Tang Jing and Luo Zijun are classmates and best friends for many years. They graduated from college, but after graduation, they embarked on completely different lives.
Tang Jing once said: Love is fleeting, marriage is fragile, so I pursue spiritual independence day and night. She does not fall in love or get married. With the help of He Han , she quickly became a female elite in the workplace. Luo Zijun could have become a business woman like Tang Jing. Because Chen Junsheng said that she wanted to support her, she gave up all the skills and knowledge she learned and returned to her family with peace of mind and became a housewife.
+ years have passed, and both of them have lived the life they want, and they both believe in their original decisions. Unfortunately, the calmness always surging under the undercurrents. The years before them are quiet, but they are just a moment of fireworks.
Luo Zijun has been living a pampered life for many years. The rich wife gradually lost herself in her life. She didn't have to wash vegetables, cook or clean the house. Her son had a nanny to take care of him and picked him up. The only thing she did every day was to go shopping and check Chen Junsheng when she came back in the evening.
Such a numb and boring life was repeated mechanically day after day. Luo Zijun, immersed in her own world, did not notice Chen Junsheng's increasingly tired expression and his repeated actions but stopped, nor did he notice the increasingly tense pattern of getting along between them. She naively thought that Chen Junsheng would always be nice to him as he said before, but she did not know that men's promises were conditional and shelf life. The promise made during love and the marriage are all two different natures. Luo Zijun didn't understand, so he believed it.
After marriage, Luo Zijun didn't know how to manage marriage. She was willful and self-centered every day, living in the nothingness accumulated by clothes and jewelry, isolated from all things outside the family, so that people are about to middle age and face the marriage crisis of their husband betrayal. If they don't divorce, Chen Junsheng would not agree. If they divorce and they are raising themselves, they don't know where to go in the future.
When Luo Zijun lived in tears and pain every day because of Chen Junsheng's betrayal, Tang Jing was by his side, supporting her and encouraging her, giving Luo Zijun the motivation and hope to survive. She encouraged Luo Zijun to accept reality, re-harden herself, and bravely open the next level of life, and then formed a small aid team with He Han to help Luo Zijun find a place in the workplace again.
The main task of this matter fell on He Han, and He Han was having trouble saying this because Luo Zijun was exactly the kind of woman he disliked the most. She had no ability to survive, was polite and unreasonable. He was very disdainful of getting involved with such a woman, but Luo Zijun is Tang Jing's best friend, and he couldn't ignore it.
And although Tang Jing doesn't like having women approach He Han, Luo Zijun is her best friend, and she firmly believes that He Han and Luo Zijun will never develop feelings other than friendship, so she feels relieved to hand over Luo Zijun to He Han.
Who would have thought that He Han, who was so in love over time, was smart, wise, rational and calm, was not taken down by any woman or even Tang Jing, but was instead taken down by Luo Zijun.
For Luo Zijun, He Han can put the company's affairs aside and help Luo Zijun wholeheartedly; he will do his best to help Luo Zijun deal with everything in the family so that she has no worries; he will remind Luo Zijun of the weather, remind her of some life details, and brave the heavy rain for Luo Zijun to travel thousands of miles to Suzhou to pick her up... He did everything for Luo Zijun that he had not done for Tang Jing before.
He Han was "crazy". He fell in love with Luo Zijun and fell in love with this woman who had almost no excellence compared to Tang Jing. But this fact that everyone seemed unbelievable happened to He Han.
He Han never thought that she could do this for others. Perhaps he could do this for Tang Jing before, but unfortunately, Tang Jing never gave her a chance, because Tang Jing would never make such a low-level mistake. She can always handle many things in an orderly manner by herself.
Although compared with a shrewd and capable business woman like Tang Jing, Luo Zijun is simply a novice in the workplace and an ordinary woman, Luo Zijun is also an intellectual and cute woman.
Leo Tolstoy once said: People are not cute because of their beauty, but because of their loveliness. For many men, what kind of woman is the cutest? Sometimes it is not a strong woman like Tang Jing. "Jane Eyre" tells us that too strong opponents make people tired, while too weak opponents make people tired. Women like Luo Zijun who work hard to grow, are full of hope for life, balance too strong and too weak, and show fragility and dependence from time to time are the most unwilling women.
Luo Zijun was an accident in He Han's life. His life was always calm and stable in the past, because with his ability, he could naturally handle everything well. Luo Zijun stumbled into his life, adding a hint of fun and freshness to He Han's life, so he urgently wanted to know how far Luo Zijun could grow with his help and how far she could go.
Unexpectedly, the following along the way made He Han take the lead in falling. Years of hard work in the workplace made He Han lose the intention of always wanting to be at the top of the peak. He had long thought about going down the mountain to see another scene at the bottom of the peak. Even if you accompany Luo Zijun to go up the mountain again, it is better than being alone and having no lover to accompany you.
Before, he thought about marrying Tang Jing, but Tang Jing was in the rising period of his career and wanted to prove himself to He Han. As his boyfriend and life mentor, He Han would naturally fulfill her. Faced with Tang Jing's rapid growth, He Han was both relieved and lost.
