What is love? The explanation in the
dictionary is that love is a kind of mutual admiration and mutual affection between men and women.
In fact, the word love should be explained accurately by turning to the nature of the primitive animal.
Although humans are better than other animals, the essence of love is no different from other animals. It cannot be said that humans have love because they are higher than the level, while lower animals have no love because they are lower than the level.
So, what is love?
Love - In fact, it is a kind of emotion that makes men and women (male and female) love each other for the purpose of pursuing sexual pleasure.
Love only requires two factors: one, for sex; two, like.
If there is sex between men and women and they don’t like it, it is at most considered to fulfill the needs of the body. For example, rape, prostitution, cheating, and blindfolded parties in certain entertainment venues. However, in the process of pure sex, it is also very likely that people will suddenly change into love because of their liking for each other. This is why some men in ancient times suddenly wanted to marry a prostitute when they were soliciting prostitutes.
If men and women just like each other and have nothing to do with sex, it belongs to family, friendship, classmate, comrades, etc. However, in this kind of emotion, in addition to family affection, friendship, classmate, comrades and other feelings are the most confusing and dangerous feelings. In these feelings, once a love relationship develops between the opposite sex, this kind of feelings is the easiest to cover up the possible elements of love. Of course, even if love is hidden in this kind of relationship, it is basically a unilateral love. Single love is only a broken love, and there is no question of a semi-finished product of love. Taiwanese martial arts novelist Gu Long said that there is no pure friendship between men and women. Although this sentence is more insightful, it is not accurate. This sentence should be changed to: Once the friendship between men and women is mixed with the elements of their favorites, friendship will be smuggled in the direction of love. Men and women may dislike each other, but friendships such as classmates can exist completely.
From the above, we can see that in today's era, although love is broken beyond recognition by material desires, love always exists. It’s just that love is becoming more and more fragile and short-lived, increasingly untested, and increasingly disappointing, making people willing to deny her existence.
In addition, since people's understanding of love has been influenced by fine traditions since ancient times, people always like to describe love by the terms of loyalty, unity and chastity, just as only the love between men and women who are loyal and unity is called love. Little do they know that since ancient times, this kind of love integrity and chastity have been produced under the harsh moral monitoring and the confinement of many harsh village rules and regulations. Nowadays, morality and civil rules have long lost all their husbands, and it no longer has any restraint on people's behavior, which has led to love becoming increasingly popular, flirting with each other, and not being loyal to the truth.
In fact, love does not matter how long it is. It’s not about growing old together, love that lasts forever is love. Love is often manifested quite short-lived or even fleeting. For example, in daily life, a pair of men and women who are walking against each other suddenly have a heart-pounding reaction due to short-term eyes. This can be defined as love at first sight. However, because the time for spiritual communication between the two parties was too short, it eventually turned into a glimpse. In other words, if you meet each other, you will meet each other without the chance to meet each other. If they are destined to be together for a long time, there is no doubt that a relationship is about to be born. If they had been married early, that extramarital affair would have been likely to have occurred. Love at first sight, or love over time, is the foundation of love, and it is also the culprit of extramarital affair in this era.
One of the greatest sorrows of this era is that social morality has long been wiped out. The entire society lacks moral supervision. Men and women, regardless of marriage or not, have their personal feelings and are arrogant in nature. As a result, the scandals such as laughing at the poor but not prostitutes, , girls playing uncles, old cows eating young grass, rich women taking young meat, etc., are all regarded by men and women as a great and admirable beauty.
In today's society, short-lived marriages and playful love have definitely become a unique fashion and scenery of this era.
Black and white are inverted, and right and wrong are inseparable, making it increasingly difficult for the world to figure out what the hell is love.
