Sensationalism is not my area of expertise, but this time, I am ready to make everyone burst into tears.
Parents and children have debts and no debts. They need to be reasonable but cannot stick to the truth. If there are many children, parents have the problem of fair treatment. The children who make parents proud are children, but what about the children who cannot meet the requirements of their parents?
The three sons of the Zhou family, Zhou Bingyi was admitted to Peking University and married the governor's daughter; Zhou Rong was admitted to Peking University and married a famous poet; only Zhou Bingkun, a low-level employee of the soy sauce factory, stayed at home.
As a result, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong became the pride of their father, and Zhou Bingkun, who silently managed the family, had his feelings and thoughts ignored.
If ignored, there will be conflicts, and if there are conflicts, there will be conflicts. Dad blamed Zhou Bingkun for not living up to expectations, and Zhou Bingkun blamed his father for being too snobbish, so that the father and son did not write letters for several years until his father came home:
Why don't you write to me?
You didn't write to me either.
I am your father.
What about my father? My father is right.
You mean, you are right.
I was wrong. You were right.
Who is wrong? You say I am snobbish, yes, your father and I have many faults, but you dare to say that I am snobbish, you are the first
. Look at me, and I ask you, your friends, these children who grew up in the light word film, have you ever thought that your family is not in the light word film? It would be better if you could have an official father, why don't you say anything
I have never disliked the optical film where I was born, nor have I disliked my parents, nor this family.
After watching " human world ", we will all feel sorry for Zhou Bingkun. He has never disliked the optical film, let alone his parents and the home they brought to him. Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong changed their destiny through their own efforts, which is certainly worthy of their parents' pride, but this is by no means a reason for their parents to deny Zhou Bingkun.
Zhou Bingkun has never been picky about anything. On the contrary, his father has been emphasizing that Zhou Bingkun is not as good as his brothers and sisters. After all, his father has the role of "father". This is the commanding heights that Zhou Bingkun will always surpass. He can only bear it and cannot refute it. But to refute it is unfilial.
Everyone has ideals and everyone has pursuits, but success or not is not the standard for judging a person. Wouldn't Zhou Bingkun work hard? Without Zhou Bingkun's sacrifice and efforts, what university can my brothers and sisters get into, and what kind of happiness can I be successful and at ease?
I don’t have
Any parents want their children to be shining outside, just like all your children hope that they can be born in that wealthy family and bring convenience to their future. Is this snobbery? Do you know what snobbery is? Change your mind when you see the wind, climb high and step on low. This is called snobbery, but your father and I will never be like this.
Yes, your brother and sister have been admitted to Peking University, I have a glory on my face. The child has made a fortune and worked hard. It doesn’t matter if he is a father. It doesn’t mean it. It’s good. This is wood. I originally thought that everyone finally got together. After the New Year, I took them out to show off. Yes, I didn’t take your feelings into consideration. If you want to say something wrong, this is the only thing that dad is wrong.
? Just this is wrong. I know that you have not talked to your dad, don’t write letters, and ignore your dad. Is it
feelings, the most basic and most important needs of a person!
Children are promising, and my father wants to show off, what's wrong? In order to take care of the mother with cerebral thrombosis and to manage this family, Zhou Bingkun could not reach the height of his brother and sister at all. What's wrong?
Just, what would Zhou Bingkun think when his father showed off? How would you feel?
0 episodes made you say, have you considered my feelings, have you considered, what are your youngest sons? They are all born by one father and one mother, and they are raised by one father and one mother. I am not promising, do you know how uncomfortable I am? What are you doing? My greatest wish in my life is to make my father and mother satisfy my father and mother, and satisfy me, okay, you, you, you, you, yes, if you don’t comfort me, don’t say anything, you just sprinkle salt, what are you talking about? Listen to what you say, where you care about
What I say
What have you said? You have been since childhood. Your brother and sister are good at studying. What about you, you are the last one in the class. Is countdown
? Is the fact
? Should the fact be said? Should the fact be said?
the most hurtful thing is the truth!
There are hundreds of flowers and millions of people. Some children are born to make their parents proud, but some children are born to repay kindness.
Zheng Bingkun’s poor study is an objective fact, but this is not a mistake. On the other hand, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, besides making their parents proud, what specific actions can be worthy of the word “filial piety”?
Zhou Bingyi married into the governor's family, and he never met in his life. He served as a senior official, and his parents and family never got any benefits. Of course, this is the organizational discipline , which is a principle requirement, but for parents, this is the son who is comparable to Zhou Bingkun's bedside service last year, and Zhou Bingkun's efforts to improve the living environment at home?
Zhou Rong gave up her parents for love and resolutely went to the deep mountains and forests. Apart from bringing worries to her parents, she had no real filial piety.
For parents, is it important to have a cup of hot tea in front of the bed and a bowl of hot rice on the table?
This is also a fact. Zhou Bingkun has never mentioned it. No one has said this fact. Zhou Bingkun deserves this if he doesn’t study well. Why do he mention it repeatedly!
