There is an old saying: "A good person does not live long, and the disaster will last for thousands of years."
This reflects most people's expectations of kindness.
In fact, there are many examples of evil people who will eventually get bad consequences in life, but they are automatically ignored by people.
Because we expect good people to be rewarded, we will naturally feel unfair to see good people suffering.
This question is very realistic, and is even full of philosophical thinking.
So, why do some kind-hearted people often have miserable fates, while some people with poor character live a good life?
First, Survival of the fittest
No matter how society develops, the core of the strong and the strong in survival of the world and the survival of the world have always existed, but it has just turned into various forms.
People with kind hearts are often altruistic and are even willing to sacrifice their own interests to help others.
And those with poor character are often selfish and like to use any means to get the benefits they want. Compared with
, the latter has a higher probability of obtaining resources and a relatively better material life. If you compare your eyes slightly, it seems that the latter is doing better.
Second, overly kind, regardless of real or fake
There is a fateful master Mr. Sun who once left a deep impression on me.
Mr. Sun’s eight characters is the day master. Generally speaking, people whose day branch is the star of the seal will be gentle and kind, compassionate, and love to help others. When asked, Mr. Sun was very enthusiastic about charity and often donated money to remote mountainous areas.
But many times, he lacks judgment because he has been cheated of donating good things many times, with the amount reaching tens of thousands. Even so, his original intention remains unchanged, which is both admirable and helpless.
lacks wisdom and guidance kindness, and is actually very easy to use.
Some people are kind but can't tell the difference between true and false, and are often used by some people with ulterior motives. Sometimes you suffer a small loss, and sometimes you suffer a big loss. Compared with
, the end of a kind person seems to be more miserable.
Third, I would rather be hurt than hurt
Many kind-hearted people would rather be hurt by themselves than hurt others.
On the contrary, those who are extremely selfish will pour their anger on others.
In comparison, kind people are mostly suffering from hurt, and life is full of hardships and ups and downs. The latter transfers negative energy to others, and lives a more relaxed and happy life.
Therefore, only kind people will bear more, and they will look more hard-working.
The fourth, the best is to help, the lost is to help
There are two families like this, one of which is a bricklayer, and he can repair water and electricity. He is a very good person and likes to help neighbors and friends.
The male owner of another family is a local car seller, and he looks down on ordinary people a little.
And he once drove two used cars to the entrance of their alley to block the road, saying that it was a fortune teller's guidance, so that he could make money, and did not care that doing so would hinder the lives of the villagers in the countryside.
Two years ago, the elderly from both families passed away one after another.
During the days of keeping, neighbors needed to burn paper and kowtow, and help wash vegetables and cut vegetables to make big pot rice.
often has the number of neighbors and friends, which directly represents the character and reputation of each local area. The two families now form a sharp contrast.
The family that often helps others is constantly in full swing at the door.
The family that once blocked the villagers' way with a car, there was only the drum and music team invited at the door, which was very lonely.
People with poor character and cunning character can indeed get benefits in a short period of time, but that is only a material benefit, and it may not last long.
and there are many things that money can't buy.
In fact, kindness is just a choice, it is above intelligence. It requires greater courage and broader mind than intelligence, because when you choose kindness, you don’t know what kindness will bring to you?
It’s like you are a kind person and you must not like to give up kindness for the sake of the so-called interests.
Because you know that being kind is not necessarily to give yourself something, but to your original intention choice and inner peace.
And this peace and freedom from the heart is where the true happiness lies.
