"Yo! You are 32 years old! You are a little older, I don't know if you can have a baby!" Knowing my age, my boyfriend's mother said something very ugly to me.
01
My name is Zhou Ying, I am 32 years old this year, and I graduated from college and worked as an accountant in a private company.
When I was studying, I had a boyfriend, but after four years of relationship, I still couldn't escape the fate of being cheated on.
I was sad for a long time and never fell in love again.
I have seen many breakups and reunions from my friends around me. I feel that men are hypocritical. When I like you, I will go up to the mountain of swords and the sea of fire without any complaints.
When you don’t like you, you want to strangle you to death and let you disappear in this world.
I said I would not plan to get married in this life, and I will live alone like this. Anyway, my parents have retirement wages, so they can be self-sufficient and I don’t have to worry about it.
I have a salary of more than 6,000 yuan a month, so I can eat and drink well, and it is absolutely no problem to support myself.
My parents didn't urge me at first, and said that when I had enough fun, they naturally wanted to get married.
You can see that people around you who are the same age as them have become grandparents, or grandparents, and they are starting to be anxious.
Later, my brother got married, and my parents started to get lost.
02
They started to do ideological work for me, saying that if a person does not get married, he will be lonely when he grows old, without any fun, and no one knows when he dies.
I said I was not afraid. At worst, I could go to the nursing home. There were many old ladies in it and they would not be lonely. If it really didn't work, I would settle it on my own and would not cause burden on them.
My parents were so angry that they rolled their eyes.
In order to change my mind, when I got home, they invited all the aunts and aunts in the family and bombed them one after another.
A large group of people surrounded me and talked, just like Tang Monk chanting the spell of the tight hoop for Sun Wukong . My head was almost blown, but I still didn't change my mind.
See that I am still stubborn. My father gave a death order. If I don’t find a boyfriend, he will kneel in front of me for a long time.
I don’t care what others say, but asking my dad to kneel down to me is hard tolerant, and it is a matter of five thunder.
I certainly wouldn't allow such a thing to happen.
was helpless, and I agreed to my parents’ request.
I am already 32 years old and people of the same age are already married. In addition, I am not only at work but also at home and typing, so the chances of finding a partner are really very small.
03
Seeing this situation, my parents were anxious again and began to ask those aunts and aunts to introduce me to my partner. Even people who have a little bit of relatives have let go of the news and say that they will definitely thank them after the matter is done.
Looking at my parents' anxious look, they probably were worried that I, an older single woman, would not be able to get married.
With the help of a group of relatives, I spent all my rest time on blind dates. I have confiscated other people's gifts and money, but I still ate a lot of food because every blind date is in a restaurant.
To be honest, most of the people who rely on blind dates to find a partner are bad people with poor family conditions or bad character. It is really difficult to find someone you like.
Later on her best friend’s birthday, her husband introduced his post to me.
Lin Sheng opened a men's clothing store himself, and he was selling goods online and offline, and his income was still very good. He also looks good, but it's a bit of a concern for me to not get married at the age of 37.
Best friend told me that Lin Sheng had a girlfriend before, but his mother disagreed and broke up a pair of lovers.
On the day my ex-girlfriend got married, Lin Sheng was drunk and cried and wanted to jump off the building to commit suicide. It was his best friend and husband who stopped him.
Maybe it is because we have been hurt before, so we have a bit of mutual appreciation and have common topics.
04
Lin Sheng is very considerate and knows that I have anemia , and I often make some blood-enhancing soup to send it to the company to drink.
The soup he made tasted very good. I thought it was cooked by his mother at first.
But he told me that the soup was made by himself.Since breaking up with my ex-girlfriend, I have been very sad, so I moved to the store and studied cooking and cooking soup in my spare time. Now that the love injury has been cured, the technique of making soup has also improved greatly.
I didn't expect that the soup I drank was actually related to Lin Sheng's ex-girlfriend.
