I am a very good friend and told me about her unfortunate marriage experience. For the sake of convenience, I will tell you to my home in the first person.
My husband and I are childhood friends. We fell in love with him since we first fell in love, but he is lukewarm to me. I used a trick to deceive him into marrying me, which eventually ruined the happiness of both of us. I regretted my life.
My husband and I were the same age as me. We grew up together and went to school together until we graduated from high school. I was admitted to university and he went to big cities to work hard. He founded a small company, which looked like a dozen people, and the benefits were pretty good. Since I separated, I miss him even more. Every day when I have something to do or not, I will chat with him on my phone. I always look for him, and he has never looked for me once. I just want to see him every day. The school and his company happen to be in the same city. When I have time, I go to the company to find him. I feel like I don’t see him for a day, it’s like three autumns apart. After three years of college and three years of chasing him, he was always lukewarm to me, but my enthusiasm for him has increased.
I made up my mind to take him down. After thinking twice, I decided to use my birthday to take a gamble. On the night of my birthday, I invited a few close friends, and celebrated my birthday with me in the hotel. When I asked him, he hesitated for a while. Finally, he agreed to come and celebrate his birthday with me. I talked to my best friend about my plan and asked her to cooperate with me. My best friend agreed to cooperate without force. After
people arrived, everyone gave me a birthday gift and wished me a happy birthday together. I would like to express my sincere thanks. After that, we started drinking. The atmosphere was very warm. Everyone drank a lot of wine. I specially placed my best friend next to my husband. My best friend tried all the ways and let my husband drink one cup after another, and finally drank one cup with him one cup. In the winery, men were unwilling to redeem women. In the end, he drank a lot of wine. I decided on the room in advance and sent him to the room.
When he woke up, he saw me lying beside him, hurriedly put on his clothes, and asked me what he did tonight. I said, "What are you pretending to be stupid? You don't know what you did, but I can't force a few tears." He began to comfort me and said he would be responsible for me. In fact, he already has a person he likes, and I have seen this person before, but I feel that he is not as beautiful as me. After that night, he reluctantly broke up with the girl and reluctantly became a husband and wife with me.
After marriage, we lived a mess. He didn't argue with me or make trouble with me. It was just Cold War . You ignored him and didn't care about him. You didn't talk to him or him. You never talk to you. You have been like this for more than a year after you got married. At this time, I realized that I was wrong, and the end of the matter came back. Feelings cannot be forced, and a forced melon is not sweet. I really regret it, but now it has hurt him and his own happiness. I'm going to talk to him with heart-to-heart talk. If you can't live, just break up. I don’t know what I can talk about
Friends, my best friend’s experience has profound lessons, and the relationship between the two is from the heart, and there will be no good results forcing them.
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