In order to marry the "demolition second generation" and have children in an unmarried manner, I have been waiting for 13 years to not demolish. The husband's family was demolished in the second year of divorce
Author: Mr. Xiao Han
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Some people are fame, some are for profit, some want to gain both fame and fortune, but in the world, how many people do it?
For Xie Yang, he is incompetent and depends entirely on his father's help, otherwise he would not be able to live his life. If it weren't for being born in the provincial capital and having his own house, Xie Yang wouldn't even be able to marry his wife. But 13 years ago, Xie Yang married a country girl. The other party was very beautiful. You looked at my family’s demolition house and I looked at your beauty. The two of them got married after two years of marriage.
After marriage, his wife Xiaoxia has been waiting for demolition because she longs to live in a spacious big house, she longs to live in a high-rise building, and she longs to have a demolition fee, so she doesn't have to go to work and take care of her husband and children at home.
However, Xiaoxia's wait was long, and she had been waiting for 13 years. Her child had graduated from elementary school, but she had not yet waited for demolition. Before marriage, Xie Yang promised that his house would be demolished within five years, because a few years ago, a village leader said that it would be demolished, and it would definitely not be too late.
Xie Yang is an honest person. He naturally believes it when he hears his leader. But demolition is not determined by groundless words. Fortunately, Xie Yang relied on this reason to marry a beautiful woman like Xiaoxia.
But marriage is sometimes very realistic, especially Xie Yang's marriage. The two of them did not get married because of love, but each had their own goals. When Xie Yang's promise was not fulfilled, Xiaoxia was unhappy and finally decided to divorce because she didn't want to waste her youth and could not get anything. She wanted to be filial and wanted to bring her parents to the provincial capital to live. These were all promised by her husband Xie Yang. However, for the past ten years, she had not said that she could not take her parents over, and she wanted to subsidize her parents' home and had no money.
Xie Yang also has a younger brother Xie Guang. He is usually very difficult to talk to, especially when he doesn't even look at his sister-in-law from the countryside. Xiaoxia is not afraid to say anything because Xie Guang knows that she will not only be scolded, but sometimes she will also take action. There have been things that happen before.
She can't stay in this home anymore. Although she is reluctant to leave her children, does she hate her deeply? Why? Finally, they divorced in the fall of 2020.
However, one year after Xie Yang and Xiaoxia divorced, that is, in the spring of 2022, Xie Yang's family was officially demolished, and the whole family moved to the community opposite to live temporarily. This was what Xiaoxia knew when she visited the child. Xiaoxia, who was regretful, wanted to remarry, but was rejected by her husband, and her parents-in-law were even more unwilling to let her visit the child. She only stipulated that there were only two opportunities to visit the child a year.
The following is a self-report from Xie Yang:
My name is Xie Yang, and I was born in the suburbs of Xi'an City, Shaanxi Province.
When I was a child, I felt that I was still a rural child. I had more than one acre of land at home. My father worked in a textile factory, my mother and my aunt sold breakfast together. My brother and I were basically free-range. When we were at home, my grandmother took care of me. When I was hungry, I went to my mother's restaurant for dinner. Of course, I didn't like to study.
Since the fifth and sixth grades of elementary school, I have been playing games in Internet cafes. At that time, there were only one or two computers in Internet cafes, and then everyone took turns to play. After all, they are all children and have poor pocket money. When I was in the second grade of junior high school, I stopped going to school. My father didn’t care. He felt that I couldn’t get into it, and I didn’t want to go out to work, so I stayed at home.
Every morning my mother would wake me up from my dream because I had to go to the store to help my mother work. In fact, I am not the kind of rebellious child, but I am very honest. Such days have passed in a flash. When I was 20 years old, my parents began to worry about my partner, but none of them succeeded.
A honest and honest personality, coupled with an average appearance, girls in urban villages are unwilling to fall in love with me. However, at this time, I met a girl who came from the countryside to work in the provincial capital, and we met in an Internet cafe.
Her name is Xiaoxia. She is very beautiful and tall. She is 168 cm tall, only two centimeters shorter than me. I fell in love with Xiaoxia at first sight, but Xiaoxia ignored me. Later, under my pursuit, she was willing to marry me. In fact, at that time, Xiaoxia agreed to marry me because of the gimmick of our family's demolition.
But my parents disagreed and wanted to find someone who is a good match. However, Xiaoxia was pregnant and finally gave birth to a child before we got married. Just two months after giving birth, I reached the legal age for marriage. My parents also felt sorry for Xiaoxia, so they agreed to let us get married.
My life after marriage was good at first. I would go out to work, but I couldn’t make much money. Xiaoxia was able to endure hardships because she had hope. Her biggest wish was to take her parents to live in the provincial capital, but she never demolished her, so I was helpless and could not fulfill her original promise.
Before marriage, I said five years ago, but after seven or eight years of marriage, there was no movement. Xiaoxia started to have conflicts with me, and sometimes she would never go home at night. My brother had a bad temper. Sometimes he wanted to say a few words when he saw Xiaoxia. Once, Xiaoxia talked back and was slapped by my brother. He always held a grudge in this matter, so our relationship was even more unsustainable.
My younger brother is actually helping me because my parents can’t control Xiaoxia, and I have no choice. When my younger brother knew that Xiaoxia had a man outside, he was so angry that he was so angry that he had no substantial evidence. Sometimes my younger brother would deliberately find fault, so Xiaoxia often refused to go home.
After my child graduated from elementary school, Xiaoxia filed for divorce, and her parents also supported us in divorce. After all, this is not a woman who lives a life, because we have no common property. My parents still gave Xiaoxia 100,000 yuan after the divorce, which is considered to be a merciful and righteous person. After all, she gave me a child.
To be honest, Xiaoxia and I have no love, it is my unilateral love for her, so this kind of marriage has a purpose. She wants to be able to get a house for my family, and I like her appearance. This kind of marriage is difficult to maintain normally. In addition, I am more honest, Xiaoxia has the final say in all matters at home.
I divorced Xiaoxia in the winter of the past year. After a year, our family finally ushered in demolition. When Xiaoxia came back to visit her children, she was found out, and then she apologized, hoping to remarry. Although I am honest, I am not stupid. In recent years, it was good that she had not settled the score when she was looking for a man outside with me on her back.
And my parents even asked Xiaoxia to visit her child only twice a year according to the divorce agreement. Sometimes she felt that she was incompetent and always needed help from her parents, otherwise she wouldn't know how to live. Sometimes she felt that she was lucky and had a parents who loved me.
I don’t want to get married anymore. One is because I’m worried that I can’t find it, and the other is because I’m for the sake of my children. I don’t want to make do with it. After all, I’m in my thirties and have become much more sensible. Now I work four or five thousand a month, which is enough for my children and I to live.
