and the sooner the better, you must believe that there will always be a way ahead, and you must bravely pursue the life you want.
In "My Life", Meyer Musk has given us many useful suggestions based on her own experience in terms of common life problems such as beauty, career, family, education and health.
The reason why I read this book is because at that time, my career and family were not going well, and I felt very decadent. I heard someone recommend this book, so I bought one. I have to say that a good book will inject constant energy into you and make you want to completely change yourself.
Although I still encountered many problems in my life later, every time I think of Meyer Musk and how she raised three children alone and never gave up and kept working hard, I feel that I have no reason to give up and should be more positive and optimistic. So this "My Life" is really a very good book. I hope everyone in need can read it!
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