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Gorky said: "Wisdom always sees things with a thousand eyes, and love often sees people with a single eye."
Everyone hopes to become powerful, but some people work hard but have little effect; some people succeed easily.
Good steel is used on the blade and manpower is used on the idea. If it weren't for this, it might be a mess.
Therefore, we must learn to wait and see, grasp the "seven inches" of things, find the crux of the problem, and discover truth, goodness and beauty.
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Observe others and understand the intention.
" Hundred Battles of Strange Fa " says: "The law says, the army attacks the plan."
The best way to defeat the opponent is to figure out the opponent's strategy and then defeat it.
Spring and Autumn , Duke of Jinping wanted to attack Qi State and sent envoy Fan Zhao to inquire about the situation.
Qi Jinggong warmly welcomed Fan Zhao, ministers Yan Zi accompanied him, and the Grand Tutor played music himself.
Fan Zhao said: "I want to drink with Gong Jing's cup; I want to listen to Gong Gong dance music ..."
Yan Zi decisively withdrew Gong Jing's cup of Gong Qi; the Grand Master replied that he was not familiar with Gong Gong's songs.
Fan Zhao returned to Jin and said, "You can't attack Qi. According to observation, Qi is united, Yan Zi knows how to respond, and the Taishi strictly abides by etiquette."
In ancient times, there was a strict hierarchy system for hospitality. Fan Zhao was an envoy, and Zhou Gong was a king, and the envoy could not enjoy the treatment of a king.
The struggle between people is not groundless, but premeditated. If you want to control the situation, you must react when others are planning, and not wait for others to plan.
That is to say, keep things in the bud and have the best chance of winning.
has a word called "test". Use some methods to use fake and real methods to test the opponent's strength, reaction, etc. to know the details. If you find that the other party is unfathomable after testing, stop in time.
When you know the opponent's background, you can adjust your strategy in time, things can go further and take a step back. The confidence of success will naturally increase.
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Observe yourself and find yourself.
Someone said: "City is a place where millions of people live alone together."
It is true that the more people there are, the easier it is to lose yourself. With strange faces everywhere, people will feel lonely, confused, and at a loss.
Therefore, powerful people will always be alone. When you are lonely, reflect on yourself and find yourself.
The writer Thoreau mustered up the courage to resign and wanted to support himself by writing, but his words were not favored by the editor; the woman he liked also left him and married another; his brother left forever... A series of setbacks made him feel in pain.
In a dilemma, Thoreau went to Walden and started a lonely journey. A man who opened up wasteland, built houses, farmed land, and read books finally achieved success - he wrote a book called "Walden", which was very popular among society.
"Because in this world, people just need to close their eyes and turn their direction and they will get lost." Thoreau wrote in the book.
Zengzi said: "I examine myself three times a day: Are you unfaithful when you plan for others? Do you not believe in your friends? Are you not familiar with them?"
spend some time every day to observe yourself. Is the direction right? What changes have occurred in words and deeds? Any friends around you? What did you do to people?
Give yourself a few more "question marks" and make assumptions a few more times. Over time, you will get used to adjusting yourself and organizing your mood every day. When I woke up, I was full of energy the next day.
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Observe the details and prescribe the right medicine.
"Baijia Forum" magazine records an intriguing story: During World War II , a German scout gang mixed into the Soviet army. No matter how you test him, you can answer the questions smoothly without any flaws.
Just when the review was in trouble, someone found that the scout's ID was made of a stainless steel stapler. The Soviet army used ordinary stapling needles.
The ancients said: "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step; a tree that is embraced grows in a tiny bit."
What can make a person fail is often not a grand event, but a small event. It's like an ant destroying a dam.
Businessman Fred Turner once said: "Our success shows that our competitors are because they lack deep attention to details."
Because others do not observe carefully, but their own observations are meticulous enough, forming a sharp contrast and also allowing themselves to achieve great success. This is a business acumen and a business opportunity.
In work, the focus is on - slow work produces meticulous work. If you are impatient, you will do things very quickly, but you will also fall into trouble because of certain details. For example, a data table will lose all the market and start over because of an incorrect number.
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Observe the past and learn lessons.
Most people believe in the principle of "let the past".
No one can live in yesterday, let alone go back to yesterday. Therefore, we must let go of yesterday.
In fact, today's height is based on yesterday. If you forget all yesterday, it may lead to a poor foundation.
The ancients said: "Use ancient times as a mirror, you can know the rise and fall."
For example, in the Spring and Autumn Period, Wu Kingdom was very powerful, Yue Kingdom was very weak, but Yue Kingdom eventually defeated Wu Kingdom. The important reason is that the Yue State reused Fan Li and Wenzhong, while the Wu State did not appoint Wu Zixu . The methods of using talents are different; the king attaches different importance to talents.
From the fight between Wu and Yue, it is not difficult to find that if you want to achieve a unit, you must attract talents. Therefore, many units now have positions in , recruit talents regularly, and hold "Zhuge Liang Meetings".
If you observe the past thoroughly, you will not fall into a pit twice in a row.
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If a person wants to continue to become powerful, he cannot fight alone all the time, he must learn to borrow strength.
Whose power can be borrowed needs careful observation. If you mistakenly treat villains as good people, it will hurt yourself; if you misjudgment the trend of social development, you will lose opportunities; if you underestimate or overestimate the strength of your opponents, the competition will fail; if you can't see yourself clearly, you will be trapped in your own cocoon.
There is a saying that when you study things, you will know, and a leaf will know autumn.
Those who can continue to rise are not that they are particularly powerful or capable, but that they are good at observing and discover a glimmer of hope from the intricate relationships and hold on to them.
Learn to observe calmly, don’t be anxious, take your time.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
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