There are many ways to express love, and everyone will choose the one that suits them best.
Some people have more restrained love. They are unwilling to say too many sweet words, but just silently pay for you with their actions.
There are also some people whose love is more ostentatious. When they fall in love with you, they want everyone to see the love and happiness between you.
But no matter which way to express love, when the other person "loves you to the core", he often keeps a few words on his lips.
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"What do you think? I want to listen to your opinion"
What is the most important thing in intimate relationships?
Some people say it is frank, some say it is loyal, some say it is love, and some say it is tacit understanding.
These are all important, but the most important thing is respect and communication.
Respect each other and are willing to communicate with you.
The person who can do this really loves you.
This reminds me of a consulting case.
A wife left a message saying that her husband was particularly macho.
The two have been married for 3 years, and she has endured her husband for 3 years and wants to burst out at any time.
What made her angry the most was that the two of them took wedding photos and held weddings in the form of their husbands making decisions and did not give her any chance to discuss. She endured all these things.
What's even more bizarre is that the house they bought after marriage was handed over. During the renovation, her husband secretly made a decision with the decoration company and did not communicate with her.
What she was angry was that her husband was not willing to respect her at all.
Have you ever had similar experiences in love?
When a partner does something, he rarely communicates with you or discusses with you.
Even if it involves the common interests of both of you, he rarely discusses with you, but makes his own decisions.
This behavior is disrespect for you.
You will feel like "I was ignored".
A relationship, if you don’t consider the other party, don’t respect the other party’s ideas and opinions, and just do your own thing; then such a relationship will be difficult to last for a long time.
Only those who truly love you will say to you, “I want to hear your opinions.”
This shows that he respects you and looks forward to your participation.
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"It doesn't matter, I'm by your side"
"Company is the longest confession"
deeply agrees with it.
No matter how sweet you say to you, every time you encounter trouble or crisis, he never wants to be by your side. Love like
is hypocritical, pretended, meaningless.
What do people who are used to drawing big pies for you often do?
always promises you, but rarely fulfills it;
often promises you various things, but never lets you see one thing happening;
promises you a future, but leaves you halfway. People like
are unreliable, and what they say is also unreliable.
What will people who love you do?
They love you and will always be by your side.
This reminds me of a story.
Boys and girls have a long-distance relationship. They want to give each other a surprise without telling each other.
That was the anniversary of the two of them being together.
The boy called and told the girl: "I can't go over to celebrate the holiday with you, I'm going on a business trip temporarily."
And the girl called the boy and said, "I don't have time, I have something to do when I want to go back to my hometown."
Then, the two of them tacitly appeared in each other's city one day in advance.
Both of them were stunned when they called to communicate again. Although
made a mistake, it was a manifestation of love between the two people.
The other party may not be that outstanding, but he is silently by your side.
supports you, encourages you, and praises you.
Maybe he doesn’t have that many sweet words, but he will express his love to you with practical actions every time.
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"You are really great"
What the world in your eyes looks like depends on your mentality.
Similarly, what a lover looks like depends on your starting point and the degree of your relationship.
People who don’t love you are never willing to praise you.
On the contrary, they always accuse you, belittle you, and blow your self-confidence.
No matter what you do, say, or achieve what you have achieved, they are unwilling to praise you or recognize you.
Such love makes you become cautious and exhausted over time.
However, those who truly love you will never treat you like this.
What will people who love you to the core treat you?
He will praise you, appreciate you, and encourage you and support you from the bottom of his heart.
Even if you mess up something and cause some losses to you, he will still comfort you as soon as possible instead of blame you.
The most important way to manage feelings is to praise and appreciate.
You must find the shining points in your partner from the bottom of your heart, try to praise him, recognize him, and support him.
And after the other party receives your praise, he will give you more love.
For example:
When parents communicate with their children, praise and recognition are always more effective than sarcasm.
When you praise your child, he will have more motivation;
When you accuse him of belittling him, he will not only lose motivation, but also easily become inferior.
Once you understand this principle, you will understand how to get along with the other person.
Today’s topic:
How do you express love between you?
