Many people are particularly looking forward to marriage! But many people still choose to be single, afraid of having a bad partner, which makes their lives too sad. Men are worried about marrying someone with princess disease, and women are worried about marrying someone who is irresponsible. Although they yearn for love and happiness that are in harmony with each other, they are worried about meeting people in bad ways, which makes everyone discouraged. In fact, the ancients had many opinions on marriage, one of which said, "Men married iron broom , and the family was defeated and their children were not prosperous." Can you understand the meaning?
What kind of family is the best
With the transformation of social structure, women who are more independent in economy are no longer willing to be housewives, want to have a more independent space and show their charm in life. In fact, many people have misunderstandings about the ancient life of "the male leads to the outside and the female leads to the inside". The female lead does not mean that they do not go out to activities outside, but women are born to be better at managing families. In ancient times, there was no industry to manage those big families, and women also needed to go out, but most of their energy was spent on the inside of the family, so that so many families were formed.
The so-called male protagonist is just that the men in the family need to work hard outside and provide more economic protection for the family, so that the family can better establish themselves in society. Only by cooperating well between husband and wife can we really stand together, run the family together and move forward in a happier direction, pass it on to their children, and let this family become the backbone of society. such a family with a kind father and a filial son and a family heritage is a better life that people yearn for.
Iron broom cannot marry
When we get married, everyone will have their own standard. The ancients often used a "beauty and beauty" to express their disapproval of a certain type of marriage partner. It is not that it is said that being very good-looking is called beauty and beauty. After all, the beauty and beauty of Western Jin Jia Nanfeng is said to be extremely ugly. This is actually a disaster in everyone's eyes. To endanger the safety of the big family and the rise and fall of the small family is called "broom star". Compared with most people, the beauty and beauty is a disaster.
"The Fisherman's and Woodcutter's Record" says, "You are an iron broom, you have swept away his house." In ancient times, many times, broom star was accused of being a person who can cause disasters. This actually has a lot to do with Jiang Ziya . According to legend, Jiang Ziya was a willing man who took the bait, but his wife could not bear the poverty and left . Unexpectedly, Jiang Ziya took charge of the list of gods and helped the Zhou royal family to promote Zhou and destroy Zhou and become the co-lord of the world. After the war between Shang and Zhou, Jiang Ziya's ex-wife Ma came to her, and Jiang Ziya had no choice but to seal her a broom star. From then on, the broom star was synonymous with bad luck and bad luck.
The meaning of the other half
People may not have been smooth all the time, but they must be accompanied by someone to move forward. Only the ancients would say that one of the four happy events in life is the wedding night. When you are on the road ahead, whether it is failure or success, someone will encourage you to share with you. What a beautiful thing . However, if you have a wife like an "iron broom", leaves you when you are in a downturn and return when you make a comeback, it is impossible for you to live with such a wife for a long time.
Two people are most afraid of having the same bed and dreams. Find a wife who can only share the joys and sorrows with you. Such a family has no soul, and if there is a little bit of trouble, it will fall apart. A wife like cannot educate her children well. The ancients said, "Morality has been passed down for more than ten generations." Such egoists cannot grow up with others, so people lament that "a man marrys an iron broom, and the family will not prosper."
Conclusion
Marriage is when two people swear together, hearts and hearts really go together. No one's life is smooth sailing. Only those who work hard will understand the difficulty of life. But there are always self-interested people who package themselves well, and they will give you the worst blow until you encounter difficulties. If you want to get married, you must be prepared to face those ordinary trivial matters together. If you want to keep going, you must learn to be patient and dull and fight in setbacks.
