Author: No. 1 Emotion
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Love should be direct, not implicit.
Sadly, many couples are unwilling to express their inner demands directly, and always want the other party to guess their hearts, but the other party is not the roundworm in your belly.
Especially for couples whose relationship is in a dull period, there will be many unstable factors. For example, if they no longer express love frantically between each other, it will easily lead to misunderstandings between the other party: Does he not love me anymore? In fact, this is not the case at all.
In the relationship between the two sides of the gender, we always hear some women complain that men do not love themselves at all, but for their own enjoyment, only caring about physical feelings, not spiritual needs, etc.
Then the man thinks that women are too troublesome and always wants to guess what they think. Over time, he will feel very tired, so he will have the idea of cheating.
In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, there are deeper needs in her heart, but the other party does not understand and she does not say it directly.
Next, we will analyze that when an intimate behavior occurs, what a woman thinks in her heart is completely different from what a man wants!
When an intimate behavior occurs, the woman’s complaint is actually her need
A woman once left me a message:
My husband is very motivated, but he ignored his family for his career. Although he made a lot of money, I always feel that I was ignored. Every time I complain that he wants me to spend more time with me, my husband always avoids the important things and dislikes me not understanding him. In fact, this is a need for me as a woman.
can only be said that in the eyes of men, material life is the most important thing, and at the same time, the needs of women are ignored, and the life of husband and wife is too dull.
There is nothing wrong with a man being a career-oriented, but the wife at home also needs to be comforted and enjoyed, so the man does not understand that behind the woman’s complaints is actually the need she desires.
The most feared thing about relationships is to stagnate. No matter what troubles you encounter, or for career, life, etc., the needs between husband and wife must be met in time, so that we can have a better relationship with husband and wife and marriage life will become sweeter.
When intimate behavior occurs, women desire not only passion, but romantic
In fact, in intimate relationships, men really need passion. Women do not yearn for this, but they desire romantic feelings more.
A man who truly understands women will definitely care about women's feelings and give her a romantic feeling, not just a passion, so that she can capture the hearts of women faster and more comprehensively.
For example, why do women prefer candlelight dinners and gifts that come suddenly? Why do women like carefully prepared marriage proposal ceremonies?
In fact, what women yearn for is this romantic feeling, because this allows her to feel the man's intention and enhance each other's love. Especially after entering marriage, your daily life will become dull, and at this time, women's desire for romance will become more urgent. If a man can provide it to a woman, I believe she will immediately obey all your requests.
So, don’t always think that passion can capture women’s hearts, what they desire is more romantic.
When an intimate behavior occurs, a woman wants to treat a man more as a family than a lover
In the hearts of most women, the reason why she is willing to have an intimate relationship with you is not because the relationship between them is a lover, but because she thinks that you are already her family.
But men rarely feel this way, always thinking that women are just for love, or they are so eager for intimate relationships, and even think that women regard themselves as lovers.
You should know that women are very reserved and shy in their relationship. The so-called lover relationship is a dirty relationship in the heart of a woman. If a man always thinks this way, it will hurt the woman's heart sooner or later.
So, men should also regard women as their family, rather than letting their relationship stay on their lovers and lovers. No matter what happens, they should regard women as their family, so that they will feel your love and establish a closer relationship with you.
It has to be admitted that the true meaning of love is not for the various behaviors in intimate relationships, but for the sublimation of each other's feelings. In the lasting world of love, relationships can become sweeter. No matter how long they spend together, they will not be disgusted with each other, but will appreciate and cherish them more and more!