He and Tang Jing have known each other for ten years. From their friends to their boyfriends, countless people have thought that they should be together. Even if the two have never been married, everyone thinks that only Tang Jing can match He Han, and only He Han can match Tang Jing. They are in line with people's guesses about the golden boy and jade girl. He also thinks that Tang Jing is the most suitable for him, at least before falling in love with Luo Zijun, he feels that his future life partner should be like Tang Jing.
It was not until he met Luo Zijun that he knew what the woman who suited him best should be like, just like the passage He Yichen once said: If there was that person in the world ever appeared, everyone else would become a settlement, and I would not want to settle.
He Han is also unwilling to settle down. In her heart, Luo Zijun is unique. Because of Luo Zijun, he knew how inappropriate he and Tang Jing were. It would be a mistake to continue with him and Tang Jing.
In fact, Tang Jing waited for He Han for 10 years, and had not agreed to He Han's proposal for a long time, just to wait for a firm and settled love. She wanted to make herself strong enough to match He Han, and wanted to wait for He Han to love her wholeheartedly without any distractions.
Tang Jing always thought He Han would always wait for him, so she worked hard, wanting to be the woman He Han admired the most, and did not hesitate to pry the corner of love for her career. Later, because she was too hard, there was a physical problem. This encounter made her understand that cherishing her in front of her, and being with He Han is the most important thing.
She also wanted to go down the mountain. She has seen enough scenery along the way. In the future, she only wants to walk hand in hand with He Han. If Tang Jing had agreed to marry him in the past, He Han would have been very happy, but now he only had Luo Zijun in his heart. He Han agreed on the surface, but this was just his delaying strategy, just to create an illusion of his innocent relationship with Luo Zijun.
It's a pity that there is no airtight wall in the world . The relationship between He Han and Luo Zijun is still revealed. One is her best friend and the other is a man she likes for many years. Tang Jing was caught in the middle and knew nothing, and she leaned foolishly on Luo Zijun's shoulder to imagine the future of herself and He Han. She felt like a jumping clown, and it is conceivable how collapsed she was.
Luo Zijun and He Han joined forces to tell a huge lie, keeping her in the dark, allowing her to jump repeatedly in hope and despair, joy and sorrow. He Han also distinguished for Luo Zijun and said that it was not her fault, but Tang Jing said to him with red eyes: Her biggest mistake is to make you fall in love with her.
If it were other women, Tang Jing would not be so unacceptable. She might have tried hard to compete with that woman, or she might have smiled and blessed He Han, and then left with ease, but because that person was Luo Zijun, all Tang Jing's disguise and arrogance became meaningless.
She cannot do anything like Lingling to get the person she likes, and she can't compete with Luo Zijun for a man. Even if she has broken up, Luo Zijun is the one she cared about. Her arrogance and principles do not allow her to do that. All she can do is to be hysterical in her heart, and then try to maintain decentness in front of others. She can do nothing, and can only try her best to maintain her failure to collapse. Because of this, she will be more painful because of her powerlessness. Even after becoming Chen Xing's vice president, the last thing he had to do for Luo Zijun was to fire Ling Ling and exclaim his anger for each other.
And He Han and Luo Zijun's behavior seemed to be the evil person, she was the evil person who was reluctant to let go, causing the pain of the three people. It turned out that from the beginning to the end, Tang Jing was the outsider. Because she was too strong and rarely showed weakness, the occasionally collapsed turned her into an aggressive person. She could not give generous blessings, and she became a villain who could not stand the lovers finally got married.
On the other hand, Luo Zijun does not understand the limits and boundaries. She is not as capable as Tang Jing to restrain herself from seeking help from others. She is not truly independent. Instead, she has been growing up without pain under the shade of He Han. After working hard for so long, she is still based on the help of He Han and Tang Jing. It took Tang Jing ten years to make herself look effortless. Luo Zijun just made herself helpless and pitiful, so she easily got what others wanted. In the past, she was protected by Chen Junsheng, and later, she was protected by He Han. Whether it was work or relationship, her success was left unrealized, making people feel that it was unreasonable.
Poor Tang Jing felt like a jumping clown from beginning to end, working hard to manage everything, but instead lost the friendship and love she valued the most. She lost He Han and Luo Zijun.
He Han gave up everything for Luo Zijun, left the familiar city, and gave up his career that he had worked hard for many years. He was "crazy" because nothing is more important than Luo Zijun. When he went to Luo Zijun's world, the two of them would meet again, and then only Tang Jing was left. Tang Jing worked hard for ten years and was still the same person!
Tang Jing said: I am free now, and I no longer have to live the way he likes. To be precise, it is the way I thought he likes.
Lao Zhuo said: In this life, some people will know until they die, and some people will know until they die, who loves themselves.
Chen Jieyi Once said: It is not so much an end, but rather a new beginning, because a broken love is always due to some problems in that relationship, human problems or environmental problems, and there will be a new way to go ahead.
The road ahead is long, the future is promising, don’t remember the past, live up to the present, and don’t fear the future. I believe that Tang Jing will meet someone who really takes her to heart. May time be gentle to Tang Jing.
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