Because Lin Sheng often gives me soup, over time, colleagues in the company knew that I had a boyfriend.
A colleague deliberately joked with me, saying that I didn’t expect that I could find such a heartwarming and top-notch man at my age.
I smiled and said: This may be because it is better to come sooner than you are worse than to come sooner than you!
We have been dating Lin Sheng for half a year, and our relationship has developed very well and has reached the point of talking about marriage.
I took him back to see my family. Lin Sheng is knowledgeable and polite, and has a humorous conversation. My parents have a high opinion of him and it is my blessing to say that I can marry such a man.
I don’t know if my dad is worried that I won’t get married, so he said that.
05
A few days later, Lin Sheng said he would take me back to see his parents.
I asked him if he would prepare some gifts to bring.
Lin Sheng said there is no need to prepare. He has bought a fruit gift package and I can go with him.
I went to see my prospective parents-in-law for the first time, and I couldn't help but feel a little nervous.
Lin Sheng comforted me and let me relax and just do it as usual.
When he arrived at Lin Sheng's house, his parents were busy cooking in the kitchen. Dad Lin looks like the kind of honest and honest person who doesn’t talk much. Lin’s mother is different. She wears a pair of silver reading glasses , and looks smart and capable.
When we came back, Dad Lin enthusiastically took out the fruit snacks to greet me.
Lin Sheng wanted to go into the kitchen to help, but was pushed out by Lin's father and said that I was here for the first time. I was unfamiliar with the place, so I asked him to accompany me.
06
While eating, Lin's mother kept asking me about the situation at home, and I answered them one by one.
When she heard that my parents were retirees, and they had a good pension every month and I also had a stable job, she smiled and nodded with satisfaction.
After dinner, we sat in the living room and chatted.
When Lin Sheng went to the bathroom, Lin’s mother suddenly asked me how old I am this year?
I told her honestly that I am 32 years old this year.
When I heard these, Lin Ma frowned slightly: Yo! You are already 32 years old! I am a little older, I don’t know if I can have a baby!
I was embarrassed, and Dad Lin said: Where is the age older! She is 32 years old and our son is 37 years old. Isn’t it just right for me! When we first met, why did you talk about giving birth?
"Of course I have to say that I am so old and haven't gotten married yet. Who knows if there is any problem in what aspect? I can't let my son marry an old woman who can't have children!"
I have never been insulted like this before. I was so angry that I stood up and prepared to leave.
07
Lin Sheng didn’t know when he came out of the bathroom. He held my hand and said softly: Why are you anxious? I haven't spoken yet!
After saying that, he put his arms around my shoulders, turned around and looked at his mother and said: Mom, it was because of you before, so I missed someone who loves me and I love, but that was already a thing of the past. Now I will not miss Zhou Ying again because of your dissatisfaction. I like her and love her. No matter what problems she has, I will be with her.
Lin's mother curled her lips and said: I'm not doing this for your own good. If I marry a woman who is infertile, it's not a waste of money.
Lin Sheng said one by one: What you call doing for my good is the culprit of destroying my happiness. If you can marry the woman you like, I am willing to spend no matter how much money you spend. If you don’t want to, we can stay away from you.
My Lin's face was so angry that she blushed. She wanted to continue talking, but was stopped byMy Lin.
Dad Lin said: My wife! My son is so old, and he should choose what kind of life he wants to live, so we should not participate in it anymore.
Lin's mother opened her mouth and finally said nothing.
Three months later, Lin Sheng and I got married. The wedding house is the down payment made by Lin Sheng himself and the decoration fee paid by my parents.
My parents didn't ask for the bride price, but Lin Sheng gave me a bank card with 100,000 yuan. He said that the password was my birthday.
On the day of my wedding, I was wearing a beautiful wedding dress, holding Lin Sheng's arm, listening to the blessings of relatives and friends, and feeling that I was the happiest person in the world.
