A high-end cafe, a woman in her forties is chatting with a young girl. Suddenly the older woman raised her voice: After the matter is done, I will pay you 300,000 yuan in cash. This is your salary for almost ten years. How about it? Think carefully and answer me.
The young woman interrupted her: No need to think about it, I won’t do it. This is not a matter of money. If others know about this, how can I still have the face to meet people! You might as well invite someone else!
After saying that, she slammed the door and left.
What makes this young and beautiful woman so angry, and what other woman wants her to do, that she reacts so fiercely!
The unspeakable pain of a happy family
The middle-aged woman is named Han Xiaoli and her husband Dong Gang. The two of them started a company, and because they were well-managed, they were very successful and their families were well-off.
In the eyes of outsiders, Han Xiaoli and his wife are definitely successful people, but what they don’t know is that they also have regrets that others don’t know.
Been married for more than 20 years, they have never had children, and they are very angry because of this. The last two people were diagnosed by several experts that Han Xiaoli suffered from infertility . Not only was it impossible for to be conceived naturally in , but even if you had IVF, there was no hope.
Han Xiaoli knew that Dong Gang actually wanted a child in her heart, so why didn’t she herself? But this is the reality. Han Xiaoli is worried that as a result, it will definitely affect the relationship between husband and wife. She had to find a way to have a child, which could maintain a husband-wife relationship, and the foundation that the couple had worked hard to inherit.
Make sacrifices and find "prey"
Thinking of this, Han Xiaoli couldn't sit still. She made up her mind to make some sacrifices herself and find someone to surrogate, but leave offspring for the Dong family.
Han Xiaoli told her husband Dong Gang this idea. Dong Gang was very resistant at the beginning, but he couldn't resist his wife's repeated persuasion, and finally nodded in agreement. In fact, he also longed for a child in his heart.
The husband agreed to his suggestion, but finding a suitable surrogate mother is not an easy task. This is not only an illegal thing, but also contrary to public order and good customs!
Seed player refused the boss lady at a loss
After Han Xiaoli's layers of screening, she finally shone by herself, her fitness assistant Jiang Xiaoshu.
Speaking of Jiang Xiaoshu, she is from another place and works alone in this city. When Han Xiaoli went to work out, they gradually got to know each other. Later, Han Xiaoli saw that Xiaoshu was smart and diligent, so she asked her to be her own fitness assistant.
This girl is 22 years old and unmarried. She is not only young and white, but also has a good figure. If this girl is willing to have a surrogacy, the child she gave birth to is definitely not bad.
So after a fitness exercise, Han Xiaoli made an appointment with Jiang Xiaoshu, and the scene at the beginning of the article happened in the cafe!
The ending like this was something Han Xiaoli didn't expect. Jiang Xiaoshu didn't agree with her proposal after paying 300,000 yuan, but she still didn't give up. A few days later, she found Jiang Xiaoshu again. This time she stopped withdrawing money, so she played the emotional card, which means the trouble of a mother without children, but Jiang Xiaoshu still didn't give her any chance and asked her to find someone else!
voluntarily contacted the price increase to negotiate
, and had no choice but to find a suitable partner through various channels. However, there was a few people who would do this kind of thing, and Han Xiaoli was really a little depressed.
That day, Han Xiaoli's phone rang. She saw that she had disagreed with her Jiang Xiaoshu several times. What else could she do if she took the initiative to call. She answered the phone angrily. What she didn't expect was that on the other side of the phone, Jiang Xiaoshu said timidly, Sister Han, what you said some time ago is not impossible!
Han Xiaoli was delighted when she heard this. It seemed that things had a turning point.
You see, I am not married yet, and I don’t even have a boyfriend. This kind of thing is not good to say. If it spreads, my reputation will be ruined.continued on the other side of the phone.
Do you want to increase the money? Han Xiaoli is just acting like this.
Yes.
money is easy to say, but if things are done, you will never be treated unfairly!
