Everyone hopes that their love can last forever. Just like the vow at the wedding, both of them can stick to it consistently, but there are also things that are not satisfactory. Even the best love is, there is a possibility of breaking up. Not all couples can hold hands all the time, otherwise there will be no separation, and the words "feeling hurts".
Just like when a woman faces past love, she always gets into trouble, cannot completely let go of her persistence in emotions, and always has some fantasies. Since you chose to break up, there is no need to bother you anymore. Since you can't save it, you shouldn't let go and leave yourself with dignity and not let men have self-righteous fantasies. Since we break up, we should just break it thoroughly. We should not look back on the past, and we should not settle down in the future. We should not ask for three questions and make a break.
01: But if you ask about the current
relationship, it is easy to make people entangled. When you are together, you are used to random thoughts and still keep thinking about it after separation. Even though you know that it cannot be saved, why waste time to make yourself feel hurt? If you break up, break up and clarify your attitude, so as to move forward towards the next happiness.
Just like after a woman breaks up with a man, she will habitually pay attention to the current position of a man and will unconsciously compare herself with the current position of a man.
In fact, this is an obvious psychological effect, a completely useless psychological hint of . You must understand this truth: whether a man’s current job is good or not has nothing to do with himself now, and there is no need to inquire through his former friends.
Whether the current person is good or not has nothing to do with you. That is the man’s own business. There are only two possibilities. One is that the current person is better than you. The facts have once again verified the man’s vision. From then on, the two of them will live a better life than you before, and you can only envy, jealousy and hate.
One is that the current person is not as good as you. This time I finally relieved your hatred. If you live a life worse than you, it means that a man is destined to be a loser emotionally. As an ex, you are at most slightly psychologically balanced, but so what? What cannot be recovered is still irreversible. It is better to come and have a simple one, not ask, not think, not recite, and completely worship the past. Let a man regret it after he realizes and never give him the chance to underestimate you. So everything about his ex, just ask, is to let go of the best way to the past.
02: But ask about the status quo
In the face of love, women are always used to investing all their feelings, so when facing failed love, they increase their own damage value. Even if they are separated, they will find it difficult to calm down their inner pain for a long time.
After all, two people have been together for so long, and some memories will inevitably be retained. These memories are the little things of the past. After breaking up, they can only become each other's past. No matter how you recall me or what I think of you through, women must first learn to no longer pay attention to everything about their ex. Even if they cannot be as strange as possible, they must try not to participate in their present.
Too much attention can only mean that you still have him in your heart and can't let him go, making him feel that you can't live without him, and making yourself cheap in his heart.
How a man’s current situation has nothing to do with you, that is something that his current employee is still concerned about. Whether it is good or bad has nothing to do with you. As long as you are responsible for making your future life well, being worthy of yourself and not letting down your current employee is what a woman should do most at the moment.
can't let go but I'm unwilling to give up on the past and always want to win a game for myself. The relationship is just like a person knows the warmth and coldness of water. He doesn't need to compare his life well. The current situation of his ex has nothing to do with you.
03: But ask about the circle of friends
Since men and women break up, they should be broken completely. Any ambiguity will become a hint of being connected, and a regret that is unattainable.
communication method can be blocked, but the first two mutual friends cannot be unconnected. Whenever you open WeChat, you will find that he has appeared in the circle of friends of friends. Even if you don’t want to follow him or know his recent situation, you will also get a general idea in the circle of friends.
Because each other's past will make you react subconsciously. Two people have been together for so long, and they can also know one or two through mutual understanding. Therefore, the best way is to connect with your former friends and block them together. Otherwise, those pictures and dynamics will always evoke your memories of the past and help you think of them from time to time.
Since you have thought about it, then go thoroughly. Don’t always hesitate. That will make you passive in your relationship. You should know that no matter how smart a person is, he will become childish in love. Perhaps one day in the future, when you think about it, you will feel that you will hate your original excessive entanglement and fail to decisively block the past.
There is an emotion called "can't be cut and still messy", and there is a feeling called "drinking sorrow with alcohol and drowning sorrow even more sorrowful". These thoughts that chaotic people's minds will always become painful existences in life. If you want to avoid it, you can only choose to let go decisively.
