What does it mean to have a distant fragrance and a near smell? Cui Fang finally realized it at this time! Her mother-in-law has lived in her house for many years. In her eyes, Cui Fang is the one who smells bad. As for my sister-in-law, she refused to take her mother-in-law to live with her, and only visited her twice a year during the New Year and birthdays. Her mother-in-law treated her as a treasure, Yuanxiang.
Six years ago, Cui Fang's father-in-law died of illness, leaving her mother-in-law living alone in the countryside. Her mother-in-law was afraid of living such a lonely life, so she called her two sons every day to cry and complained that her life was miserable, her wife died early, and she was lonely and helpless.
The mother-in-law raised two sons. Cui Fang’s husband is the eldest son, named Zhiyang. Zhiyang also has a younger brother named Zhidong, both of whom work outside.
Zhiyang couldn't bear his mother's cries and relented. He discussed with his wife Cui Fang to bring his mother to live in his home.
Cui Fang thought for a while and said: "I don't agree with my mother-in-law living with us only. You can discuss it with Zhidong. If he is willing, my mother-in-law can stay with the two sons' homes once a year. If they don't agree, forget it."
Zhiyang called Zhidong and said that he would take his mother out and live with one of his sons for a year, and ask him if he agrees?
Zhidong said: "Brother, your house is big and your sister-in-law is considerate, so let mom live in your house! In my house, my wife is too strong and I'm afraid of her. It won't be easy for her if she comes, so don't come."
Zhiyang was disappointed. Zhidong didn't agree and his mother was arguing every day, so he lied to Cui Fang, saying that Zhidong agreed to come once a year.
Just like that, the mother-in-law came to Cui Fang’s house!
Mother-in-law lived in Cui Fang's house, so she came to enjoy the blessing. She didn't cook or do hygiene. Zhiyang asked her to help with some cooking. She stretched out her hand to Zhiyang and said, "Where's the nanny fee?"
Zhiyang and Cui Fang didn't want to argue with the old man, so they went home from get off work to cook and rest at home to do hygiene.
A year passed in a flash. Cui Fang thought that his brother-in-law would come to pick up his mother-in-law and take her to their home, but there was no movement at all.
Cui Fang couldn't help but call his sisters-in-law and ask them when they would pick up her mother-in-law to their home.
Grandma-in-law was very surprised and asked Cui Fang: "When did I say that I would pick up my mother-in-law? Zhidong, did you say that? Zhidong didn't say that either! I have a bad temper and can't live with my mother-in-law. If she doesn't live with you, let her go back to the country! It's impossible to come to my house."
Cui Fang was furious and asked her husband Zhiyang what was going on? Zhiyang couldn't tell her Zhidong's original words, saying that he had lied to her in order to pick up his mother.
Cui Fang smiled bitterly. It was easy to ask gods but difficult to send them away. Her mother-in-law was already living in their home. Her husband would not agree if she was sent to the countryside, and her mother-in-law would not go back. People grow old. She should live in her own home.
Just like that, my mother-in-law lived in Cui Fang's house for six years. During these six years, my mother-in-law lived a very prosperous life and gained more than ten pounds from eating.
Other people’s mother-in-laws work at their son’s house, doing the cooking, washing clothes, and mopping the floor. Cui Fang’s mother-in-law does nothing, saying that she comes to her son’s house to provide for her old age.
Cui Fang also complained to his mother, complaining that his mother-in-law and sister-in-law did not take over and did nothing at her house! Her mother advised her never to argue with the elderly. She also said that if you are good to her, she will be good to you. People's hearts can be exchanged for people's hearts.
Cui Fang originally believed her mother's words, but an incident a few days ago made her question whether her efforts were worth it?
A week ago, although Cui Fang took protective measures in place, he still contracted Yang. The main symptoms of Yang were a sore throat and a high fever that made the bones in his body hurt.
It happened that her husband Zhiyang was away on a business trip, leaving Cui Fang and her mother-in-law at home. When Cui Fang told her mother-in-law that she had a fever, her mother-in-law sprinted a hundred meters to her room and closed the door.
Cui poured down a glass of water and drank it, then collapsed on the bed, feeling sore and uncomfortable, and dizzy from the fever. At this time, her mother-in-law called and asked her why she didn't go get food, was she going to starve to death?
Cui Fang hung up the phone without saying anything. He was very disappointed with his mother-in-law. In the past six years, he had taken care of her with good food and drink, but he was burned like this. She still expected her to cook food for her.It’s really so chilling!
After two days, she got better. She got up and cooked some porridge by herself. Her mother-in-law, wearing a mask, saw Cui Fang coming out and walked away immediately. At this time, her cell phone rang, and it was her sister-in-law calling her.
Her mother-in-law told her on the phone that she was pregnant and felt very uncomfortable. When her mother-in-law heard this, she looked concerned and worried. She even asked her if she could take care of her, but her mother-in-law refused.
The mother-in-law was very worried. She had been avoiding Cui Fang for the past few days and started chatting with Cui Fang. Every sentence was filled with worries about her grandma. Then in the next few days, she had to call five times a day to ask if her grandma was okay? Can I have something to eat? Have you taken any medicine? etc.
One day when she hung up the phone, Cui Fang couldn't bear to say to her: "Mom, you like her and care about her so much, why don't you just go and live at her house! You have lived in my house for more than six years, and I have a high fever, so even a word of concern will be ignored. You still ask me to get up and prepare food for you, but my sister-in-law has not even prepared a meal for you, and has not taken you to stay for a day. You are full of care and concern for her. Such a comparison, how heartbreaking it is to say that this smell is far away and smells very close."
