Dear is a matter between two people, but marriage is a rift between two families. Therefore, after marriage, life requires the joint efforts and mutual support of each other to maintain the relationship between each other and to allow the sweetness before marriage to continue after marriage, especially from the influence of the original family. You must have your own principles and opinions, be clear about the primary and secondary, and do not bring the family problems behind each other into your own small family, so that there will be no conflicts or estrangements.
Xiao Ting and Wang Feng met through blind date, but Xiao Ting did not have much deep feelings for Wang Feng. It was just that because her parents were rushing to get married and saw that her colleagues and friends around her had already got married and had children. Xiao Ting also wanted to have a home to stabilize her. It just so happened that Wang Feng had a good impression of her and had been pursuing her on her own initiative. Xiao Ting agreed to his confession and finally got to the point of getting married.
But after entering the marriage, Xiao Ting regretted that she had not learned about her husband's family well before getting married. As time went by, Xiao Ting discovered that her mother-in-law was a person who liked to take advantage of her. She was particularly selfish and preferred her brother-in-law, so that her brother-in-law was not motivated, never worked hard, and had no fixed job. After getting married early, she had no sense of taking responsibility for her family and only knew how to rely on her parents at home.
Originally, these things had nothing to do with Xiao Ting, because before getting married, in order to make her get married early, her parents specially bought her a pre-marriage house for her. After getting married, Xiao Ting moved in with her husband. She didn't think about living under the same roof with her mother-in-law at that time, but she didn't expect that half a month later, her mother-in-law kept asking to live together. After Xiao Ting refused several times, her mother-in-law actually brought her luggage directly.
Xiao Ting had no choice but to compromise. After all, if the trouble continued, the neighbors would have to make jokes. But after my mother-in-law moved in, she often took the things from the house to her brother-in-law's house, especially the supplements her parents bought for Xiao Ting. The mother-in-law often took them without asking for them, and Wang Feng also stopped her, but the mother-in-law said with confidence: Anyway, her parents are rich, and she will continue to buy them for her in the future.
Xiao Ting happened to hear this sentence outside the door at that time, which made her very angry, but in order not to affect her relationship with her husband, she regarded it as ignorant.
But I didn’t expect that the more Xiao Ting was, the more unscrupulous her mother-in-law became. She said to her that day: Daughter-in-law, you also know that it’s not easy for your brother-in-law to live in. Otherwise, let them move here, and the whole family lives together, and it’s better to be lively. After hearing this, Xiao Ting's face looked ugly. She really didn't know how her mother-in-law was embarrassed to say such words, so she directly retorted: I wanted to raise my brother-in-law and his family, but I didn't even think about it.
The mother-in-law still didn't give up and continued: It's all the family, why are you so concerned about it? Isn't it just a few pairs of chopsticks? Xiao Ting replied: It’s impossible. If you want to live with them, then move in. Anyway, my family doesn’t welcome them and I can’t live there. After hearing this, my mother-in-law was very angry and had to give up. Xiao Ting also thought about it. If her mother-in-law dared to make things difficult for her, she would discuss with her husband and send her mother-in-law back to her hometown. Anyway, she would not agree to let her brother-in-law move over.
Shakespeare once said: An unsatisfactory marriage is like a hell, where a chicken fights for a lifetime and cannot live in peace. On the contrary, if you choose a spouse who is satisfied with you, you will be harmonious for a hundred years and have endless happiness. Therefore, if you want to get married, you must be cautious, especially for older single women. Don’t settle for it easily. Don’t impulsively enter the marriage because of external pressure and the eyes of people around you. Otherwise, if you meet someone wrong, it will be difficult to be happy after marriage. After all, sometimes getting married may not be happy, and being single may not be bad. #Marriage##Emotion##Emotional Firm#
