Men should get married when they are old, and women should get married when they are old.
A family of parents' generation, seeing that their woman is almost 30 years old and still not in love and get married, she is so worried that she can only urge her to get married.
But young people nowadays have different concepts of marriage. Getting married is to pursue happiness, and so is not getting married. If a boyfriend does not have the right conditions for himself appears, he will be happier to stay single and be better than to be too little.
In Yunnan, a woman went home happily for the New Year, but when she arrived at her door, she was stopped by her mother and refused to enter.
Mom proposed a condition, either accept blind dates or not come back for the New Year.
The incident happened at the doorstep of a villager in Yunnan. The woman came back from the holiday to celebrate the New Year. She had arrived at her doorstep and shouted, "Mom, I'm back."
At this time, my mother was waiting for her daughter at the doorstep for a long time. After all, she was her little cotton-padded jacket and didn't want her daughter to be fake.
Just when her daughter wanted to enter the house, her mother was unhappy and asked her if she had a boyfriend. The woman's answer was "No".
Mom pushed her daughter out without saying a word and refused to let her enter the house.
Not only that, the mother also brought a basin of water and was about to pour it on her daughter, which scared the woman quickly backed back. But my mother just pretended not to splash her daughter with water, but fell to the ground.
It is reported that the woman is 28 years old this year and has been working outside and has not considered getting married yet.
After being introduced by a relative, she had a boyfriend. After more than three months of conversation, she blocked the boy, making her parents so angry. The boy's family is in good condition, and he is in the next town, and the woman just looks down on him.
After the New Year, the woman will be 29 years old. If she doesn’t go on a blind date or get married, she may have to choose the ones that others will choose. It is difficult to marry into a good husband and a good family. Mom doesn’t understand what her daughter thinks? Do you want to live alone to die?
had no choice but to make this decision, choose one of the two for the daughter, either agree to a blind date or not go home for the New Year. Anyway, parents can't take care of it outside.
You can’t spend the New Year alone outside alone. The woman has no choice but to temporarily agree to her mother’s request.
The state of women is also the state of many older leftover women.
Not to mention that girls who are single at the age of 28, who are single aged 30-33 and who don’t have a boyfriend are a lot of people, and women are just one of them.
They work in the city. Apart from working, they go shopping, skewers or stay at home with their best friends. They basically have no time to get in touch with boys and don’t know who they are in love with?
Of course, some people say that you can fall in love online. The reality is, will girls who have seen the world and been in society for several years believe in online dating? The answer is no.
What’s even more helpless is that girls would rather be older than marry back to the countryside. Instead, they feel that they are living alone is also good.
Boys are also helpless because at the age of 30, there are only a handful of people who can have cars and houses in the city without relying on their parents. Girls’ requirements are too harsh, and they even have requests, houses and houses without loans.
As for the boys, they have no good channels to pursue girls. Apart from friends’ introductions and blind dates, boys don’t know where to go to meet strange girls.
The city is as big as that of a single boy and a girl, like two parallel lines, has no intersection with each other.
Fortunately, the boy is willing to go back to the countryside to go on a blind date, marry a girl with not very high requirements, and live a life with her.
As for love or not? In his 30s, he has given up pursuing love.
To be honest, my mother's approach is a bit radical, but her starting point is good.
Parents have suffered too much of life, but I hope that their daughter will not follow their old path and hope that she will live a better life after marriage.
Poor parents in the world, who doesn’t worry about their children’s death alone!
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