Yesterday I saw a passage on Weibo :
"I used to try my best to get close to you. Although the thorns around you made me hurt, I still walked towards you without hesitation, but your lukewarm towards me made me lose my energy. I like you very much, but I can only stop here."
People mature to a stage and will live very selfishly.
Because you will find that in fact, there are not so many people in this world who care about your feelings, so it is better to eat and drink, go wherever you want, and do whatever you want. If you like me, I will chat with you for a while. If you don’t like me, I will never force you. I will not force you to do so. I will not force you to the circle that I can’t fit into, and I will not explain anything more to those who don’t understand me.
There is nothing more comfortable than that kind of happy life.
Sometimes I also want to compromise just to like someone. It is not easy to meet you in the world, but after compromising for a long time, anyone will be tired.
is not that I am fickle, but that I have given you too many opportunities and you have missed them.
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I don't know if you have seen such a conversation.
Someone asked, "When did you make up your mind to break up?" and replied, "That day, I saw a strange-shaped tree on the road, but I didn't want to tell him." In fact, the opposite of love is not a conflict, but indifference. I don't want to say anything anymore and don't want to share it with my partner.
Yes, good feelings are when you want to share the most. Someone understands your mood, and is happy and sad with you.
can every perfunctory answer not only block the bridge of sorrow and joy, but also cool down a eager heart that is looking forward to it.
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Two people live their lives together. The most fear is that one person is running forward, the other just wants to take a rest.
is not an easy thing to live together. At least you have to afford it. At least you can spend it together when you encounter storms. But if a boy only knows to retreat when he encounters difficulties, and dares not be fair for you when you are wronged, and only games and cigarettes and alcohol are in his mind. What do you like?
He is not worthy of your fairy water that costs 2,000 yuan a bottle, nor is it worthy of your positive and lively attitude towards life.
Girls are all very stupid. They like someone, even if the whole world thinks he is not good, in their eyes, he is still shining.
However, we are not the saviors of anyone, and the person we are looking for is not a burden.
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Love itself has no reason to be told.
In the past, I thought that the most important thing for two people to be together is to get better together, which is the best meaning of love, but later I found that not everyone understands love this way.
If you want to be better with him, it does not mean that he wants to be better with you. is misunderstood or questioned, it can only be said that if the lives of the two people want are different, no matter how hard they force them, they can only break up.
A person who never asks for his own progress, you cannot expect him to make changes because you make. Since
cannot be changed, then forget it.
I can accommodate your playfulness, but you can't always test my patience.
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Someone said that girls who are trapped in love are prone to being stupid.
But I want to say: If it weren't for loving you, I'm afraid there would be no need to be stupid.
Those who love you can take ninety-nine steps towards you fearlessly, but if you still refuse to take the last step, I think she will turn around without hesitation. No one wants to throw stones into the abyss all the time, and love that cannot hear the echo is destined to die.
Girls are different from boys. Even if they are strong, they still hope that someone can cherish her and give her a warm home so that she can have a support when she is tired and hurt.
If one day I say to you, I'm sorry, I won't wait.
You must not be sad.
I hope you understand that I have really waited for you for a long time before this, but in the end you still disappointed me.
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I remember when I read "Forgive Him 77 times" before, I didn't understand Eva. The two have been in love for ten years. Since they can forgive Adam 77 times, why can't they forgive the 78th time?
But as I grow older, I seem to understand.
Eva used forgiveness to teach Adam to grow up, but he never learned to take responsibility.
Eva just hopes that Adam can be a little more mature and give her a stable home.
But Adam seems to have never cared about these.
Just like Eva said, "You are still like a child, how can I marry you?"
Since you can't learn to grow, these 77 times are enough to get me away.
I can accept your childishness, but I can't take care of your childishness all my life.
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I believe that every couple is separated for no reason, and every sudden departure is a long-planned one.
It fermented in a certain lack of understanding of each other, broke out in a certain quarrel, and ended in a journey in two different directions.
It’s not because I don’t love you anymore, but because I’m too tired of loving you, so it’s better to let each other live the life you want to live.
Life has made people very tired, and love should not make people more tired.
In busy and vulgar days, we hope that love is the embellishment of boring life, not a burden, not annoyance when I think of you and I feel sore.
This world is like a huge claw machine, I just want you through the glass.
However, some feelings are like this claw machine, which is close to the end of the world, but it is half a step before it can become a poem.
