Introduction:
Zhou Baoshi always wonders why her mother would rather be kind to her mother's nephew than to her biological daughter. It may be that her mother's words: A nephew is the root of my family. No matter how good her daughter is, she will still get married in the future. Once she gets married, she will be an outsider.
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Zhou Baoshi felt that she had lacked maternal love since she was a child. Although she had a mother, her mother gave all her love to the son of her elder brother. The mother was very concerned about this nephew. The mother always said, "Fortunately, my brother gave birth to a son, otherwise the incense of my mother's family would not be passed down from generation to generation." In Zhou Baoshi's eyes, the mother cared about her mother's family more than her mother's family, and the mother always had time to care about her parents' affairs. In fact, her mother cared about her parents' family, which means that she was actually a woman who valued feelings, but this kind of care should be paid attention to.
Obviously, the mother was not responsible for her parents' attention, because she was better with her parents' family than her in-laws. She gave all the good things to her nephew, but was unwilling to give her daughter the same love. As her daughter, Zhou Baoshi has been suffering from the neglect brought by her mother since she was a child. When I was a child, my mother would take her nephew to the streets every time she paid her salary, buying all kinds of food for her nephew that she liked, but she never brought back one thing for Zhou Baoshi to eat. Other people's daughters are dressed up very beautifully by their mothers, and only she is always wearing old clothes given by others, because their mother is reluctant to spend money to buy clothes for her.
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doesn’t like his biological daughter. He is willing to pay for his nephew and spend time with him. Every winter and summer vacation, his mother takes his nephew home and cooks for him every day. Zhou Baoshi remembers it very clearly that every summer vacation, his nephew is at his home. Not only can he watch TV every day, but his mother also buys some very expensive fruits, washes them himself, and puts them at the TV table for his nephew to eat. Once, Zhou Baoshi was greedy and ate some fruits, and was immediately blamed by his mother. No matter how much his nephew eats, his mother would only say that you eat more.
The mother treats Zhou Baoshi, the biological daughter, far less than one-tenth of the nephew, because her nephew's relationship with her father is not good. The father believes that her mother's heart will never go to her in-laws' house for the rest of her life, and she is busy with her parents' affairs for the rest of her life. But the mother felt that her marriage was incomplete. She wanted a son, but she only had a daughter like Zhou Baoshi. Her father liked Zhou Baoshi very much, but her mother felt that having a daughter means that she had no roots in the future. As long as her daughter got married, everything would belong to someone else’s family.
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Because my mother thought that my nephew was the root of her family, she did not retain her love for him. When she was a child, her mother was buying delicious food and delicious food for him. When she grew up, her mother was buying a car and a house for him. When she bought a car, her mother used her own savings. When she bought a house, she had no money. She wanted her husband to pay, but of course she was rejected by her husband. Her husband said, "I feel it is hard to accept it if you give money to your nephew. As a married woman, you don't want to treat your daughter well. , treat your husband well, and instead put all your thoughts on your nephew. Are you expecting your nephew to support you? So can you only see your nephew? "
The mother did not start to reflect because of her father's words. Instead, she said with a striking statement: "The nephew is the root of my family. Of course, I have to rely on my nephew when I get old in the future, otherwise who should I count on? My daughter is going to get married in the future. How can I count on her?" Zhou Baoshi told her mother more than once that she will continue to take care of her mother even if she gets married in the future, but her mother is not willing to believe it, and her mother is only willing to believe what she is willing to believe. The mother still wanted to buy a house for her nephew, so she came up with a solution to introduce Zhou Baoshi to a slightly older man who asked for a 200,000 yuan betrothal gift.
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So Zhou Baoshi was still called by her mother to go on a blind date. Zhou Baoshi was not satisfied with her blind date, but her mother still asked her to marry her. When Zhou Baoshi saw that she couldn't understand her mother, she went to ask her father for help. After her father learned about her mother's behavior, she started arguing with her mother. The father asked her mother to wake up, but her mother insisted on buying a house for her nephew. She said to her father: "Since you don't agree with me, I'll give her daughter a chance. If you get a bride when you get married, then you give me 200,000 yuan and I will let your daughter go."
When the father heard his mother say this, he replied, "Okay, 200,000 yuan will be used as divorce fee. After giving it to you, we will settle the two. I am really afraid of you. I don’t want to continue living with you in the future." In order to buy a house for my nephew, my mother agreed to divorce my father. Zhou Baoshi and her father could not understand her mother’s behavior. Is the nephew really important to her? For the sake of the nephew, the mother can even ignore her daughter and husband. Is the mother really planning to let her nephew retire in the future?
Conclusion:
It’s like this. My mother paid 200,000 yuan to buy a house for my nephew at the expense of her marriage. After buying the house, her nephew moved to a new house. Her mother wanted to go over to live, but her nephew said, "There is no room for you." The nephew took it for granted, but her mother said, "I also paid 200,000 yuan for this house, and I should have my room."
The nephew said, "You voluntarily paid the money. My parents want to live in my new house, and my parents also want to live in my parents' parents. There is really no room for your room." After hearing this, my mother suddenly cried and paid 200,000 yuan to buy a house for her nephew. For this reason, she lost her husband and daughter. In the end, she didn’t even have a place to live. It’s really sad. It was not until this time that my mother realized that no matter how good she was to her nephew, she would only remember her parents, instead of treating her as her mother to support her.