Reject, agree, and the attitude changed to
After some discussion, Han Xiaoli agreed and paid Jiang Xiaoshu 400,000 after the matter was completed.
Why did Jiang Xiaoshu, who had just rejected him seriously, change his attitude so much? In fact, when Han Xiaoli first talked to her, her heart was not as calm as it seemed.
She returned to her rented house, laying on the bed, tossing and turning, thinking that if she agreed to the surrogacy, she would have a lot of money, or even her salary for about ten years, but then she thought that she could not make money with this, so she was very confused and couldn't make up her mind.
. The subsequent shopping made her feel a little sober and completely defeated her vanity.
That day, Jiang Xiaoshu went shopping in the mall and she fell in love with a very beautiful bag. When the price was her salary for several months. For a girl who had to be careful when eating and dressing, she really didn't want to buy it.
At this time, the snobbish salesperson was even more sarcastic. If you can't afford it, don't touch it randomly. If you don't touch it, you can't afford to pay!
Jiang Xiaoshu's self-esteem was broken at this moment, and she made up her mind to become a rich man!
absurd agreement
In the end, Jiang Xiaoshu still failed to withstand the temptation of money and lost to her vanity. She thought, it was a surrogacy anyway, she was a girl after all, and no one would say anything about such illegal things. Han Xiaoli and his wife were so rich, so it would be better to ask for more money by themselves. This was the phone call Jiang Xiaoshu called Han Xiaoli.
Everything was negotiated, and Han Xiaoli introduced Jiang Xiaoshu to her husband. Dong Gang saw that Xiaoshu was young and beautiful and had a good figure, so he agreed.
No one had any objection, so they signed an agreement, which stipulated that during the surrogacy period, Jiang Xiaoshu would have a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan. After the child was born, Han Xiaoli and his wife would pay Jiang Xiaoshu 400,000 yuan in cash. The child belongs to Han Xiaoli and his wife, and Jiang Xiaoshu has nothing to do with the child anymore. From then on, Jiang Xiaoshu left the city and could not meet the child.
Choose one of three ways
Next is the specific details of surrogacy. Han Xiaoli and his wife told Jiang Xiaoshu that generally speaking, there are three ways: 1. artificial insemination , 2 test tube fertilization, and 3 natural conception. However, the woman will suffer in the first two and the success rate will be relatively low.
Jiang Xiaoshu was very hesitant. In fact, these Jiang Xiaoshu also checked online. The first two really have to go through a painful process and are not easy to succeed. Especially after suffering many times and going through a long process. Anyway, this matter is not glorious, so I simply choose the third one.
Just like that, Jiang Xiaoshu quickly became pregnant and successfully gave birth to a baby girl 10 months later.
Han Xiaoli and his wife hugged this child, with a happy smile on their faces. The long-cherished wish of many years has finally come true!
I will never meet again
Han Xiaoli and his wife gave Jiang Xiaoshu 400,000 yuan according to the agreement. Jiang Xiaoshu also packed up his own things and prepared to leave the city. Han Xiaoli and his wife, who were afraid that Jiang Xiaoshu would forget the agreement, specifically reminded her, remember that from now on, you can no longer come to see the child for any reason or any way!
After the child is full month old, Jiang Xiaoshu left this city she just knew. She quickly bought the bag she had long wanted online, and then bought a few sets of beautiful clothes. She seemed to live the life of a rich man.
A few months later, as a mother, Jiang Xiaoshu, due to her mother's nature, began to feel lost from the bottom of her heart, and she missed her daughter in particular.
The longing is getting stronger
Jiang Xiaoshu began to call Han Xiaoli intentionally or unintentionally, and asked about the current situation of the child indirectly. Han Xiaoli also felt the difference between Jiang Xiaoshu, and she began to warn Jiang Xiaoshu not to breach the contract.
Finally, Jiang Xiaoshu had fewer calls, which made Han Xiaoli feel at a loss.
