"You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must be careful of others."
Don't think about harming others, but don't trust others too much.
The world is full of wonders. We live in a safe environment, but there are many people who commit crimes.
So there are good people in this world, and bad people in this world. Don’t think about harming others, but beware of others.
The ancients said:
"The one who is close to the red is red, and the one who is close to the ink is black."
Don't be with people with bad intentions, otherwise you will be led to the destruction or even harmed by others. You must distinguish between bad people and good people.
Most people who play bad things have these four characteristics. One can see them accurately:
01. Taking advantage of others
01. An event was held in the square some time ago. There were many gifts in the event. These gifts were not eye-catching, but many people snatched them.
One of the old ladies snatched them several times. When they went to snatch them for the last time, the last item was taken away by a person in front of them. So the old ladies were very angry. They grabbed the other person's hair and pressed the other person to the ground, trying to grab the thing.
Fortunately, the old lady was not very strong and was pulled away by the people around her.
often hear a saying on the Internet:
"Bad people are getting older."
This is not a kind of discrimination against the elderly. In fact, sometimes, some people are unreasonable and always want to take advantage of others.
Sometimes the elderly take advantage of the situation, and everyone will endure it because they are old after all. But if there is a young man around you who is so unreasonable, then you will not be able to bear it, which is enough to show that this person is petty and difficult to get along with.
02. Behind people
Sanmao said:
"I hate people who say I am bad in front of me, but now I like people like such people very much."
People are not afraid of people who say you are bad in front of you. What we are afraid of is stabbing you in the back.
Some people stab you in the back, but they pretend to be very kind on the surface. There is a news on the headlines of
:
A colleague has a good relationship with another colleague. One day, 40,000 yuan was lost in the unit, but it was found in a colleague's bag, so the colleague was sentenced to six years in prison.
But this colleague said that he did not steal. After five years, this incident was exposed. It turned out that he was his good friend who secretly put the money in his backpack, causing him to be wronged.
This incident is a real story. I have to say that people nowadays are very scary. On the surface, it seems to be your good friend, but when it hurts people, it kills people without blood.
This person was finally fired from the unit, or even expelled from his alma mater, so sometimes it is harmful to others and yourself. Such a person is suffering from the consequences and there is no need to sympathize with him.
When you don’t recognize people, you may be framed by the people around you, and sometimes you can only eat coptis chinensis if you are a mute person.
03. Like to please
Kongqiu said:
"A gentleman is worried about the way and not about poverty."
There is a lot of content that doesn't get along with others, because these two people don't speak for speculation.
Some people have something to ask for, so they pretend to talk to others, and invest at this time to chat according to other people's thinking to win others' favor. People call such people a dog leg, and dog leg has no self-esteem.
If a person likes to be someone else's baddies and always wants to please others, then such a person cannot be close to you.
For a certain interest relationship, the person who makes you lose your self-esteem is unhealthy deep down. If you have a smooth life, this person will come to curry favor with you. Don’t believe it. When you are in a relatively frustrated life, the other party will leave you and let you suffer a double blow.
People who like to please others must stay away from it.
When others experience some hardships, don’t put down the blame; when others are having a smooth life, don’t try to get something from others by currying about it.
04. Sweet mouth and sweet tongue
As the saying goes:
"A good word warms up in three winters, and bad words hurt people in six months."
Although that is the case, sometimes if a person speaks sweet words against his conscience, then such a person is a very bad person.
For example, a person has many shortcomings. When you find that you have shortcomings, the other party also says that your shortcomings are actually advantages, which allows you to infinitely amplify this shortcomings, and finally make you doom yourself, receive corresponding punishment, or suffer losses.
Then such a person is a person who takes advantage of your shortcomings and kills you. Don’t look at this person and praise you on your lips. In fact, it is to make you become more and more arrogant and hurt yourself in the end.
So when you see someone saying sweet words to you, you must see clearly what kind of person the other party is. If the other party encounters something important, the above choice has already chosen to protect himself.
or when encountering some economic benefits, choose to get more, then such a person is unreliable.
Most people with bad minds have the above four characteristics. On the surface, it seems to be a good thing, but you will think that the other person is a good person. In fact, you don’t know if you are harmed by the other person.
