In life, there are many men and women, from getting to know each other, and then falling in love, they get along with each other, and the parents of both sides are satisfied, but while they are excited and expectant, they also add a hint of worry! They are afraid that the two people before and after marriage will be the same? If the same is true before and after marriage, then it is OK, but what if you are a saint before marriage and become a scumbag after marriage?
In fact, what is life after marriage? It’s hard to say. If you know in advance, are there so many divorces? So is there a way to experience and try your life after marriage in advance to see if both parties are suitable for getting married? Of course there is! This method is that two people can travel multiple times before marriage.
Two people can discuss travel plans, for example, where is the most suitable place to travel? How to prepare during travel? Things to pay attention to during travel? spend? Hotel level? Travel routes, etc.? Through their respective attitudes and tone of expressing opinions and discussing plans, the two people's living habits, hobbies and consumption levels, integration of opinions, tolerance, and their tempers.
Through these real situational drills, you can roughly predict the degree of relationship between two people after marriage. If the gap between opinions, temper and attitudes is large, it means that the two people may get along with each other after marriage; on the contrary, if the gap between opinions, temper and attitudes can be consistent, or the difference is small, it means that they can get along with each other after marriage!
Generally speaking, two people before marriage are masked people in the process of getting along with each other, and they will hide their shortcomings and deficiencies; both parties deliberately show their best side in their words and behaviors; but during the journey, both parties are relatively relaxed, and all their living performances and living conditions in real life can make it easier for both parties to understand their true appearance in life!
You may also contact and deal with other people of all kinds during your journey; you may also encounter some unexpected things. By contacting and dealing with these people and dealing with the attitude of dealing with things, you can understand your respective behaviors, words, attitudes, tempers, personality and emotional control abilities.
accommodation during travel, the level of the hotel? What is the cost of dining? ;Is it cohabitation? Or sleep separately, etc.? By expressing your attitude in choosing these things, you can feel the true appearance of your future life.
In short, practice more before marriage and simulate the real scenes of married life. Through all the real performances of each other in these living life scenes, you can roughly predict the life situation after marriage.