In a blink of an eye, the child is over one year old and can call him mom and dad in a vague way. This made Han Xiaoli and his wife so happy that they couldn't stop talking. The efforts of their couple finally paid off.
As the child’s biological mother, Jiang Xiaoshu wants the child to call him mom.
Uninvited guests visited
Han Xiaoli's family was having fun and enjoying the joy of family. And a knock on the door at supper that day completely broke all this.
On that day, Han Xiaoli and his wife were feeding their children in the bedroom. A knock on the door suddenly rang out. Han Xiaoli asked, "Who is it? No one said. She thought someone knocked on the wrong door, but the knock on the door sounded again."
Han Xiaoli opened the door, and stood a familiar young woman - Jiang Xiaoshu.
Han Xiaoli screamed in surprise, "Why are you here? Then she wanted to close the door, but Jiang Xiaoshu held the door tightly. At this time, Dong Gang, who heard the noise, came over and was shocked when he saw the person coming."
But in order to dispel the doubts of their neighbors, they had to let Jiang Xiaoshu enter the house.
Make unreasonable requests for the child
Han Xiaoli and his wife agreed to let Jiang Xiaoshu take a look at the child from a distance, but no matter what she said, she firmly stated that this is the last time and there must be no next time.
The down-and-out Jiang Xiaoshu left and did not come to trouble Han Xiaoli and his wife again. However, after a period of time, a summons came down and Han Xiaoli and his wife realized that Jiang Xiaoshu sued them.
As the biological mother of the child, Jiang Xiaoshu requires the right to visit the child four times a month. She also requires that she can take the child out to play, and she must live with the child for half of the time during the winter and summer vacations every year, that is, one month.
Maximize the interests of children Visit rights Immunity judgment
After investigation, the court learned the truth of the matter. Although surrogacy is illegal in my country, the agreement signed by Han Xiaoli and his wife and Jiang Xiaoshu is also invalid. However, when the child is not over two years old, in accordance with the principle of maximizing the interests of children, Jiang Xiaoshu's visit not only cannot play a positive role in the healthy growth of the child, but will also have an impact on the physical and mental health of the child. Therefore, Jiang Xiaoshu's request was rejected.
The lonely Jiang Xiaoshu left, and she regretted betraying herself for money and vanity.
Thinking of Jiang Xiaoshu, who has ruined her reputation for her children, Han Xiaoli and his wife also feel sorry for her. If they didn’t make this bad decision and asked the civil affairs department to adopt, they wouldn’t have had these things today!
In order to make up for Jiang Xiaoshu who could not be visited, Han Xiaoli and his wife could only express their apology by occasionally posting a few photos of their children!
I believe that many couples have children’s worries. Here I would like to give you some suggestions
- to detect and treat as early as possible, because infertility is the same as any other disease. Only by treating it earlier can you have a better chance of recovery. Never hide the disease and avoid medical treatment. Miss the opportunity
- People who eat grains and grains will inevitably be able to avoid this disease and that disease. If one party is unfortunately infertile, the other party must not laugh at it or even sarcastic, because only two people actively face it is the key to solving the problem. If one party is unfortunately infertile, the other party must not laugh at it or even sarcastic, because only two people face it actively is the key to solving the problem. If one party is unfortunately infertile, the other party must not laugh at it or even sarcastic, because only two people face it actively is the key to solving the problem. If one party is unfortunately infertile, the other party must not laugh at it or even sarcastic, because only two people face it actively is the key to solving the problem. Key
- Natural conception cannot be done, you can consider artificial insemination and IVF. If all options are denied, it is the best choice to find the civil affairs department to apply for adoption of the child, rather than choosing a surrogacy for surrogacy, because this is not only illegal and not protected by law, but also has great safety hazards. We are dealing with people, and all behaviors must be based on the law as the bottom line of thinking . Another point is to be inseparable from husband and wife. It cannot be said that one party chooses to divorce or even cheat because of infertility. These are immoral behaviors