Zhou Bingkun's words made his father say nothing more, but he is his father, and the balance of truth will always be tilted. He still has something to say:
OK, I'm wrong, I'm wrong, I'm wrong, I'm telling the truth that I shouldn't say the most, this is my wrong
You, you say I'm snobbish, you're slandering me, what evil did I have done in my previous life, I've given birth to such a bastard, I knew you were like this, I should have strangled you to death, you
Where is this person, in the mountains, I'm in my sixties, I'm off work every day, the only thought in my heart is to be able to see Where did my child write to me? Bingkun, my father, change so much, I don’t know at all, what do you think about National Day? Bingkun, my father’s old face is thrown away at my grandma’s house. I’m waiting for you here in the middle of the night, and you don’t come back. I’m meeting. What, I have to admit my mistake first.
. I don’t admit this wrong? You plan to not recognize me as my father in this life. Do you think so? Tell me, you say, speak,
stands at the commanding heights of "father". Dad desperately accuses Zhou Bingkun of not being resentful because of his own mistakes. In addition to accusations, Dad also had physical punishment, and he became more angry as he spoke, until the voice was too loud and attracted Zheng Juan and the child.
Don’t hit my dad
What are you doing?
Don’t hit my dad, you don’t hit my dad
Why do you hit my dad
What are you doing? This kid
What are you doing?
Dad, he hits you
That’s my dad
Dad hit Zhou Bingkun, Zhou Bingkun will still protect his dad!
Zhou Cong protects his father, but Zhou Bingkun still kicks his legs and hits him with his hands!
The reason is very simple: I am your father, that is my father, he can hit me, there is no reason; I can hit you, there is no reason; there is no reason for the father-son relationship, which is comparable to blood suppression!
The truth, after all, can't resist the tough relationship between father and son; quarrels, after all, can't resist the words "that's my dad".
Dad, the child doesn't know you
It's okay if he doesn't know me, he knows to love you, how great it is
Zhou Cong loves Zhou Bingkun, Zhou Bingkun loves his father, this is a lineage for thousands of years; similarly, if a father beats Zhou Bingkun, it does not mean there is no love, and if Zhou Bingkun beats Zhou Cong, it does not mean there is no love, this is an addition to the lineage for thousands of years.
Dad, I actually always want to write to you. I dreamed that if you don’t believe me, ask Juan'er, then I just want to do something to show you, so I keep dragging you down. , Actually, from the bottom of my heart, I just want you to admit me, sorry, Dad
Bingkun, you are the one who is the most satisfied with our three children. You are just too stubborn. Look, your brother is also a boy, you will get less beaten. How many beats have you been beaten for this stubbornness? Now, you are a father, and you can't change it.
change, change
No matter what, Dad has no reason to bow his head and admit his mistakes. Don't say any principles and requirements and moral kidnapping . This has been the case for thousands of years. Don't read a few books and drink a few bowls of chicken soup and firmly believe that everyone is equal. Father and son should be between kings and ministers. Father and son can become brothers for many years, but this sentence can only be said by the father.
Zhou Bingkun is right, but if you admit your mistake, you can only Zhou Bingkun.
Throughout the years, if you are exposed to the word "disobedience", you will be seriously injured even if you don't die, or you may be a prison life that will make you regret. The Qing Dynasty's criminal law clearly stipulates that "if you look at me, you will be punished by eighty-year-old brother." If you don't accept your elder brother, you will look at me sideways. If you dare to do something wrong with your father, you can think about the consequences by yourself.
Still want fairness between father and son?
Thousands of years of cultural heritage are not as good as your books and bowls of chicken soup?
nonsense! Nonsense! Nonsense!
I quarrel with my son, and my daughter-in-law is definitely the best candidate to end the dispute. At this time of the quarrel, Zheng Juan doesn’t need to speak anymore. She just needs to let the father and son use their third party to ease their tone, resolve the conflict and end the quarrel.
Zhou Bingkun asked Zheng Juan to stay, that's what it means.
Juan'er, look at this Bingkun, this is our family, who has the most efforts, and he has also been beaten the most. When he comes back, he has to beat him once. If he comes back, he has to beat him once. If he takes the beat him once, he will beat him
. If he doesn't change, continue to get angry.
. If he changes, he should change. You should beat him. You said, he has become a father, and his dad beat you. Isn't this happiness?
Zheng Juan once said to Zhou Bingyi: Sometimes I really envy Bingkun. He is almost fifty years old, and his brothers and sisters are taking care of him.
People will play various roles in their lives, but time never takes care of any role. Some people can enjoy the happiness brought by the overlap of two roles, but some people have never experienced the happiness brought by the overlap of two roles.
is already a father and still a son; if your parents are not around, your brothers and sisters can still treat you as a child, beating you as if you say you are, and scolding you as if you say you are not a kind of happiness.
When your parents are there, life still has its origin; if your parents are not there, life will only be home; Zhou Bingyi once advised his younger brother like this:
Parents will really die, write a letter to your father!
Now, I am just saying that I want to persuade you: "Only by losing can you know how to cherish it", everyone understands the principle of "losing", but as long as such a thing does not happen to me, no one cares. Don’t blame your parents for being annoyed, let alone blame your unreasonableness. When your parents have to hand over the important tasks of the family to your shoulders, when they need to look at your face and speak, when they no longer dare to scold you loudly, and then raise your hand and hit you. Please show your childish side, whether it is coquettish or nonsense, let them know that you have not grown up yet, and you must never leave them.
Who is wrong? Who is right?
? How to win by
? What if
loses?
is not a place to reason!
