era is like a mountain when it falls on everyone's head.
The epidemic has turned upside down the ordinary days that so many people have worked so hard to build, and also disrupted the plans and arrangements that too many people had carefully planned, especially wedding planning.
We are all individuals who are caught up in the torrent of the times. Facing the turning point of an era, all we can do is adapt and adjust, face the reality with an optimistic attitude, and not consume ourselves in negative emotions.
There is such a groom in Jiangsu.
He had already set a wedding date with the groom earlier. The two families almost spent their entire family efforts and spent countless energy and financial resources to arrange the entire process from the wedding to the banquet.
The two newlyweds are just waiting for the wedding day to welcome the most important day in each other's lives.
Who would have thought that the wedding day would be a rather "desolate" scene:
On the wedding day, December 19, the groom came to the woman's house alone to pick up the bride. There was no best man with him, and his last friend was also "yang". He really couldn't find the best man, so he came alone to pick up the bride.
Perhaps, the groom did not expect that the scene of his long-awaited wedding reception would not be bustling with people, nor would it be as festive and lively as he imagined, but instead would be cold and desolate. In the lens of
, he is wearing a neat suit, a red corsage, and a bouquet in his hand. He is standing slightly awkwardly in the living room of the woman's home. His hands with no place to rest reveal an aura of embarrassment.
looks like this, which makes people feel a little sad for no reason.
So many netizens couldn't stand it anymore and said: "We are all brothers from all over the world. There are so many people on the Internet to help you welcome your bride. Don't be depressed. I wish you a happy wedding."
These words are really warm and warm.
Not many of the woman's parents came, and there were only seven people standing in the living room. The bright red word "hi" and the fireworks in the room made the living room even more "deserted".
Not only did the groom not have a best man, but the bride also seemed to have no bridesmaid.
Otherwise, according to custom, the bridesmaid group will block the door to verify the groom's "sincerity" to the bride. As long as there is a young bridesmaid there, there is a high probability that the groom will not be left standing alone in the living room so embarrassed that he has nowhere to put his hands.
The seven aunts and eight aunts standing in the living room are not a circle that the groom can easily integrate into.
It can be expected that because there are too many "Xiaoyang people", not only will the bride and groom not have any groomsmen and bridesmaids, I am afraid that there will not even be many guests coming to the banquet. Those who can come will basically be the closest relatives of the two families.
In this way, the process may be simplified a lot.
The question that people are most concerned about is: Why not postpone the wedding? Does it have to end at this time?
On the one hand, all the arrangements for the wedding have been prepared, the auspicious date has been finalized, the wedding invitations have been sent out, and some friends who cannot come to the wedding have even given their share of the money in advance.
The arrow is on the string and has to be fired. It is already overflowing and it is difficult to recover.
After all, when the two families set the wedding date together, they never expected that "letting go" would come so quickly. In the face of changes, they can only accept it and delay it again and again. Not only is it unlucky, but it is also time-consuming and labor-intensive.
On the other hand, there are many reasons why the two young newlyweds are optimistic enough and cannot postpone their wedding. But then again, isn't marriage just a matter of two people?
As long as the bride and groom are present, it is a wedding.
Even if a wedding is a bit simple, sometimes it is through the simplest way that we can see the most essential things and see the truth and meaning of marriage.
Moreover, compared with the previous couples who could only hold "cloud weddings" online, their wedding seemed not as bad as imagined, except that there was no best man.
Some people think that although their wedding was held as usual, it was not perfect.
But where is the perfect wedding?
Weddings are just like life. Life is never absolutely perfect, and similarly, there is no absolutely perfect wedding.
Because a wedding requires too much preparation, the processes involved are too cumbersome, and the things to consider are too laborious. There will always be things that cannot be taken care of, and there will always be problems that make the couple dissatisfied.
However, it is enough as long as the couple can successfully take the oath and officially become husband and wife. This is also the true meaning of wedding.
Finally, I sincerely wish the newlyweds in Jiangsu a happy wedding.
